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Im 13 and i feel like im not wanted. my mom has a new bf and my dad has a new gf and my brothers 18 and is in a serios relationship so i feel like im not wanted cuz there always with someone else what should i do?

i feel the exact same way, don't feel like that, you should never, well one day you will have a boyfriend/gf and you'll want to spend a lot of time with him/her and your dad or mom might feel the same way. just everyone moves on so theres things yo'll ave to deal with. when you feel like that call a friend and go to the movies or talk to someone like your mom or dad or brother, they could help. sorry you feel this way!~!~!

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ok heres my problem

i had this boyfriend for a little over a year ( on and off) and i was CrAzY about him he was my first love but he cheated on me about 3 times but i found it in my heart to forgive ( b/c he really was a sweet guy) but he didnt cheat on me for a looong time but we did end up breaking up..

then i got this boyfriend( who i am with now) and he treats me like gold if i told him to do something he does it right then and there...
but i think for some reason im still in love with my ex-boyfriend and my boyfriend at the same time..

i just dont know why i would even think of having feeling for my ex when he did that to me and my boyfriend treats me like gold.

is this wrong should i still have feelings for my ex? what do i do??

it's ok because sometimes you need a little time to get over your ex, well i am almost positive you'll get over him, don't know how long it's going to take but you will. try and make your realtionship funner now like doing something different, then you might even like this new guy more and easily forget about the old guy

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hey im 13 yrs old and my boyfriend wanted to start messing around... i did because i luved him and he pretty much put that puppy dog face on and i couldnt help but say yes.... we had sex 4 the first tym 2 months ago and we have been doin it ever since.. we always were a condom... but 1 night it slipped off and he accually 'went off' inside me... and i was soo worried i was goin to be pregnant..now i havent had my period yet and im worried... i want to go get a pregnacy test but i dont want to tell any1..... the nearest store is 20 miles away.... we live in the country... and i would need at ride... wat do i do

you should be honest with someone. my sister was around that age she got pregnant, she told my mom the truth right away and my mom tried to comfort and kept thanking her for her honesty. your mom is definitely someone to confide in about this because no mom likes secrets being hidden. if you're mom is very strict then go to a neighbor you trust or something.

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hi im 13 and i havent started my period i am a bigger gurl and a lot of the smaller gurl have and im just waiting...im afraid that theres sumthin wrong with me....wat do i do ?

most likely nothing wrong with you, some people are late bloomers, hey you may even start next month you never know and it's hard to find out when you're going to start but when i started it was so unexpected i didn't even notice it

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wat does PMS stand for and wat does it mean??? all my guy friends ask me that wen i get mad and stuff??? im confused id it a insult?

it means premenstrual system and it is the symptoms before you get your period like beforegirls get their period they tend to get crabby because they get frustrated, pms has cramps in the stomach which hurt really badly and bloating and you cry easier and all that, it's not an insult

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Im 13 and i really like this guy Brandon and hes a friend of mine but he liked my best friend until she said no when he asked her out. I have a boyfriend but I like Brandon more and hes really cute and i really want him to like me so what should I do? Im also a girl.

you should try getting a little bit mre closer to him, try flirting with him more, then if he starts flirting back then find a time where you can get him alone and tell him you like him or something, you could even ask "do you like me?"

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Anyone have some cute sad love qoutes??

go to www.forwardgarden.com and click on sayings in the right hand column. it'll have a BUNCH of sayings. love, friendship,breakup. such as it hurts to look into your eyes and not see my reflection but hers

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as i have said many times before i have a crush on my best friend but she doesnt like me like that and i want to talk to her about it but its hard any advice on how to talk to her about it

i rate 5s when good advice

just don't get nervous, think what do i want? then go talk to her. ask to speak to her privately then tell her everything as quick as you can but not to quick and make sure nothing gets awkward

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today i had pop rocks and soda and now i'm being told that it's bad for you and i'm scared something is gonna happen to me!! what, if anything, is going to happen to me?!

nothings going to happen to you, for some reason pop rocks and soda are just a bad mix for you, doesn't mean they're bad for you that just means that they will feel weird.

