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Hey, my names christine, and if you need any help or need a question awnserd feel free to ask me! you can e-mail me to! ... well theres not much to know about me exept im in the 8th grade, im mature for my age, somewhat tall... i love animals, im usually really funny, i suck school, and im wierd, so i pritty much fill all catigories, AND YES I SUCK AT SPELLING! so feel free to ask me anything!

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Ok some of you may think this is extremely dumb and think I am nuts; but when you have no desire, you don't want to do much. In Sept, I got my heart broken by a guy I was in love with, my first of everything, so it was a killer. But when the left, he took my everything including my desire to continue with my education. I started missing days for no reason, just staying home for no reason; now I am up to 15.5 days of absence. Meaning I can't be absent without a doctor excuse, which blows because no one goes to the doctor for a tummy ache or just a migrane(which I suffer with a lot). But not only so, I just don't like the atmosphere at school, it's a drag. This whole area is depressed, there isn't much us teens can do without getting into trouble. So legally, I can pull myself out of school and I've talked it over with my mom, she doesn't agree but can't make me stay since I am legally able to drop out. Everyone gives me the, "you're too bright, you have a lot going for you, you could be anything you wanted, you could go anywhere you wanted... why settle for a GED or even shut the doors to all those opportunities?" But I can't just tell them I have no desire anymore, they wouldn't understand. So my question is.... should I just stick this year out (I have till the end of May.. which is like 80 something days) or do what I think will give me peace of mind and drop out? Please help me because no one around me seems to be... I'll rate good, promise!!!!

Well im in middle school, and fell the same way sometimes, but if i were you i would stick in school, it will work out for you in the future... i hope this helps! p.s. if you ever need to talk, e-mail me @ christine1012005@hotmail.com

-cjAdvice

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well there's this stupid gurl who wants to fight me. she wants to fight me because i looked at her in a dirty way. that's a bunch of bullshit because i always say i to her whenever i see her and she's the one who's always giving me dirty looks! i'm not scared to fight her it's just that i don't want to get in trouble. so what should i do? should i try talking to her? please tell me what should i do?

well you could do 1 of 2 things, you could tell her to go screw herself, and beat her mean a## up (lol), or you could try talking it out with her.

and if you choose to fight (i would only use it as a last resort) only hit her if she hits you first...

hope this helps!

cjAdvice

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Ok, so we put my dog, maddie (she was 16 yrs.), to sleep about 3 or 4 yrs. ago and i reely want a puppy and my mom and dad have been saying no, but now, my mom has changed her mind and wants one, but my dad doesn't wana to get one b/c he thinks i wont take care of it and i promised i would! what should i do to convince him i would take care of it?!

You could leave it to your mom, OR you could ask him for a way for you to show how responsible you could be. hope this helps!

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Please don't delete this question, because I am actually very curious about this. Why do people join this website who aren't even serious about helping people or receiving help? People who need help come here and some ignorant people joke around and even insult these people in need. Don't you think it's time we suspend or expel these rude people? I'm sick of it myself.

Actually I reported someone today for sayin mean stuff to a gay dude... and as far as i can tell, (sadly) nothing has been done about it. Personally I think it's just downrite rude for people to do thing's like that, and i dont think they should be aloud on this site.

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well i like this guy n yes i am gay. hes a senior i like him alot a realy realy lot. n he is gay n my only problem is im a freshman. n we talk sometimes not often but we have alot in common. i need to know if i should bother asking him out. n e help would b wicked good.

thnx

Hi there! Ok first off, ultra tuna man is a total loser man, dont listen to him, he needs to get a life!!! =D and now for the advice, lol, I think you should totally try to ask him out!!! I mean life is short, so we should try to make it as sweet as possible, and take chances, so ill say, go for askin him out!!! =] hope this helps you!!!! and whatever happens, keep your head up high!

-cjAdvice

p.s.
if the tuna guy affended you, you can report him. =]

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So I have this boyfriend I love with all my heart. We've been going out for a little over a year. But like lately Uve been meeting other guys and I don't like them or anything but I always think of like what would happen if I cheated on my boyfriend with one of them. One of these guys, I will be seeing this weekend and I know it's possible something couldl happen. And I don't know. I don't want to cheat, but I might. Helppp!

If you really love your boy friend,you won't do any thing. Just keep that in mind, ok? Allso, why not invite your boyfriend to come with you two? That should work if you dont fully trust yourself.... so hope this helps,

cjAdvice

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hey im 13 female and i have a pimple or zit under my bottom lip so it looks like i have a lip ring but i dont want it to iss there any tips about getting ride of it and preventing more? i was my face atleast twice a day.

**sleepiesheep**

If you go to a store... lets say, Wallgreens :D, Im sure if you go there they will have some things that will get rid of it asap. Hope this helps!

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I'm a tiny little person (13/f) and my mom wants me to exercise. Aside from burning off fat and staying at a healthy weight, why is it important to exercise?

It lets u burn off all those unessisary fat cells burn away, and that helps you live longer, and stay more healthy. hope this helps you out!

