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Does aloe gel work on white spots or scars because I have a lot of scars and I have a few white lines/spots on my legs! PLease help i wanna get rid of them before school starts! also does aloe gel work on any kind of white spot or white area. If it doesnt work can you tell me what I should get to rid of white lines and areas and scars thanx
I rate 5s!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
this is a complete emergency!

putting aloe on a scar after it*s already formed doesn*t really help @ all. I suggest you buying Mederma which is a product that fades scars you can get it @ any drugstore! hope i helped, xoxo ~chelsea

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i havent gotton my period yet and i have a ?. when i get it for the fist time will i know, or will i not know till i go to the b/r? i dont want it to like leak through or nething, that is what i m most afried of! just tell me if i will know or not! thxs!

you should notice before it gets to leak through, it*s a gross wet feeling. Don*t worry bout it too mcuh just make sure you keep like a pad or tampon in ur backpack incase it starts at school!! hope i helped! xoxo, chelsea

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AHH i burned my head with my straightener and i need to get something that will make the scar go away or fade drasticly...its a white spot on the tip top of my forehead! quick! school starts in like 4 days!

get like mederma or sumthing i think that helps!!

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hey does anyone know what lmao stand for?

laughing my ass off
sumtimes ppl put rothlmao-- rolling onthe flooor laughing my ass off
or lmfao-- laughing my fucking ass off

hope i helped

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I just got my braces a few days ago and I was wondering if I could make out with another boy with braces? Would that make the wires attach to each other? HELP MEEE!

haha i*ve always kinda wanted to see that happen but no i kno A LOT of ppl who*ve made out with braces n they never got hooked together cuz most of the time your teeth are rubbin together! good luck and have fun sweetie,chelsea

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I know you don't want to listen to me whine but really, I have noone to talk to. My boyfriend just dumped me in the rudest way. He made up this horrible excuse that his parents were mad at him and he wasn't allowed to have a girlfriend. He never even told me he was breaking up. Right after that, he put his away message up that said "Oh the phone with the hottest girl ever-Shea!" (Shea is a slut and really easy by the way) Then I imed him to tell him how much he hurt me. And he said, "Yeah whatever, like you would know what pain was. Who cares about you."

I can't stop crying. Is there something wrong with me? He blocked me so anyone who wants his screenname, its: pyroboy9977.

I can't believe this. :(

aww sweetie, he seems like a totaly jerk.. because i have too much time on mi hands i imed him.. and he really has a crappy personality, he told me him n shea were just friends but i don*t believe him and that shouldn*t matter (p.s he blocked me too haha) But just try to hang out with your freidns and with people who make you happi instead of thinkin bout him cuz he doesn*t deserve to even be in your thoughts. Another person will come believe me i*ve had HORRIBLE break ups and other boy problems so i can tell you more if you wanna im me!! hope i helped beautiful and keep your head up!! xoxo, chelsea

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Im confused: someone who absolutely meant so much to me, my best friend (a girl. im a girl too) started to be a little (so for being harsh) but a jerk.. we would have plans made for a week and then a day before she would cancle and go out and do something with this other girl (lets name her "freeda" :-D... it even got to where if me and her had plans to go to the movies she would invite "freeda" without telling me (even though I thought it was just goign to be us) Its starting to get annoying and i dont know what to do?

well even if you don*t want to i think you should tell your friend bout how you feel bout her n freeda (haha i like that name by the way) don*t make fun of good old freefree but just tell her that youre feeling excluded, if she tells freeda wut you told her then leave her alone for a while, she*ll prolly end up missing you and comin back. hope i helped hun and good luck!! xoxo, chelsea

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Does anyone know any good books about like girls who are about 13 or up?

*summer boys
*someone like you
*the true meaning of cleavage
*gingerbread
*go ask alice
*Breaking up is really, really hard to do
*a child called it
*gossip girl series
*a-list series

wow ok yeah, their not all about 13 year old girls but i*m a 14 year old book and i loved ALL of those!! hope i helped! xoxo, chelsea (yeah this is an edit but i meant i*m a 14 year old girl not a book)

**tell me if you read any of those and if you liked em

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hey, ok, so i like this girl, shes one year younger than me. i got pretty good game, but she doesnt seem to get it, should i give it up, or what?

hmm, i don*t think you should give up on her, maybe see if a group of both your friends could like go 2 a movie or sumthing and you could sit next to her n get to know her a lil better and then after the movie ask if she has IM or sumthing and just talk to her, once you feel like you guys have became friends (which you should make sure you do first) then tell her you like her and hopefully she*ll feel the same, if she doesn*t then back off for a while girls HATE when a guy stops liking them drives me insane haha. hope i helped! xoxo, chelsea

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hey,, well my brother has a friend,, his friend is 17 and im 13, joe, his friend and me a pretty tight, and stuff,, i really like Joe but idk if he likes me, and even when his g/f is there, hell look at me alot..his g/f is also 13..but shes ugly and he doesnt like her that much,, so, like, what should i do??

i think you should just straight up tell him how you feel, that has always worked for me! hope i helped xoxo, chelsea

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what are some other cute places to shop besides abercrombie, hollister, american eagle......etc.

forever 21, delia*s, gadzooks, old navy, pac sun, buckle, guess, bebe, nordstrom, wet seal.. yeah that*s all i can think of!! hope i helped! xoxo, chelsea

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I'm bored. Know any good sites or stuff to do ( almost all my friends are at camp)

hmm god i*m bored all the time.. lol that*s actually y i*m on this site rite now. But maybe you could get a good book I just finished reading Summer Boys.. it was simply amazing. oh and if your realllllly bored http://www.addictinggames.com tons of WEIRD//fun games. I*m sry i wasn*t much of a help.. i*m always bored so i don*t no how to cure it so well haha but neways good luck! chel*c

