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Hello, my name is Mary. I'm a 21 year old student, studying to be a counselor. I'm still young but I feel like I've had enough life experiences to answer any questions you may have. I still have some things to learn, but feel free to ask me anything, don't be shy! I'll answer as soon as possible, and I'll try my best to give you the best advice!Hakuna Mata - It means no worries, for the rest of your days. :)
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alright so im a guy and im 16. well my bestfriend and i have been tight since we were like 7, and its always been tough for him (and me) cos his sister is HOT. (she's 16 too, they're twins). and i mean ive always been attracted to her, but ive never made a move cuz shes like off limits ya know? anyway, i went over to his place the other day but he wasnt there and i kind of just ended up chilling with her. shes a really cool chick and since then weve hung out a few times but my buddy doesnt know about it... and i mean i think i really like her (i havent even put my hands on her yet) and i want to ask her out on a legit date but jesus, i do not want to deal with my friend. its pretty out of charachter for me to not fool around with a girl i like so i know that my friend is going to automatically assume that ive been on her if he hears that ive been hanging with her. so im really stuck now. she wants me to ask her out, but her brother is super protective and im scared it might ruin our friendship and/or he'll kick my ass. bros before hoes? i dont know. any advice would be great, thanks.
my boyfriend says: really strong friendships would last many years and losing that, isn't worth hooking up with someone that's really hot. if it might be okay to be friends with her, and maybe get to know her.. and that's the only way you can find out if that is a meaningful relationship.
my advice: if your friend, i know this may sound very corny and all... but true. yeah, i know the quote "bros before hoes" but, i honestly think that if he was your best friend and you want to be with his twin sister, he should let you. i mean.. this may sound gay and all.. but seriously be honest with your best friend before it gets way too out of hand and he's going to think that you've been hiding this from him for a long time. and actually tell him that you really do like his sister. and if he was your best friend, he would support you and his sister. (:
hi i have a big issue not to long a go i had givin head for the first time an im so scared my friends are saying that i can get pregnant from swolling his cum im so scared can u help me ohh an im 13 aN MY NAME IS KALYN
no, you can not get pregnant for swallowing his cum or giving oral. the only way you can get pregnant is that his cum is like, RIGHT at your vagina.
I know this sounds random but I have been thinking about sleeping with My boyfriend and he would be My first.
The thing is he has told Me he is also a virgin, but for some reason I can't quite believe him, I trust him about everything else but I just can't get My head around that he is a virgin, because he isn't the type of boy who appears to be and his mates are always going on about who they have recently slept with.
I really don't know what to believe.
Secondly if I was to sleep with him and he was a virgin, would he know what he was doing because I personally don't have a clue, I'm shy and easily embarrassed. I've been in a relationship with him for a while but still don't feel I know him that well.
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If you're questioning whether to do it or not, don't do it unless you're sure about it.
Lol, just because his friends aren't virgins doesn't mean that he's not. I mean try to believe this, I had a boyfriend who had an ex girlfriend for 2 years, and he's still a virgin. He had his own reasons, along with my current boyfriend. My current boyfriend's reason was because he knew she wasn't the one for him. And my past boyfriend, his reason was because they both weren't ready even though it's been 2 years.
You should just talk to him about it, tell him how you feel. For me, i just approached it like "are you sure you're not a virgin?" etc. etc... LOL!
Usually, when guys are virgins.. either way, they know what they're doing. I don't know how.. but it just comes naturally to them, that's what i'm thinking.
well i went out with this guy and we have been on and off for like a year , he is all i ever thing about . But on new years eve we broke up for stupid reasons .It broke my heart beacause i love him so much. People say " he treated you soo bad just forget about him " but the thing is i cant and dont really want to . We havent been together
for about 5 months and i saw him the other night and he told me to my face that he had no feeling for me and it broke me ive been crying for 2 days now and the pain wont stop .. what do i do? i want him but he doesnt want me?
I've been through that before too, it's pretty tough. Usually your friends would see how he treated you before, and you don't notice it because you love that person so much. You really should forget about it, sooner or later he's going to regret letting you go in the first place. You shouldn't be with someone that treated you badly, don't fight for someone that won't fight for you. It takes more than one person to work it out, and if he's just going to be stubborn. It's not worth your time. Usually the saying "Time is medicine" is really annoying, but true. I moved on later on.. and you will too, you'll find someone else better than him. And i promise you, you won't regret it.
Okay well heres the story .. ill try and keep it short.. im a teenager and ive been with my guy for over 3 months now.. and recently all of the group went out. Now theres alot of us.. maybe 30 all together?!
and the thing is.. my guy really likes me .. well .. he says he loves me .. like Really loves me .. but i dont know why i just dont feel the same way anymore?! .. is that what usually happens?
i mean i danced with him that night .. but towards the the end of the night i was thinking do i really want to be with him .. and i ddnt spk to him for a good solid hour, i didnt even dance with him!.. everytime he came up to me .. i said can i be left alone! Ive thought about this before.. 'do i really want to be with him'
For some odd reason i just cant understand myself, i spoke to my friends about it, and they said i should think about it before i do anything!
