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I'm 19, just graduated from high school. I have a boyfriend, his name is Josh, and I love him. I am pretty good at giving advice. I'm just not ever any good at taking my own advice. haha Always have been. I can help everyone else except for myself.
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My dog's throwing up blood, and I need to know, is there anything we can do??? & We can't go to the vet.
Why can't you go to the vet?? That's the only real thing that's going to help your dog. If you can't pay a vet, talk to them about paying the bill monthly in small amounts... if it's an emergency, most vets will work with you... if nothing else, type in 'dog throwing up blood' into a google search engine and see what it tells you. :)
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I live in an apartment with my mom. We want to get a cat and the landlady said we can if it doesn't have any claws. We aren't sure if thats ok to do to a cat. I no one other person who has a cat like this and the cat seems happy. What do you think?
Declawing a cat is fine. It's just, if they're let out, they can't really protect themselves that great, so be sure, it is an indoor cat. Cats who have been declawed, tend to be calmer as well.
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how old do kittens have to be to get fixed?
if i dont get my kitten fixed will she go through heat or will anything happen besides she can get pregnant?
what are some signs of heat?
will rate 5's for good answers!
You can fix cats at any time... best to do it when they're younger though..
Yes if you don't get your kitten fixed, she will go into heat...
Signs of when a female cat goes into heat is that male cats start hanging around your house more, she wanders more and doesn't come home unless it's to eat... and the such...
Talk to your local vet. She'll tell you everything you need to know. :)
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i want to get a hamster but i am not aware of anything. what kind of cage should i be getting (please give me like a name) how often to i have to clean the cage, how do i clean the cage? what kind of hamster is the least likely to bite? which hamster is the cutest? do i get a dwarf or regual hamster? whats the difference? thx
Type of Cage : The Pet Store will tell you what kind you need... You can use a Fish tank also... a big one though.. doesn't have to be huge... but big enough so the hamster can move around freely, have a wheel, put it's food and water bottle in it... Type in "Hamster Care" into a google search engine.
Cleaning Cage : Once a week is pretty good. But put new shavings in every day or so... it keeps your room from stinking.. because hamsters do tend to smell pretty bad.
All hamsters bite... but if you handle your gently and hold it at least once or twice a day, it'll get used to human contact and will be less likely to bite. Just be gentle and don't startle it.
Any type of hamster is fine... whichever one you want... the pet store will usually have a lot to choose from... whichever one you like the most is the one to go for. :)
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i know this sounds childesh, but my mom gave me a puppy for my birthday and theres just one problem. she wants to have him fixed. and i dont want to have him fixed. it will hurt him and think it's his choice to reoproduce or not. but my mom says he'll be less aggresive and then she had the nerve to tell me it's her house and what she says go's. i dont want to have him fixed but my mom's being a total bitch. how do i convince my mom that it's unfair to fix a dog, and he's mine not hers.
To tell you the truth.. it is best to have a dog fixed... she's right about them being less agressive... and it's not as painful as you think it is. They don't feel a thing. They're put to sleep and given pain medication to take care of any pain the dog may feel. Also, it will keep the dog from wandering. Which means, it's less likely to run around looking for a female dog... Dogs who wander in seach of females can stay gone from anywhere to 1 - 2 months... And sometimes the dogs get hit by cars, taken to animal shelters... trust me.. it's best to have the dog fixed.
need help on deciding one of the things i really love a puppy or laptop please help me thanks ill rate high
Well... which would you rather have??? If you already have a computer, then go with a puppy... but if you'd rather have the laptop... then get it... I'd choose the puppy though... but only because I'm a huge animal lover. haha ;)
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could you please give me songs like pop/techno songs for dancing also songs that were like popular last year and before
Rumors - Lindsay Lohan
My Perogative - Britney Spears
Do Somethin' - Britney Spears
Crazy in Love - Beyonce
I'm a Slave For you - Britney Spears
Milkshake - Kiera (or something like that)
that's all I really know of right now. Sorry.
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my mom keeps telling me to do chores like take out the trash, do the dishes, and other stuff.but when i ask her to help she says it's not her job. so i ask then what is your job. and she says to be the mom. and so after that she orders me to do the dishs. and i say you do them. and she says you have to earn your keep. and so i say you dont earn your keep you dont even have a job. so i get grounded. why sould i work when my mom dos'nt. i dont think i was put on this planet to do dishes. and im not her robot. but i dont wanna be grounded. should i alpolage and destroy my pride or should i hold my feet down and stay grounded.
sorry it was so long.
i'll rate a 5 no matter what
Believe it or not, most kids have to do chores. She pays for you to go places and see movies and stuff like that, doesn't she?? She pays for your food and your clothing, takes you back and forth to school... she raised you... it doesn't seem like she's asking for much... Next time she asks you to do something, your best bet is to do it and just be thankful she doesn't have you doing more than what she does. Good luck!
