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FIRST TIME
(question for females)
does it really hurt the first time you have sex or do people jsut over exaggerate????
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i agree with everyone,
its totally different for everyone.
for me, it hurt, but i was not calm, i was kinda scared, like i thought i was calm, but in the back of my head i was freaking out.
but i also didnt have my boyfriend finger me at the time, ever.
hope this helped
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My first time didn't hurt at all. I let him finger me moving to one finger to nearly four in a few weeks. Almost like preparing myself because I was afraid of the pain.. since people said "it feels like he's splitting you apart" which i don't understand ? o_O the fingering hurt more than his penis. i was also ready and relaxed, most girls aren't so their muscles tighten up and it hurts for them.
It may hurt if you've never been fingered or masturbated. You can't be fingered once, a couple of times would make you less tight.
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some people are different, just like the person said below me. but if they finger you first before doing it you won't really feel anything. without fingering you and just sticks it in you, yeahh.. it'll hurt, it's just not painful.. it'll just hurt a little bit, but then it'll be over once it's in. :]
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Hi There,
Every girl is different. Some say it hurts real bad while others don't feel anything.
From my experience, it hurt a little but once we got into it a bit it started to feel good!
As I said everyone is different! Make sure you do a lot of fore-play, the more you play the more aroused you will get and the more 'wet' you will get. This will make it easier for your guy to entre because you wont be so dry then.
Make sure you use protection and do not take it off under any circumstances. You could also use lubricant!
Good luck and be safe!
Oh.. and make it a special time! Every girl remembers her first :)
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ok from expereance, it hurts a little and it might be a little unfomfortable because your so nervous and not "all the way there" but its not like horrible pain, its over quick but at first its uncomfortable and just hurts a little
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