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14/f
There is something wrong with my breast.
But I dont know what it is.
My right breast started hurting really bad on Thanksgiving day,but I didnt really think anything of it.
Well Friday and until today it was hurting really really bad.like barely poke it and i wanted to cry.
I was looking at it today and on the inner side (the side furtherest from my right arm pit of my breast.) is pinkish. and really hardish. it doesnt feel like it my left breast which feels perfectly fine.
What could it be?
Should I tell my and get her to make me a doctors appointment?
Thanks in advance.
you REALLY need to tell to get a doctors appointment. this could be VERY serious. i would tell ASAP.
over the summer i got this pair of sunglasses from the vans warped tour 2007
but i accidently scratched them and it seems there is no way to repair them
i was wondering if anyone knows the site or a way to find the sit from online to order the exact same pair
here are the glasses:
http://i17.tinypic.com/71riqyu.jpg
http://i15.tinypic.com/73li4o5.jpg
thank you!
it depends how badly the scratch is. if it is hard to repair then you might want to take it to a vans store or a journeys.
How do u create a web site and get people to look at it?
you can find out at
www.whateverlife.com
Today, my dog bit me. (chihuahua) Really badly on my thumb. Like...where the nail and skin meets, he punctured that part and I could see the hole and blood and stuff. (I don't have good experiences with dogs. I got bit on the leg before)
But anyway,
Blood started gushing out. I was home alone so I didn't know what to do. I let some blood come out before I actually treated the wound (I had to lock my dog up)
I treated it with hydrogen peroxide and iodine and then I carefully wrapped it around in a band-aid. A couple of minutes in, I felt really ligtheaded, I nearly fainted.
I was SOO weak, that I couldn't stand up, I felt like the whole world was closing in on me, eveything got dark and I couldn't feel my legs, I just fell. And started crying/panicking.
I then went over to my bed and felt the same, I crawled under the covers. And I felt SO lightheaded/bad.
What happened to me? Why did this happen? =|
you really need to tell someone about it. this could be really serious. but even if its not....it doesnt matter. its good you locked your dog up. because if he did it again, then you couldve fainted. so, you need to tell someone. but if you feel better now, dont bother. but chihuahuas can be really vicious. i have one so i know how they can be.
f/15
Well I really like this guy and he's in 1 of my classes, but the problem is, he literally sits on the other side of the classroom from me. So that makes it harder for me to go talk to him. If he sat like beside me or in front of me then I could talk to him, but now I don't even get the chance to! So what can I do??? Any ideas on how I can go about talking to him??? Thanx in advance!
maybe if the pencil sharpener or trash can is on his side, you could go do something of that and pass him a note with your number. or after class, just talk to him.
why do i always fall in love with the emo/gothic guys, it doesnt matter who they are or what they look like, i mean he could be the ugliest and fattest guy in the world and i will still fall for him. can anyone tell me why im in lvoe wiht all the emo/gothic guys?!?
you might like them because their independance and their freedom of speech. because they dont care what anyone thinks of them and you might be attracted to that. hope i helped!
I am thinking of directig a play next year for my school. I'll be a senior then. I was thinking of doing a play with anti-communism or anti-capitalism themes. I don't really want to do any adaptations of Orwell or Faranheit 451. I have a taste for last 1800s and and early 1900s Russian Literature. Like I was thinking of doing The Cherry Orchard by Anton Chekhov or anything by Ayn Rand or Fyodor Dostoevsky.
In summary, does anybody know of a good play that is either Russian Literature or has anti-communism/anti-capitalism themes?
you should try a play that everyone knows. like high school musical. its a common play and there is somewhere on disney channel where you can sign up and they give free props to school. but i am sure that not many people are familiar to 1800 plays.
We've never had gnats in my house and now all of a sudden we do.. .I've cleaned everything up.. changed garbages.. but they still won't leave. How can i get rid of them?
respond asap please
we had that problem. what we did: we got a bowl and put some red vinegar in it and some liquid dishsoap. the vinegar gets them and the dishsoap kills them. hope i helped!
when u shave " down there " how long should you wait before shaving again? and do u take short light strokes or what?
yes. you dont want to cut down there because that is dangerous and painful. you should start shaving down there again when you feel like you need too. and whenever you feel ready you should shave down there. short like strokes. i really hope i helped!
i started my period yesterday, and i think im letting out alot of blood, it seems like i change my pad every 2 or 3 hours. is that normal?
totally and completely normal! i hope i helped!
a really good site called infiniteaddsdotcom (. = dot)
.. my server cant find it. what is wrong?
i went to the site. it is working now. it said it was fixing the site yesterday and this morning earlier. thats probably why!
you can ask your dentist about getting your teeth bleached.
