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O and yall look at this poem and no I didn't write this one!:


Anna Joe
The kid no one really knows
Just sat
She was kind of fat
Every day people would critize
About her size
I was the only one who heard her crys
Her endless sighs
I never knew
What she was about to do
It was a misty Monday
I wish she found have found another way
We walked in
Right before she commited her sin
They laughed at her and called her fat
And there I sat
Wanting it to stop
I could have fought
Before I could think
In just one blink
She reached in her shirt
Everyone screamed as shots beamed
Up and down each row
Then it came to me and she said no
I was in shock
Then came a knock
Hurried,
In her head
There everyone sat dead
I burst in tears
Because I had no more peers
I could have stopped this all
I heard voices down the hall
Terrified yells
And there i was
Just because
I did'nt call her fat....
But I just sat
I let her cry,
wanting to die
And it just might be
Because of me
Everyones dead
And poor Anna shot herself in the head


advice

Sorry it's long, but it's VERY important to me.
Okay, me and a bunch of friends were at this party, and there was alcohal (i'm a freshman in high school, 13 years old.) Well anyways, my boyfriend can drive, but he decided to leave his car there(it was a friends house.) and so we decided to split the cost for a taxi ride, about 10 of us squeezed into a taxi, well my REALLY good friend, didn't seem drunk, but we offered countless times for her to ride with us, she kept saying NO, so we gave her the walk test, and she did in a strait line. So since we couldn't talk her into it, she drove home, and ended up driving off a mountain, and she died. Well I felt so bad, and guilty, and I still do. So now I'm trying to stop drinking, after what happened, I decided I better stop. Well I was wondering, I want to get over the guilt, and stop drinking. One of my teachers knows that I drink, and I was talking, with an attitude saying it's not like you can die... and the next day my friend passes away. She is the only adult that I know, but I'd feel really akward talking about it to her, and I wouldn't know how to bring it up, neither of my parents know, and I don't want to upset them, I mean I'd get my butt whooped. So does anybody have any Ideas what I can do? None of her friends besides me want to talk about it, my boyfriend will change the subject each time we bring it up. She was sort of a loner, and she didn't go to my school, niether did my bf, and I met her through him.
So if anybody has any ideas, I'm open to everything EXCEPT telling my parents, or naybers!
Thanks in advance for any help, this is VERY hard for me, so please TRY to be sympathetic.

wow.... im soo sorry for you i lost my friend too but he was 11 and a car hit him when he was lookin for his dog, but the best thing to do is probably to start driking smirnoff cuz it only has 5% alchohol and it will probably slowly stop ur bad drinking habbit and since ur friend's life stopped because of drinking that will help too...... i hope......
im sorry i couldn't be of more help:-(
latas.... .::Chelsea::.

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What is eminems new song called...its like now lose it HAHAHAHAHA just lose it or w.e

and also beyonces new song...i forgot the words tho...thanks!!

just loose it is eminems i unno beyonce's

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My boyfriend told me he didn't love me but he likes me alot. He doesn't know that I love him and he keeps trying to get me to tell him but I wont, I think he's guessed. I just want to cry, I knew he didn't love me but when he told me it just made everything 10 times worse. I really love him, what shall I do?

In these situations, it usually takes time becuase guys that i know dont really like long time commitment. So like i said just give it time, and if it happens, it happens if it dont it dont. I dont mean to sound mean but thats the truth. i hope i helped u in some way or another!!
.::Chelsea::.

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i have pretty much felt like this my whole life...

i feel like whenever i do something people are watching me and talking shit about me or gunna laugh at me or something, i mean i realize that they dont really do that, they probably dont even notice me, but i dont like getting up in class to go sharpen my pencil cause im scared or embarresed or something that people will watch me and just stare at me the whole time or the teacher will yell at me for getting up...and today i was to embarresed or scared to go get ketchup and put it on my plate cause i was thinking that people might laugh and me and be like omg look at her shes using ketchup or something...i know it really weird..

i mean im not a shy person cause ill talk to a lot of people but its things like that..whats wrong with me?

Sometimes i feel like that too, as far as i know its normal,like all the attention is on u right? well i get over it pretty quick now cuz i boost up my confidence by reminding myself about the comments other people tell me and stuff. i hope i helped in some way or another!
.::Chelsea::.

