okay i really like this guy and i have for 2 yrz! the thing is hes 2 yrz older than i am...i kno i kno its a bigg diff...but i still like him...sometimes i see him looking atme and smiles and ugh! i want him to like me but the thing is tat theppl he hangs out with i HATE! and like then theres no way to talk to him...i have his sn but idk wat to say i mean its hard and confusing! so please help idk wat to do!
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btw im 13/f and i rate 5 for good answers!
VanityScore answered Sunday August 7 2005, 6:42 pm: A great way to chase a guy off is to hate his friends. Make an effort, if he hangs out with them, they're probably okay people. I mean, he hangs out with you, right? (I am supposing you are an okay person too.)
You say what you feel like saying. Ask him about himself, tell him about yourself (not too much, though!) and talk about random things (movie, weather, work, etc.)
If you want to get to know him better in person, try joining a team he's on, or a club at school (if you both go to the same school) or just get a job at a place he goes to a lot. [ VanityScore's advice column | Ask VanityScore A Question ]
ilovechris answered Sunday August 7 2005, 5:27 pm: hey girl its ok 2 years older you still have a chance im 15 and my boyfriend is 17 and we have benn together for 1 year and 8 months if you really like him like you say you do then girl what are you waiting for TALK TO HIM catch up to him when he is on his way to class or byhimself and ask him what hes doing this weekend make a date you know sometimes a girl has to make a move [ ilovechris's advice column | Ask ilovechris A Question ]
Little_silent_voices answered Sunday August 7 2005, 4:23 pm: Hey. I went out with a guy and he is 2 years older then meh also and i ABSOLUTLY hated the people he hung out with cause they would hit on meh and make rude sex jokes about meh and I just hated it! But I liked him and thats all that matterd. When I was around his friends I would just stay as close to him as I could and just stay away from his friends. About the hole Sn thing and not knowing what to say if youd like I could try to help you. My sn is b00tiiEfuLlx0 feel free to IM me if youd like.
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Love maddie [ Little_silent_voices's advice column | Ask Little_silent_voices A Question ]
XxCutii09xX answered Sunday August 7 2005, 3:57 pm: OK, well if you really really like him, then you shouldnt just give up on him like that, talk to him online, tell him how you feel, maybe he may feel the same about you. Or you can try to be better friends with him...start hangin out...get to know eachother more...see where it goes from there! But just because you dont like the people he hangs with doesnt mean you should give up on him
GooD LuCk [ XxCutii09xX's advice column | Ask XxCutii09xX A Question ]
esbeautiful1313 answered Sunday August 7 2005, 3:40 pm: Maybe you should IM him, just to talk. If you are nervous, just think...he's not in your grade, so you really won't have to face him if he turns you down! Anyways, if u can gather up enough guts to IM him, just try to befriend him first...maybe he is waiting to do the same to you! [ esbeautiful1313's advice column | Ask esbeautiful1313 A Question ]
cookierat123 answered Sunday August 7 2005, 3:02 pm: okey dokey i really think you should tell him how you feel. you never know what could happen and if it doesnt work out then its stiil worth it. who says that you have to hang out with his friends. you just like him, if he wants you to hang out with his friends then just tell him your gonna hang out with your friends that day. i hope i helped. [ cookierat123's advice column | Ask cookierat123 A Question ]
craZlilchelC152 answered Sunday August 7 2005, 2:43 pm: someday you should just im him and be like hey, atfisrt just have normal small talk and talk about wut you like doing and if he plays sports and stuff, don*t start things off by being like hey i want you type of them that*s a lil too forward you know? anyways hope i helped and 2 years isn*t that big of an age gap, think when he*s 35 your*ll be 33.. see haha xoxo, chelsea [ craZlilchelC152's advice column | Ask craZlilchelC152 A Question ]
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