14/f
Me and my boyfriend have been dating almost three months now, I liked him for ages. I'm pretty sure I loved him.
But..I don't anymore. I do still like him, but I don't LOVE him.
And it doesn't seem to be working between us. We hardly ever talk and I feel like we don't really understand each other anymore.
And it feels like breaking up with him is the right thing to do, I want to be free, to be single.
But he claims he's still in love with me, and I don't want to hurt him.
See, before we started dating, we were very close friends. And I told myself that whatever happened, I would always stay friends with him. And he means a lot to me. But I feel like I've lost him; and it scares me. It's almost as if we've already split up, I feel awkward when I see him and we sort of give each other awkward looks. And I know now that I've blown it; whether we stay together or break up, we're never going to be close friends like we used to.
But I'm confused, because when we're alone together it's okay, I don't feel as awkward, although I still don't feel like it's working. But the awkwardness isn't there.
But although I feel as if I want to break up with him, at night or in the mornings, when I'm in bed, I often wish he was there with me, so I could lie in his arms. But I wonder if that's just because I want to lie in SOMEONE'S arms, not because I want to lie in HIS arms, if you know what I mean?
I just don't know.
And then there's this girl, who told him she's in love with him, and when I think of them together, it annoys me, and I think, No, he's mine!
But maybe that's because I find it hard to let go of things.
And when I read old (some recent) texts or comments from him, telling me how much he loves or misses me, or how I mean to him, I wish it was like that.
But I think the problem is, I want to be with him like how it USED to be, not now.
But something in me is telling me that it could go back to how it used to.
I'm not even sure if this is how I feel, but it might be.
And although I'd like to be single, I'm scared of being alone. Scared of not having anyone to lie with at night when we have sleepovers with our friends. Scared of not getting the odd, 'i love you' message.
I'm sorry if that didn't make sense much, I'm not surprised if it didn't, I'm so confused at the moment. I really don't know what's going on in my head at the moment.
But, what do you think?
Why do you think I'm feeling like this?
What do you think I should do?
I'd be so grateful for any help on this, because at the moment, my head is such a mess.
Thanks, xxx
if you've simply lost intrest in eachother...then i think you should break up but still be good friends. and then you might be able to gain your chemistry back. :] hope i helped!
about 4 years ago, i got a dog for my birthday. a chihuahua. a male.
it was really nice as a puppy and everything was fine. now, he's a fucking retarded aggressive shit.
he bites me and barks at me for no fucking reason, at MY house. IN MY FUCKING HOUSE. I can't even go in my room without it barking at me.
it doesn't bark at my mom and my dad and my sister. but it bites and hurts and scratches me whenever I pass by.
we can't even touch it without it growling. it just does NOT let you touch it. and ITS SO SMALL! and the worst part, is that this insignificant little piece of shit has to have a MUZZLE on whenever we take it to the vet! It's fucking WILD
I don't know what to do.
My parents protect it. they're like...all defensive towards it. I don't think it's right that I have to live in a house and constantly be harassed and bitten by a dog that I CHOSE that I BOUGHT AND SAVED with my OWN money.
hell, my cats are nicer than him...
what the hell am I supposed to do?
I'm 16/f. My finger's throbbing right now from trying to get through to my OWN yard and my dog bit me.
And when you hit him and discipline him, he barks and bites back!
I don't know WHAT to do. Advice please?
I asked my parents to put him to sleep, but then the defensive shit kicks in...