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okay my best friend is a guy..weve been best friends for only like a year, and he usta like me ALOT..like really alot..so neway, he just gotta gf and theyve been goin out for 4 months. they realli love eachother, etcetc..his gf is my good friend..so neway, she like is CONVINCEd that he still likes me for some reason..but he seriously doesnt. he hasnt liked me in like a year.so theres alwaysss conflict now..like she gets mad at him all tha time if he ever talks to me on tha phone or hangs out with me on weekands..i mean theres nothing to be jealous of, me and him never even HUG or nething that regular guy and girl friends do. ive sat down and talked about this with her like 3 times, like GOOD ass talks..and it would seem like everything was okay, she understood everything, etc..but STILL, theres tension between us..i have no idea y..my friend says that its prolly cause she thinks im prettier than her, smarter, funnier, etcetc, but i dunno wtf to do..this stupid drama that shekeeps bringing up is SO OLD now..its just like give it up we DONT FUCKING LIKE EACHOTHER. plzz help me!!!

Well, if she really does love him then she should beleive him and since shes like ur bestfriend,she should MOST DEFINITLY beleive you. If she still acts wierd say,"look if u dont beleive me than thats ur problem and i know that im telling the truth and so is ________" and set it straight!!!!!
.::Chelsea::. hope i helped:)

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im 5'4 n i weigh 90 and my friends and family are always telling me that i look like im loosing weight but i think im fat! i havent eaten anything in like 5 days and i feel really sick. what should i do???
xox rica

EAT the reason u feel sick is cuz u havent eatting in 5 dayz if u go to more dayz or like two more hours with out eatting u could like die or summthing dont stop eatting go on a diet just dont starve urself u idiot i hope my constructive critisisum helps

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hi ! okay well im in 6th grade and i really want to wear thongs! because i hang out with older girls and they wear them and i feel left out ! some please give me so lines to say to my grandma ( i live with my grandparents ) !!! THANKS!

ok well i think u should ask ur grand parents to drop u off at the mall and u can go get sum and y r u in such a hurry to grow up any wazz u got as long way to go i hope i helped

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hi. i'm a 16/f and when i masterbate, i think of girls. i look at pics of girls. not guys, girls. but i still like guys!! am i..gay?

ok well u like gurls and stuff but u say u like guys to well u have to find out ur deffiniton of like,guys mite turn u on like if u think gurls r hotter and they turn u on i think u or iether gay or bi and u have to figure it out urself u cant just have other ppl make ur desision for u hope i helped=)
~*HAM*~

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Do you guys think my mom would freak out if i married some one older than she is?

ok yes and ok i dont mean to seen mean but R U OUT OF UR FRIGGIN MIND HERE I MEAN CUM ON R U EVEN OLD ENOUGH TO LIKE DATE I MEAN SERIOCLY

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How can i become a more confident person?

To just trust yourself and beleive in yourself!Latas!
.::Chelsea::.

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Well I'm not looking forward to a root canal I'm doing on my tooth after New Years..haha ive heard it hurts sooo much!!! and if ne of u has seen finding nemo the guy is like freaking out LoL! so if u have done a root canal or know someone who has tell me..does it hurt? a lot? what happens..thanks i'll rate high..even if your answer isint the best cuz i dont wanna be mean! haha

Well, I haven't had it done but my friend has and she said that it really doesn't hurt and she's only 11! I hope this helps and that you don't hurt!Latas!
.::Chelsea::.

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Ok well last year all my dreams had come true. The guy I had feel for since I layed eyes on him 3 years ago, had finally liked me (though, we were going out or anything). I was pretty, popular... and I liked it. I wasnt conceited... I tried to act like I didnt know what people thought about me... but really I did. I heard ppl talk... I'm not stupid. Some goths said they didnt like me, some punks said I was too preppy. But I was me... and I liked it! I had my bff by my side always! The guys would usually fall for me... but it wasnt worth it, i had my eye on that one boy (from before). And now I notice that my bff was kind of my follower. I didnt mean to do it. I mean everyone knew we were bff's and we always hung out with the same people... but she didnt get as much attention from boy as me I guess. THEN something terrible happened... My middle school split up into different high schools... I didnt want this to happen at all... I loved my life, and now it was all changing!!! ANYWAYS i went to high school... and now that a year there has passed me and my bff are still friends... we have a lot of the same friends... but things are different. She's the one getting all the guys. Shes more popular because of sports and church and all. And I feel as if I'm the one following her. I hate it! Before it was perfect! my life was great! I felt so comfortable being myself! But now I feel different... I dont want to make a wrong move, I dont know what to say! I need some major help! not like 'be yourslef and everything will be great...'blah blah blah... Ive tried that... nothing changed. I just wanna be popular again! HELP ME. My friend just took my life

so just try and see what people like about the popular girls/kids and do what they do. If this doesn't help then I'm really sorry but this is the best i can do!Latas and hope you will feel better about yourself when this passes!
.::Chelsea::.