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=( This has been really bugging me; I really like this guy. I've only known him for 2 weeks, and talked to him a few times, but I can't stop thinking about him. He's such a great guy, and I'm happy for any girl who gets him. But I can't get him off my head.
What's wrong with me? :(
You have a crush... there's nothing wrong with you. :)
You should talk to him next time you see him... see where it takes you. You never know, you might be running through his head as much as he is yours.
Ok it all started when i was in 5th grade. There was this kid a year older then me and he was really cute!!! he went to my school and he imed me and i said hey!! and we were talkin then i started to talk to him and one day he must have gotten annoyed by me or something and so we stopped talkin to eachother. then like a few months later everytime he seen me he'd like always look at me and stuff. and i was in a school play and i was putting on my shoes and in the corner of my eye he was looking like right at me but he tries not to make it obvious. Does he like me or what??? Thanks!
It sounds like he's interested... but he's not exactly sure how to approach you. Next time you see him doing it, wave at him or smile or something. That's sure to get his attention.
Hey, major question i have. Ok, i went to a softball game and i was sitting on the bleachers...and on the other side of the field i saw 2 people...the one of them looked like a guy from were i was sitting and the other one...was a girl, and i thought they were friends or somthing...so, then i started thinking, wow that guy is pretty cute...so then, i realized i looked at him a bit longer...and realized it was a girl...a very tomboyish girl,so...does that mean i'm like...lesbian or just made a common mistake?
~Brina
No it doesn't make you a lesbian...
It happens all the time. There's been times when I've done the same thing... and just because you find a girl attractive, doesn't make you bi or lesbian. It just means you know what looks good and what doesn't... It's normal. Don't worry so much about it.
If a guy is trying to avoid me should I still try to talk to him?
Your best bet is just ignore him. Don't try to talk to him if he's avoiding you because that's only making it harder on yourself. There are better guys out there who will pay attention to you. :)
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ok, well me and some of my friends are bi. i just found out that one of my friends who i like likes me too. but we dont want anyone to know about us being bi. so we sorta wanna go out but if we were to go out we agreed we wouldnt tell anyone. so we also agreed that we wouldnt be jealous if the other person went out with a guy or got with another girl or something. so my question is should we go out and just keep quiet or shoudl we just stay being friends with benefits?
If y'all go out and don't tell anyone... then it's just like being friends with benefits... it's the same relationship, just a different title. Do you get what I'm saying... I say just stick with what you have going on now... no need to change the title of it... seems to be working for both of you.
Me and my b\f have been going out for almost 4 months. With all of my exes they usually say I love you within the first month or so. Is it a sign that he doesn't love me if he hasn'tr said it...if not what are some signs that he does love e.
Most guys say I love you within the first month because they want something from you... that's just how it is... some guys could truly love you... but most just think that's what you want to hear. Your new guy however, could want to take things slow. He might not be ready to just say 'i love you'. Especially if you haven't said it first... but it's obvious he does like you... if not, he wouldn't be with you right now. He'd be with someoen else. Maybe you should try saying it first if you're that worried about it. Sometimes guys like hearing the girl say they love them.. that way they know for sure. :)
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13/m Ever since I tried to show my crush how much I loved her, she's had something to do whenever I try to talk to her. Like just now. We were both on AIM, but she had her Away Message on. After a while, she turns off her Away Message, and so I say hi, and all of a sudden her little brother wants to go ride bikes. This has happened about two or three times. Is she ignoring me? Is she trying to give me the slip? I really need advice here...
Like guys, girls can get a little flustered when a guy admits his undying love to her. They feel pressured and don't really like it.
Chances are, she is trying to give you the slip... but to make sure... talk to her about it. That's your best bet. Ask her what's up. And apologize for coming on so strong. She'll understand that you were just caught up in the moment and soon things will be back to normal. Next time though, don't confess your love to someone... unless y'all are going out. lol
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Okay me and my boyfriends one year anniversary is coming up. See IDK what to get him. I have gotten him two watches you know X-mas and B-day and so far for our anniversary I got him a chair massager cause he dont leave his computer that he just built. It seems super corny considering it was $20 at walmart and each watch was atleast $60. He's getting me a promise ring I know for sure and hes already gotten me this bracelet and a christmas ring that's 10K gold. I feel like I'm being too cheap. So I dont know what to get him . And no I can't get him anything for his computer cause he's too picky. I'm 16 and I know that we will last a long time because he doesnt push me into doing things and hes soo sweet. so what should I buy him? I have a $150 limit.