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A couple of weeks ago I was invited to go to the NJ shore with one of my best friends, Sam. I was very excited...each of her siblings is bringing a friend, and she chose me to go for the week with her & her family! Just today, however, she called me and was like "I just found out Catherine is coming too, is that all right?" Obviously I said yes...I wasn't going to be rude & tell her no. However Catherine is Sam's friend (their families are good friends too) and she does not go to my school. I have met her before, & she is very nice, but I really don't know her well. To be honest, I am not sure that I am so psyched to go anymore, because she is going to have Catherine there too. I know it sounds mean, & I have nothing against Catherine, but it just seemed rude that Sam never mentioned she would be there before. I BELIEVE SAM'S MOM INVITED CATHERINE'S WHOLE FAMILY, WHICH IS WHY I AM UNCOMFORTABLE. HER PARENTS ARE SORT OF "WILD" THEY DRINK A LOT AND ARE BASICALLY PARTY ANIMALS. THIS MAKES BOTH ME & MY MOM UNCOMFOTABLE. ALSO, MY DRIVING TEST IS SOON, AND I WILL NOT BE ABLE TO PRACTICE FOR THE WHOLE WEEK IF I GO. ALSO, MY SISTER & COUSINS ARE GOING FOR A FEW DAYS TO MY GRANDPARENTS HOUSE, WHICH I WOULD MISS OUT ON. I honestly don't know if I want to go anymore...I mean I am sure it would still be fun but it is just not the same. Do you think it is silly for me to be upset? Should I just go, or should I decline? I do have reasons (as noted above -more than one) of why it might not be the best idea to go, but I would also feel like sam would be upset if I didn't go. What should I do, and how do I talk to her (either way i need to talk to her).

i*ve actually been in a situation similar to that i went to mi friend Logan*s lakehouse with mi best friend at the time angie and mi ex ryan (which yeah wus a little weird but cool haha neway) Logan*s family was really good friends with this WEEEIRD family.. the mom wus like a drug addict and her daughter n friend were gonna be there and i knew that logan was really close with them. When i found out i was PISSED but it actually turned out to be really fun! I think you should go and just make the best of it, i doubt catherine will ruin your time and i*m sure you n sam will get sum alone time. But i bet you*d regret not going if you declind. About talking to her i think you should just be like yeah i*m excited to go but with catherine there will we get anytime to just hang out me n you and maybe tell her now that catherine*s gonna be there you feel a little excluded. Well i hope i helped hun, if you need nething else just leave it in mi inbox and have fun!! xoxo, chelsea

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I need help!! I wanna look preppy!! LoL !! I was wondering if platos closet had cute preppy clothes see ive never been there but people told me about it soo pleaze help me!!

well i*ve never been there but i do sell them mi clothes lol. But yeah mi mom goes in there to drop em off and she says that they have tons of cute stuff, so you should check it out see if they have what your looking for! hope i helped! xoxo, chelsea

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I met my girlfriend over the internet about 7 months ago. We started as a good friendship. So then I asked for her phone number. We talked on the phone for hours and hours. I started to love her and have really strong feelings for her. She did too. We did webcam and send pictures and mail. But things started to happen to me I started to feel depressed. I started to have personal problems with my family about it. I didn't care I know I love this girl a lot. I haven't seen her yet cause I'm not ready yet. I want to look good for her physically and in ma peronality. I don't want her to see an ugly me. I want to lift weights get taller and look good for her. I want to have money and get my education. Thats why I haven't gone to see her. I want to be for her inside and out. But is gettin frustrated. Cause so many guys have I asked her out but shes says no to them cause she waiting fo me. But I can't cause I went to get muscles and get taller and get ma money straight get new clothes and get ma education. So, then I can see her. But I don't want her to give up. I feel bad cause I want see her but I want to surprise but gettin muscles and lookin taller and being a person who can make her smile, laugh, make her feel good about us and look good for her. I love her a lot she is a beautiful young girl. She is cute, nice, hardworking, special, and comfortable to talk to. What do I do. I'm a male who is 17

well i think you shouldn*t care so much bout all that other stuff and just meet her, she already knows what you look like if you*ve done webcam n pix so then she*s inlove with you NOW she doesn*t need the extras. If you make her wait longer more people will come along and you might lose her. Quit worrying bout how you look and just buy a new outfit or sumthing and meet the girl, she obviously wants to see you! good luck hun n hope i helped xoxo, chelsea

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is porn a bad thing to do?

nope it*s normal

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okay i really like this guy and i have for 2 yrz! the thing is hes 2 yrz older than i am...i kno i kno its a bigg diff...but i still like him...sometimes i see him looking atme and smiles and ugh! i want him to like me but the thing is tat theppl he hangs out with i HATE! and like then theres no way to talk to him...i have his sn but idk wat to say i mean its hard and confusing! so please help idk wat to do!

someday you should just im him and be like hey, atfisrt just have normal small talk and talk about wut you like doing and if he plays sports and stuff, don*t start things off by being like hey i want you type of them that*s a lil too forward you know? anyways hope i helped and 2 years isn*t that big of an age gap, think when he*s 35 your*ll be 33.. see haha xoxo, chelsea

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hey! i am having a birthday there will be boys and girls, i don't wear skirts and i want something casual! any ideas

maybe like destroyed jeans (if you like those) and then a beater with a cute necklace and other accesories.. ooh so cute!! hope i helped!! xoxo, chelsea

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