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"LOVE"
Me and my b\f have been going out for almost 4 months. With all of my exes they usually say I love you within the first month or so. Is it a sign that he doesn't love me if he hasn'tr said it...if not what are some signs that he does love e.
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..No it is not a sign that he dont love you..he just isnt ready to say it..WHICH IS GOOD..Its not good when they say they love you right away..When they hold it in for a while and then say it they really mean it..Believe me you will knwo when he loves you..You will see the signs and hear him say it..Hope I helped`
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hahaha. ok...so if these other guys said they loved you where are they now? im assuming your a teenager...and for most teenagers, real love doesnt exist...there are a few exceptions, but how would you or him know after four months? he probably doesnt love you, just like you probably don't love him, so why should he say he loves you? wouldnt' that be lying? theres a difference between liking someone, and loving someone... so don't sweat it at all if he hasn't said it yet, he may not until he feels it, if he ever does. :)
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Well, the other guys that said it within a month dont mean it because you cant love someone within a month, love takes time to prosper and grow. If your current boyfriend hasnt said it it doesnt necessarily mean that he doesnt love you, maybe he cherishes that word and wants it to be special when he says it, or if he does love you maybe hes afraid to say it.
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If you tell him you love him,he doesn't tell you so it's because he doesn't love you back.But if that is the case then you just have to wait,also if you are very caring,nice to the guy,being there for him,showing him that love doesn't have a price like when he want's to fill you with gifts then you tell hin you don't need that,what the only thing you care about is him, which will show him you really love him,and sooner or later he will fall in love with you for sure trust me.
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Most guys say I love you within the first month because they want something from you... that's just how it is... some guys could truly love you... but most just think that's what you want to hear. Your new guy however, could want to take things slow. He might not be ready to just say 'i love you'. Especially if you haven't said it first... but it's obvious he does like you... if not, he wouldn't be with you right now. He'd be with someoen else. Maybe you should try saying it first if you're that worried about it. Sometimes guys like hearing the girl say they love them.. that way they know for sure. :)
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What is your hurry? If you try to push things too fast you may loose him. Be patient. After all are you still with those that said they loved you? Take time, take plenty of time, you will win in the end!
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well it depends,have yoo told him that yoo love him? if yoo didnt he may bee waiting for yoo to say it so he doesnt feel aquard wen he says it first maybee jusst try to say it to him if yoo havent bee4(only if yoo mean it)maybee he will say it bak! hope i helped good luck :)
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maybe he just doesnt want to go that quickly, he may like you, but not feel ready to say such strong words. if he loves you he'll maybe flirt with you, talk with you, hang out with you, sit with you at lunch, etc.
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