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y do yu suck t things

don't know, not sure, have no clue

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how do you know if that one friend is that one true "best friend" that will stick with you for life, thru all the bad and good times. i cant really explain what i mean by that one best friend but i think you might be able to get what i mean. thanks

well believe me you'll know, that's the friend that knows you eal well, knows what you hate, tries helping you and never talks about you or says something to hurt you. a true friend never hurts their best friend

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my older sister is 15 and i am 13, and i can't stand her! like she just bugs the hell out of me. she tries to be like her "own person", she is obsessed with animals, mostly horses, and reading. but i am the exact opposite, i hate reading and i like partying, boys, music, and tennis. she is trying to act like me though. i mean she likes country music, and i like rap hip hop and r& b. now she is starting to like maroon 5 and stuff that i like it is pissing me off and its just cause she is trying to be cool because she knows she is really annoying. and my mom is making me spend the day with her at the pool tomorrow, which i really don't want to do because there are only 2 days until i go to camp and i would rather spend my time with my friends! how do i get out of it?!?! please help me!

stand up to your mom and sister. that's what i do to my isster or mom. i'll give attitude or i'll do anything it takes. sometimes i even make peace with my sister so my mom willl realize. but you should stand up for your rights

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hey, i'm 13/f and weigh 95.. Ive been wanting to lose weight because im really skinny but my theighs and butt are really big. So I started not eating wendy's/mcdonalds/burger king/soda/desserts.. I've been doing that for about a month and I havent lost any weight, so I started exercising daily after every meal. I did that for about 2 weeks.. and still, I didnt lose any weight. Should I just go back to eating everything I normally would because eating healthy isnt doing anything and exercising isnt doing anything and I want to keep my metabolism high! what do I do?

well i am 13/f and i am normal weight and i weigh 110 pounds. alot of girls our age have big butt, theigh, hips, and all that. but if you really want to lose weight. i suggest becoming a vegetarian because i am and i am still losing weight

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I told my best friend something that i didnt want anyone to find out, and she tells someone i dont think i can trust her ever again should i?

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i don't think you should trust her again, or tell her she'll have to earn her trust back because do you really want to feel unprotected?

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OK. You guys explained to me how to read guitar tabs. Now there's only one thing left to ask.

High E-3---------------
B -0---------------
G -0--------------
D -0---------------
A -2---------------
Low E -3---------------

^

the dashes mean strings

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me=13/f him=13/m
my friend is trying to set me up with her friend on a blind date i have no problem with this but he is not going to like me no boys like me ???
i have no idea why boys dont like me also i cant manage to hold a relationship together for more than 2weeks help me please any advise is good advise
thanks
from w.o.o

you don't know for sure if he won't like you. when you go on the date just try and be yourself, as normal as you could be. i have the same two week relationship problem, if you get into a realtionship with him just don't change, be exciting, funny, have lots to talk about. if you get tired of him do something fun with him like amusement park to show that he could be exciting as well

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Well I met this guy. He is a year younger than me but he really likes me. He is my cousins best friend. I like him just not a whole lot I hate it when he calls me b/c he gets on my nerves alot. He only gets on my nerves because he acts shy around me and he doesn't what to talk about. Do you think that I should give him a chance or what?

if he gets on your nerves then don't go out with him, that's the last thing you want. also you could just talk to him and tell him you hate it when he's shy.

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ok well i have been going out with my boyfriend for about 9 months now and i really love him. he has only had sex with one girl. but many times. they broke up long be fore we got together. so just say i lost my virginity to him do you think he would have any kind of std from having sex with just that ONE other girl.?? like do u think theres a chance of him having an STD, from that one girl and then having sex with me and then all of a sudden i get it??? thanks i rate HIGHHH

well, i have a suggestion you can both go to the cdoctor and get tested together. i also doubt that he got and std with that ONE girl. he would have to have sex many times to get and std.

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i am working on saving up to buy a car by August. Can anyone give me good saving techniques? I work as a cashier but im afraid i won't really save the money ..

get a savings account asap. i have a savings account with my aunt in another state so even if i wanted to i couldbn;t get it out. you should get interest and all that as well.

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what color eyeshadow brings out dark brown eyes on a girl with dark brown hair and tan skin?

i think either gray or i think the one that will really bring out your eyes best would be light brown and dark brown mascara

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