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am i bad?
okay so last night i gave this guy a blow job and he didn't skeet? did i do it wrong? and also he fingered me a lot and it hurt so bad and didn't feel good at all .. is this normal?
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So I'm going to start off by telling you that if the guy knows what he is doing, geting fingered should NOT hurt, he may of been too rough or doing something your not comfortable with. The best way to know what you like is experimenting yourself and next time you can lead him. Don't be afraid of telling him what you like or dont like. About the blowjob, I agree with the other peoples advice. He may of not wanted to go in your mouth or he doesnt get SUPER off on it. If you really are worried that you werent good at it try different techniques. Being gentle goes a long way, don't be too rough and use your tongue, also the more saliva the slippier and the smootehr it is, meaning they like it more. Anotehr tip would be use your hand while your giving him head. I hope I helped, stay safe!
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You didn't do it wrong. Maybe you didn't have enough time for him to finish, OR he didn't want to shoot in your mouth or he just doesn't get off from a bj [at all or quite easily]. I know a guy that only 'shoots' from having sex no matter how great the blowjob is. You have to make sure the guy is fully turned on or you'll be there for awhile haha, so maybe that was why he didn't 'finish'
Usually, fingering doesn't feel good until after a few tries when you are loose and comfortable with it. You probably won't get pleasure from it considering only some women get pleasure from penetration. It's good to let the person know what you like so they can make it more enjoyable for you. Whether you like him doing it soft or rough..it shouldn't feel like he's stabbing you. Be comfortable with it so your muscles don't tighten and make sure his nails are cut short. It is normal. I didn't like it at first but later, it got better.
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lol, i think that when most guys get blow jobs... they LIKE it.. or LOVE it. suck at it or not.. it's like as long as you did it.. they're pleased.. hahaha, trust me on this dear.. i think they do. most guys don't skeet when you give them a blow job, you should probably ask him how does he like it. :] and being fingered.. yes it's normal if it hurts.
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I've only given one guy a bj and he didn't shoot either (because I asked him not to). He may not have wanted to. If you can, ask this guy if he liked it, or if there is something he wants you to do differently. Communication is important. It's totally normal to dislike being fingered. TELL HIM. Make sure he know to concentrate on your clitoris and be gentle. It's not like when he jacks off. My suggestion is to masturbate (seriously- it's actually good for you) and find out what you like, then tell him what that is.
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