Im sooo confused.. he even said to me the next day online.. are you okay with me.. i feel like im loosing you! I just didnt know what to say!...
Can anyone help? =]
Honestly, i think this is actually pretty normal. I'm exactly like that all the time! You should listen to your friends, think about it before you do anything. Usually, when this happens, you think you lost feelings for that one person. But after you lose them, all the feelings start coming back.. and you'll realize that you really do like them. My sister always says it's because you're starting to get tired of them, in a way. So basically, you should try getting some space.. Talk to him about it. Then think it over.
how bad does it hurt when a girl loses her virginity? is it REALLY painful?
and i also heard that sometimes the girl bleeds, but then some of my friends told me that they didn't...so when do you bleed?
and does it ever hurt the second time?
honestly, i didn't bleed on my first time. the thing is that, girls that bleed the first time is a small percentage. if you don't, it's normal. it wouldn't hurt the first or second time if you're lubricant or if the guy fingers you for a while, so it wouldn't hurt as much. mine, didn't hurt the first or second time. (: hope that helped.
I've been with my boyfriend for 3 months now im not sure about him and i dont know if i should call it quit by his behavior.his always broke have bad hygiene(unbrushed teeth)his too emotional he does eveything i ask him to even if it was a joke he has made it clear that he wont break up with me no matter what.example one day i was @ his house in his room and i told him not to sit on the bed or lay next to me he listened and stood there he never stands up to me even if i'm wrong i pretty much need him to act like a man .
well, all about this.. have you talked to him about it? even about his hygiene? if he likes you enough, he would act like a man and will brush his teeth and stuff like that for you.
if you did talk to him about it, and he doesn't change.. and you have a problem w/ it still, then i think it'll be best if you end it.
or if you don't think you like him anymore, end it there too.. but you wouldn't notice that you like him until AFTER you break up w/ him.
just makes sure you talk to him about it before you jump ahead.
I have worked with this guy for over 9 months and we work in different departments. He comes into my department alot to look up stuff for his job and I catch him looking at me often. But when I smile or look back he quickly looks away. He talks to everyone else in my department but me. I am somewhat shy and do not know what to say to him but I really like him. I know he is single because he came to our Work Christmas Party alone and he kept staring at me there too!! If anyone thinks he like me back then what can I say or do to make him talk to me?
i think he does like you.. he's probably really shy to talk to you. maybe you should try making the first move and say hi, and see how obvious it is from there.. LOL
So, say if you were going out with someone for 10 months. Then they started talking to this person, and looking at porn online together and they talked about her masturbation, and she asked how big he was and they'd constantly make sexual jokes to each other.. would you get jealous? Would you be extremely mad? Well that's what happened to me and my boyfriend. I had trust issues for a while and then they stopped talking for about a month and so i thought it would get better. Then, after a month, he and she started talking again. I got jealous, again, obv.. and i broke up with him. He said he was still in love with me (he's had really strong feelings for me for a few years now) and so when i was contemplating on going back out with him he told he didnt want to talk to her anymore because he feared it'd get like before. So, now she's going around and telling people that im too jealous and that im a control freak when i mean, it was well deserved because i cared/ care about him so much. Do you think im in the right, or is she? Do you think i should confront her about this (oh, and by the way, me and the girl had been best friends for a few years before that.)
well that's soo obvious that he likes you alot.. that was wrong if she was your bestfriend years ago also. but i'd rather say she's not really your friend either, she can't blame you.. she should put herself in your spot.. of course she'd be jealous.. so that's an obvious answer.. it's not your fault. it'd be totally uncomfortable, you can try to confront her about it and see what she says.. if she starts being a bitch, that's not your problem.
i'm going on sort of a double date thing on friday. Its going to be me and my boyfriend and my friend and her boyfriend going to the movies.My boyfriend and i haven't kissed yet and he said he was gunna kiss me in the movie. This will be my first kiss. Wat should i do?????