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Hey guys,
I want to do my eyebrows so they don't look so like bad. Should i get them waxed? does waxing hurt? Is there a way I could maybe pluck my eyebrows at home and not have it hurt so bad? thnx much luv xoxoxoxox

I get mine waxed. for one thing it hurts way less than getting them plucked one by one.... lol

hope this helps!
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I am 13/f and I do dance, however can 30 mins of dance twice a week be considered enough excercise? Also, I am 5ft 4in and weigh like 140lbs which is considered Overweight. Would I need to do more excercise just to even maintain my weight and not get any bigger? Also, what types of clothes (for girls) look very slimming? I have a problem with fat protruding under my clothes making me look very horrible. What can I do about the saggy skin? It just hangs there. I want to look very tone and not jiggle at all. Society is so unaccepting of Big people like me it is hard to belive sometimes!

Hi there!

im 5'4 and im 160somthin-170 lbs. So I personally dont think your over waight. And acctually Im fairly shure your the right waight. The exersize you are doing now is great, but a way to tighten some skin is to do crunches!!!! Haha, I personally think these are iesiest.... so crunches here and there are good! hope this helps you!!!

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I think Well I know I love this one guy from school. I don't know what to do. I've been writing him notes(but i don't tell him it's me)and like he's only writen back once and he thought it was my friend. I want him to know that I like him. I've liked him since like EVER! I mean the day I saw him in 4th grade I like fell inlove!
Help me Please!
Signed,
Luv Struck.

dear luv struck,

my vote, is to just tell him you want to meet him smeware, like around a flagpole or the field or somthing, then go out there (after school lol)then he'll see u! Romantic, sweet, and surprising! or you can pass a note to him saying who you are!

hope this helps you! =D
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Me and my guy friend flirted back and forth for a lil while and finally he asked me out then he broke up with me 10 days after. We are still good friends but sometimes he gives me the same signals as before when he liked me,sometimes he acts like he hates me. I want him to like me but then again i don't want the whole drama of a new relationship starting up again. Well my question is, how do i get him off my mind?? I HATE thinking about him. Everybody says i talk about him too much help :( please

Well to me he sounds like a jerk whos messin with your heart, so, why not find someone else you like? Plus, theres always someone out there who is perfect for you, keep your eye open, and no worries! hope this helps!

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okay. like. i guess you could say im skinny. or normal. but in my opioionn im fat. i always pinch my stomech or w.e and its gross. i have thoughts about being annerexic or belimic. and i dont want to be annerexic cause like i love to eat. and if i could like perge or w.e i sware id be belmic in a heartbeat. and its like i cant stay on a diet im tempted too easily and i exsersize but i mean im sick of the fat on my stomech and i dont do any sports. what can i do. i know my thoughts arnt "healthy" and i want to change it. but the fat on my stomech has GOT TO GO.

why not try crunches?

start out with a few then gradually move on to more.

hope this helps,
cjAdvice

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does anyone know any good dance music thats hiphop and gets everyone crazy?? thanks ;)

YESSS! lol, why not eminem just lose it? at our dance last night every one seemed to get all crazy and fun! hope this helps!

cjAdvice

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hey does anyone know how to cover up a black eye completly? im a cheerleader with a black eye. i dont care if my mom and dad or lil bro see it. its my cheerleading coach i also have a compitition really close! so please help.
**sleepiesheep**

They have moist cover up, i would just use that. Hope this helps, and have fun cheerleading!!! =D

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Im 13 (female) So...there's this guy. ANd i REALLY like him...or at least i used to. Hes really cool and we're friends and stuff...see....i told him that i liked him...but it turns out that the same day...he had a friend fix him up with another girl......and so now he thinks that the only reason i talk to him is because i like him and he barely talks to me and....and I owuldnt mind just being friends with him, but hes being really mean to me...what should i do?

Set him staight and say "im not just talking to you because i like you, but because im your friend.." ya know? just tell him up front, hope this helps!

(power to the girls!!! lol)

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I have a hard time with commitment. I fall hard for a guy and then he asks me out. We go out for about a week then suddenly I get scared and break up with him. Then I realize how much and I miss him then we start and on again off again relationship. I don't know why I do this. It gets to be very annoying. Can you guys help me figure out how to stop doing this and stay together for once?

Omg! I have the same problem! Lol, i just try to think on the positive side as best i can. and just listen to your heart... that would help to... hope this helps!

cjAdvice

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hey im a guy...and no im not planning on getting an abortion. i was just wondering something: why is it that girls/women abort children instead of adopt them? i know there are plenty of reasons why, but is there one (or more) that would overshadow the case of giving birth then putting the baby up for adoption. looking for a girls point of view on this, because even if the girl didn't want the baby, would there be something wrong in giving it away instead of killing it? thanks, will rate.

well i think that the mothers dont want to go threw the pain, and then the suffering of not being able to care fore the child instead of giving birth to the child getting to see it, than having to give it away... i hope this helps you, and thats a great question to ask!

-cjAdvice

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hey im 13 and a female. i was wondering are looks an important part in a relationship? all my friends say it is but i think its a lil shallow.

**sleepiesheep**

you just asked that Question. and looks only matter to those who think it does

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hey im 13 and a female. i was wondering do online relationships work?

**sleepiesheep**

no.

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