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okay well i've knownone of my friends sence the 6th grade and she was so sweet before and in the 7th she beganacting a little kinda slutty but now in the 8th she doesn't even much talk to me when she's around her group of friends that don't like me y don't they like me i dunno i never did anything to them but thats a PI (personal issue)so i wont get into that but ya she doesnt even talk to me no more and meand her were so close but now its like she will let boiz touch up on her and she just turned 13 and her bf is 22 or 21 i think.I don't like that at all i told her and she is like okay wutever and im trying to watch her back but she's just a LITTLE gurl and that guy is in his 20's he expects things and im trying to get her to understand but apperntly im the only one that cares cause her friends that don't like me agree with the relationship and i dunno wut do 4get about our friendship or keep on nagging her about it cause i do get tired trying to watch her back but i dont wannasee her suffer .so i dunno wut i can do and i wish that the old her came out but everytime i bring that up she gets offended and assumes that im just JELOUS (im not i dunno where she gets that idea from?!?!?!)plz help me!!!

I think that you should tell her parents or an authority figure. I really hope she gets a counseler or sumthin that will help her, I really do.Latas!
.::Chelsea::.

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wut has three arms but no legs, it has no eyes but can see all, it isnt alive but says more through its actions than anyone who is, and it is all around us.

It's a clock. Stupid I know, but that's what it is. latas!
.::Chelsea::.

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I have a horrible problem with my face getting red anytime i read in front of the class or do a speach. TOmorrow, i have to give a speach in english & I was wondering, if anyone had any ideas to yhelp me stop that... i odnt want stuff like " just be confident".. things like, is there anything you can take or if makeup or things like that would work. pleeease answer.. anyone who answer, i`ll give a 5

Do what I do, just know that your paper or whatever you do is way better than thiers because it's the best and you know it. And if that don't work, then just do sumthing funny on purpose and that will will help boost up your confidence.
Latas!
.::Chelsea::.

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my boyfriend and i have been datin for 3 weeks and my mom still doesnt kno(she doesnt care i have a boyfriend but doesnt want me to have one ...shes odd).my boyfriend hates hidin things from people and wants me to tell her but im just not ready to tell her yet. i honestly want to but i dont know how to come out and say it

ok well u dont actually have to tellher the compleat truth like u go like this ok u go up to ur mom and say mom is it ok if i have a bf bc i like this guy and he likes me and he asked me out and i told him i had to ask my mom first and he said ok i will wait for ur answer see say sumthin corny like that moms love that stuff and just pretend like its ur first date or sumthin hope this helps
~*HAM*~

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i have a friend that is very special to me. i have known her foreva nd i dont want to loose her becuz of things pplz say or who i hang out wit. My other friends dont like her but i do nd i want to be all of there friends nd they dont want to be her friend nd i dont kno wat to do. Tell me if u have ne advice.

ok first off learn how to spell and, and ur friends dont have to be his/her friends if they dont like him/her then they dont have to hang out with u at the same time u are with it (srry i dono the gender of ur friend)hope this helps
~*HAM*~

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my names samantha and im 16 b-days in september baby but any way! my question is? ok me and my boyfriend travis just broke up! i dont know why i broke up with him relly i think its because i was a little jeliouse that he talks to my friend mallory a lot! and then ok im pregnant to buthe already knows that! and when we had this fight he started drinking again and ya he kept saying he was gonna sleep with this other girl and then like a couple of days later he called me and he said he was sry and shit and that nothing ever happen!! but today i found out that he relly did sleep with this girl named jennifer...what do i do i mean i love this guy to death but i mean he never told me that he did this and that he slept with her he LIED to my face. and his friend matt had to tell me bcuz he wanted me to know...BUT WHAT DO I DO? hes the father of my baby and u i dont know wheather to like cut him off form talking to e or if i should get back together with him or what!???? im so confused PLZ i need a lot of answers if u guys can help that would be apreciated a lot thanxs.....samantha

ok i think u should ask him how would he feel if u did sumthin bad like that like get an aborshin or sumthin equally bad u know and dont take him bak u need to kick him to the curb and make him pay child sapport and make him buy the kid pritty shoes i hope i helped
~*HAM*~

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my best friend always talks to my mom on the comp it drives me so insane! bcuz i dont want my mom knoing about EVERY single fricken thing thats going on in my life i tryed telling her to stop but it doesnt work and i told my mom 2 stop and she wont wut the hell should i do? im miserable Answer ASAP

ok first off tell ur mom comly to stop then tell all ur friends to block that sn and get a new one and dont tell ur mom the pass word and make urs an adult one say u were born in 83 and tell ur friends ur new sn and ur set and dont tell ur mom shes a phsyco it will make her angry i talk from experience lol byebye hope i helpd
~*HAM*~

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i have a blood blister on my pinky toe, and it looks liek a little brown dot under my skin, how do i get rid of it?

i think u should go to the foot doc. and get it removed

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