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anyone good at ruining relationships?
there's thei girl and she ruined my life. made all my fiends hate be by telling them lies. she made rumors about me and she even wrote a letter, sent it to my house so my mom would read it and the note said "i over heard your daughter in the bathrrom thursayd and she was telling one of ehr friends that she was having sex with her boyfriend and was trying to get pregnant just so she would make her mother mad" and she signed it with "a concerned friend" which if anyone here believe that i or anyone would ever do that is cazy. i never said that and my mom knows i would never. she didnt belive the letter but just the fact that she would write that is repulsive. now shes going out with my boyfriends best freind of 7 years and she forces him not to talk to my boyfirend. he now can only have friends if they arent friends with me or my bestfreind kayla or the people she picks for him to be friends with. she forces him not to go to work on days shes not doing anything. and when hes off of work she gives him 20 mins to get to her house or she starts calling everyone of him "friends" and gets her brother out looking for him. she is phsyco. and now jake's (my boyfreinds bestfriend) life it totally under watch by this stupid girl. see me and jake were good friends to and he was going to ask me out but my boyfreind now, his b/f asked me first. and now i sort of reget not going out with jake. dont get me wrong i love my boyfriend but jakes life is now runid because of kaitie(his g/f) and now my boyfriend lost his best friend. i guess you could say i hate this girl. and i want them to either shut up with all thier shit they've been saying about me, my firends and my boyfriend ro them to break up. i know someone out there knows good ways to make people break up and i do have morls and i know it isnt a good or nice thing to do but i cant take it anymore. is anyone read my questionslast year i asked some about this girl before. shes a life ruiner. i need then to break up. but i need a plan that would make me look like i did it and a reaaly reaaly really good one that will for sure make jake break up with her. and by the way... at school she is all over every guy. her b/f doesnt go to school there but since hes gone shes all over guys. she even let a boy touch her bobs in school!!! wile she was going out with jake.! ahh i cant say anymore or ill start getting mad. i need help
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its not about destroying her because that would be getting as low as she is. but you need to comfront her about it and talk to jake since you care about him. its wrong to control him. and she sounds like a skank because the boys touching her boobs at school. but if you really wanna destroy her since she deserves it....do EVERYTHING she did to you. but talk to jake about it. if he likes her still--she has CONTROLLED him and something is wrong.
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I fully agree with Razhie- He is allowing her to treat him that way and run his life for him. There is nothing you can do about it but hope he sees it for himself. If you go off trying to break them up, you are most likely going to get him mad at you. He has to see this as being a problem for himself.
I mean, really, the best way for him to learn is from his own mistakes. Sad but true.
As for wanting to ruin her life, why would you want to do that? You hate how she acts, so why sink to her level? Why act like her? Come on. You're better than all that.
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The truth for you is same truth for every other girl out there who wants to break a couple up for some reason or another: You can't.
They either stay togeather, or the don't. You CAN make them miserable, but you can't break them up.
So what can you? You can support Jake and be honest with him. The fact is she isn't ruining his life just because, she is ruining his life because HE LETS HER.
Until stops letting her, nothing can be done.
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