Another thing he has this job but only gets paid $45 a week cause he works one day because of an overload of employees. But like every week we go to dinner and a movie and he spends atleast $30. I want to pay some times but I'm flat broke and my city is so small that teenagers are managers of over populated stores like burger king winn-dixe subway papa johns, sad thing is that thats half our stores. How can I get fast money cause I need the money by October 21!!
If he wants to pay for you, and doesn't ask you to pay... then let him do it. Obviously he wants to... most guys do... they feel cheap if they don't... ya know? But if you're really that worried about, ask him if he wants you to pay for it sometimes... and if so... do chores around your house and such and see if your parents will pay you for it...
The present deal... I don't really know what to say. If it comes from you, I'm sure he'll like it no matter what. It's not the cost of the gift, it's the thought that goes behind it. And that's the god's honest truth. Buy him something you think he'd really like... maybe something he's mentioned... or something like that??? or take him to the mall and tell him to pick out what he'd like to have. Or just take him and if he points out something he likes... keep it in mind for the next time you go... then you can buy it for him and surprise him. :)
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ok this guy likes me (two of my friends told me) and i sorta like him back but i dont know if its a joke does anyone know what i should do?? thanks!!
i rate 5's
Ask him. Be straight forward. Tell him, "I heard you liked me, is that true?" and if he says yes, well tell him you like him too and that you want to get to know him. If he says no, you have nothing to worry about... you didn't put your feelings on the line... you just asked him... he'll never know that you liked him... so I say, go for it. I don't think your friends are going to lie to you about something like that. :)
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Ok. Heres my problem. I like this guy but he doesnt no i like him and right now he likes my best friend and stuff and me and him always talk on line and we go to the same school and stuff. Well I think now I have feelings for him and my best friend doesnt like him anymore she said but i dont think he likes me as a g/f. What should I do??
You could tell him how you feel... but if he likes your friend... chances are... he's not really going to notice you as anything other than a friend until he gets over the girl he's currently crushing on. But just talk to him, and get to know him and let him get to know you... it's only a matter of time before he turns his affections to you. :)
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ILL RATE 5'S NO MATTER WHAT!
I met this guy last week who was really interested in me but I wasn’t as interested in him(I was “talking” to one of his friends). Well we hooked up that weekend and told me he likes me. He called me everyday this week and I started to realize I liked him too and he asked me out on Thursday. Well we hung out this weekend and I started to REALLY like him but he didn’t treat me like a girlfriend at all. When we were with his friends he showed no affection whatsoever but when we were alone he would hug me and hold my hand and stuff. I talked to one of his best friends about it and he told me he would talk to him. On Saturday night my boyfriend called me and told me we should go back to just “talking” because he felt we were moving too fast and that going out with someone is a big step to him. I talked to his best friend and his best friend told me that he was the kind of guy who only showed affection when him and his gf are alone. He told me that my bf still really likes me but wants to slow things down. We were supposed to hang out on Sunday even though we aren’t goin out(he said we are still going to talk and hang out) but he called me and pretended like we never made plans of hanging out. I don’t know what I should do because I really like him (I’ve dated many guys this summer/school year but I’ve liked him the most and I think it’s because I feel like we actually connect).. should I go after him even though he could be leading me on? Or should I just forgot about him even though maybe we can make things work out?
It sounds like you may have intimidated him when you talked to his friend instead of him. If you had a problem with him not being affectionate in front of his friends, then you should have gone directly to him. Most guys would prefer it that way. And another thing. Guys aren't really affectionate in front of their friends. It's just the way they are. I know some guys such as the 'emo' ones are... they're very lovey dovie... but most guys tend to shy away from that for fear of being called a pansy. But you said he was affectionate when y'all were alone... that means he does indeed like you... you only had to worry if he wasn't affectionate at all. I think you should at least talk to him about it... and if he wants to take things slow, then take them slow... it'll be worth it, if you like him as much as you say you do. Just like girls... guys don't like to be pushed to do things they don't want to.
my girlfriend doesnt tihnk she is hot what do i do ?
Just keep telling her she is.. lol