I mean, I love animals. Please don't get me wrong. But this one's just abusive.
if you really wanna put it to sleep, explain why to your parents, or also, do what the other girl said. let him out and bite someone so the animal control will have to put him to sleep. or buy him a cage that he cant fit through and whenever company or somebody special that he might bite is over--put him in the cage. hope i helped!
omg when i go to parties i NEVER dance i know i can dance.[trust me] but i get so nervous. that i dont dance at all then when i get home i'm like 'man i should have danced' its horrible
someone please help me i need to get over this. im just so afraid that the boys i dance on will be like 'she can...NOT dance' help please
brianna(15 yrs)
i used to be afraid to dance at parties. you just have to have fun with it and play around until you get comfortable to actually dance. and instead of dancing by yourself--dance with friends! i hope i helped!
there's thei girl and she ruined my life. made all my fiends hate be by telling them lies. she made rumors about me and she even wrote a letter, sent it to my house so my mom would read it and the note said "i over heard your daughter in the bathrrom thursayd and she was telling one of ehr friends that she was having sex with her boyfriend and was trying to get pregnant just so she would make her mother mad" and she signed it with "a concerned friend" which if anyone here believe that i or anyone would ever do that is cazy. i never said that and my mom knows i would never. she didnt belive the letter but just the fact that she would write that is repulsive. now shes going out with my boyfriends best freind of 7 years and she forces him not to talk to my boyfirend. he now can only have friends if they arent friends with me or my bestfreind kayla or the people she picks for him to be friends with. she forces him not to go to work on days shes not doing anything. and when hes off of work she gives him 20 mins to get to her house or she starts calling everyone of him "friends" and gets her brother out looking for him. she is phsyco. and now jake's (my boyfreinds bestfriend) life it totally under watch by this stupid girl. see me and jake were good friends to and he was going to ask me out but my boyfreind now, his b/f asked me first. and now i sort of reget not going out with jake. dont get me wrong i love my boyfriend but jakes life is now runid because of kaitie(his g/f) and now my boyfriend lost his best friend. i guess you could say i hate this girl. and i want them to either shut up with all thier shit they've been saying about me, my firends and my boyfriend ro them to break up. i know someone out there knows good ways to make people break up and i do have morls and i know it isnt a good or nice thing to do but i cant take it anymore. is anyone read my questionslast year i asked some about this girl before. shes a life ruiner. i need then to break up. but i need a plan that would make me look like i did it and a reaaly reaaly really good one that will for sure make jake break up with her. and by the way... at school she is all over every guy. her b/f doesnt go to school there but since hes gone shes all over guys. she even let a boy touch her bobs in school!!! wile she was going out with jake.! ahh i cant say anymore or ill start getting mad. i need help
its not about destroying her because that would be getting as low as she is. but you need to comfront her about it and talk to jake since you care about him. its wrong to control him. and she sounds like a skank because the boys touching her boobs at school. but if you really wanna destroy her since she deserves it....do EVERYTHING she did to you. but talk to jake about it. if he likes her still--she has CONTROLLED him and something is wrong.
ok im 20, female. I get really turned on when i see naked women and i want to touch myself. But I would never consider doing anything with a woman. Like, it kinda grosses me out thinking about doing something with another woman...but I like to watch lesbian porn. It turns me on way more than man-woman porn. Whats wrong with me?
nothing is wrong with you. its normal to like women-to-women action more then women-to-man. i dont think your a lesbian. but you could be bi or strait. it depends. if sometimes you have thoughts about doing it with women sometimes. that would be bi. but since you said you would never consider, i think your strait. women-to-women just appeals to you more.
if someone smoked just a few times could you do something to your teeth so the dentist couldn't find out?
i don't smoke, i'm just wondering..could you do something so noone or dentist couldn't find out?
or not?
no. not after a few smokes. but after about 100 or so they will turn yellowish-brownish. but your teeth wont change. hope i helped!
almost 16/female
this is kinda embarrassing..
but today, my guy friend caressed my shoulder and arm in a realllllyy smooth/sexy way...he was just playing around.
as soon as he did that, i felt this rush through my body...and it was mainly directed at my lower part (...) and just everywhere...it felt really nice. lol
I don't know whyy....
is this normal? :/
this ISNT embarrising and it is TOTALLY normal. especially if you are starting to develop feelings for this boy. i hope i helped. but it is VERY normal.
Okay so I'm concerned of some kind bump lines? I've had these bumps that are in the lining of the inside of my gums.And recently I have discovered white bumps on the side of my toungue.Should I be concerned.They haven't bothered me or had any pain, but I'm not sure what it is so I'm a bit worried what could possibly what it is.Anyone have any ideas? It would be greatly appreciated.
i would go to the dentist. but if you chew tabacco or smoke it might be because of that. also, if you eat salty food or roll your tounge over it, and it stings, it might just be a sore. i get them all the time. if its that...you should get rid of it soon. but if it doesnt go away in about a week...i would ask a dentist or look it up on wikipedia or dictionary.com or something like that. i hope i helped!