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dancing at parties
omg when i go to parties i NEVER dance i know i can dance.[trust me] but i get so nervous. that i dont dance at all then when i get home i'm like 'man i should have danced' its horrible
someone please help me i need to get over this. im just so afraid that the boys i dance on will be like 'she can...NOT dance' help please
brianna(15 yrs)
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I used to be like that when I was in primary. I remember going to the school discos and sitting at the edge and then going home and wishing I had danced.
The thing is, you have to try not to take things too seriously. Think of a party as a time to just HAVE FUN. To just let your hair down. Try to forget about what everyone else is thinking, because to be honest, they'll probably either be too busy enjoying themselves or too busy worrying what other people are thinking of THEM, to take any notice of how you dance.
And if they DO think you look silly, screw them! This is your life, who cares what they think?
Spend time each night dancing by yourself. Put some loud music on, and just go for it. You can start dancing silly at first, just do whatever you want. As you start dancing more, you'll get more used to it, and it will feel more natural when you go to a party.
And the next time you go to a party, get yourself in the mindset of having fun, and don't think about what anyone else is thinking.
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You need to get that negative idea out of your head or you will always come home wishing you had danced and enjoyed yourself.
Go with the idea that you are going to "let your hair down" and have a good time, no matter what anyone else thinks of it.
No one will know how good of a dancer you are unless you loosen up and just go with it.
Maybe dance with some friends at first before moving on to dancing with the boys. Boys make girls nervous, and you don't need anymore nerves. Right?
ygs-29/f
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i used to be afraid to dance at parties. you just have to have fun with it and play around until you get comfortable to actually dance. and instead of dancing by yourself--dance with friends! i hope i helped!
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