Thanx in advance
don't worry about it, when i had my first kiss.. i was nervous. everyone is, just try your best to relax.. and let him make the move, and just go with the flow. everything is gonna be alright. (:
me and my boyfriend have been dating a month and like two weeks. he always tells me he likes me soo much and he gets jealous easily when im with my guy friends so i know he likes me. im his first girlfriend soo yea i know he cares. well we joke around with eachother alot like sometimes we are mean joking and sometimes we're playful so i cant really tell when hes kidding or not...but anyway, like a week ago he was like i made out with a girl she was hott. im like ohh thats cute and i thought he was kidding and all this stuff..and we didnt talk about it..but then today on the bus my friend blake (who sometimtes jokes around too) told me that tyler(my boyfriend) made out with this chick like a week ago. and i remembered tyler telling me he did. but i thought he was kidding? soo whats going on? what should i do..are they messing with me or what. i have no idea..
what me & my sister has to say is, you should ask them if they were playing around or not. if they weren't you know what to do. if it ends up to be bad.. baby girl you can find a better guy than that. :]
If your on your period.. and the boy stays inside of you and doesnt pull out can you be pregnant?
we did that about five times on my period.
usually there's a really low chance of getting pregnant, but there's still a chance to get pregnant. so i'd rather say use a condom. lol
(question for females)
does it really hurt the first time you have sex or do people jsut over exaggerate????
some people are different, just like the person said below me. but if they finger you first before doing it you won't really feel anything. without fingering you and just sticks it in you, yeahh.. it'll hurt, it's just not painful.. it'll just hurt a little bit, but then it'll be over once it's in. :]
okay so last night i gave this guy a blow job and he didn't skeet? did i do it wrong? and also he fingered me a lot and it hurt so bad and didn't feel good at all .. is this normal?
lol, i think that when most guys get blow jobs... they LIKE it.. or LOVE it. suck at it or not.. it's like as long as you did it.. they're pleased.. hahaha, trust me on this dear.. i think they do. most guys don't skeet when you give them a blow job, you should probably ask him how does he like it. :] and being fingered.. yes it's normal if it hurts.
Alright...Im a 15/f
I have a boyfriend of almost 4 months now. and known eachother since 7th grade.
I love him....
i just dont know if i like him.
When i talk to him....Sometimes i get pissed off and he hasnt really even done anything im just sick of talking to him. and then theres times where he deserves me to be mad at him and i just cant be.
I have no idea what to do!!!
Break up or not?
hmmm this happened to me.. maybe you should first talk to him about this.. and see what he says.. if it doesn't work out, then i guess to break up w/ him.. that says that your losin` feelings for him.. but first of all probably js talk to himm about it first.
Here's the deal. I'm 5'6, 14/f, and 146 lbs. I'm okay with how I look, I feel okay in a bikini, i don't have stretchmarks, but I have the 2 chins and the chubbiest face ever. I mean, my fat is all spread out on my body, but my cheeks are huge, even when I was little. All my friends and family love squeezing them, and I also have a double chin that my family is constantly reminding me about. Is their ANY possible way to be rid of the extra chin or my chubby cheeks? I really don't think my cheeks are just babyfat, I read in cosmogirl that you grow out of baby fat by age 12. Does anybody have ANY ideas at all? Maybe some sort of "magic" pill that you don't need a prescription for that you have actually used and it worked for you? Anything at all please, I'm desperate.
thanks in advance.
Well, im not sure about the chin.. but the cheeks.. hmmm theres nothing really to get rid of the chubby cheeks.. but chubby cheeks people think that is adorable.. trust me.. i know .. =.= as you grow up.. your cheeks will begin to become skinnier and your face is gonna become longer O.o .. im pretty sure of that.. so dont worry.. people & guys will think your cheeks are adorable.
i've had my period for two years, but i haven't had it in the last six months. the last time i got it was in the beginning of june. i've never had sex, besides, after six months i think i would know if i was pregnant. haha. my doctor keeps saying that everything is fine and just to wait..but this is really weird! has anyone else gone through this that could give me any advice?
i got a job in june, and also started a new relationship, that recently ended. i also started running. i figured maybe those could be reasons for me not getting it, but i thought that things should be getting back to normal by now.
lol, your doctor is right.. it is completely normal.. don't worry it'll come by soon, because it happened to me before. Just wait for it.. if you've been in stress or is worrying about your period.. thats probably why its causin` it go come in later.. but theres nothing wrong with your body.. its perfectly normal... your gonna be having your period soon =D
i have really frizzy, pouffy hair and I usually straighten my hair to go to school every day. But it never stays straight! Not even for like an hour after Istraighten it..and I have a Chi which is supposed to be really good. My question is how do I keep my hair straight all day?
Get a new hair straightner.. and use hair spray.. or moose also.. but its easier and cheaper if you get your hair permed.. it'll stay permenant for a whole year.
my friend dylan is selfish and never cares about anybody or anything i say and he is mean what should i do still be friends with him or not and he is always mean
tell him not to be mean, he should understand.. if he doesn't ill track his booty down and kick it for you =D
hey...i got this big-ass bruise from my brother slamming my arm in a door...twice...and its all like dark brown and yellow...and i know that it turns yellow when its getting better but it keeps getting more brown and blueish instead...is that bad? what do i need to do?
go to the doctor, and see whats up. Only a doctor knows =D