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Okay so i went out for my ex for a long time..and he's on the football team. And everyone knew me as his girlfriend and his..so its kinda like i'm marked by him. Well we're broken up and you know like i want to hook up with other people or have another relationship or whatever but i feel like my ex owns me or something cause everyone just associates me with him. Some people even think were still going out when we broke up like 5 months ago.. WHAT DO I DO? its crazy lol i'm alawys like "WE'RE NOT TOGETHER!!" but i feel like no one gets it. And my friends hook up with guys a lot and i can't even like find someone else cause of my ex it seems like. I want to like put myself out there but i guess i'm kinda shy so i don't know how ahhh
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oooo!i can relate a little to you. you should put yoruself out there by flirting more with guys. I tend to be shy. but i put myself out there by even when you are shy, you can still lure guys in. what you can do is just be friendly. like smile a lot and just look open and welcoming. if you see a cute guy you like, make eye contact and give a friendly smile. just be generally like tht with as many guys as possible. then you can become friends with them, and then from then after getting to know them you can see which one likes you the most!lol....it is not too hard. you can do it. but anyway. once you get a guy, people will start to see you with that guy.
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hi there. i am a guy . 16 years old . let me just get to the point . i masturbate reqularly and i have read lots of things telling me about the harms of it. i would really like to stop it ,whether it is harmfull or not, but because it is becoming more like an addiction . any 1 with some advice on how to stop please. thanks in advance. (link)
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if the masturbating is getting in the way of your regular activities, then you should try to keep yourself busy and all accupied. because too much of anything can be bad. I'm a girl, and I do masterbate like every week. Some people do it everyday. Its normal, and its okay to do it. And its just nature. Like i think its just part of being human. But anyway. don't worry. I hope this helped.
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i dated this guy for about 2 years and i was in love. its been about 7 months now since weve broken up, and im not over him due to the fact that for the first 5 months after we broke up we would still hangout and he would still tell me he had alot of feelings for me until i couldnt take all of that bullshit anymore. just last month hes been saying that he missed me and that he still loved me.. then i wouldnt hear from him for another couple weeks.. its just confusing and annoying like if he really loved me he would actually be trying, but he doesnt and i just want to be done with it all because ive been so hurt by all his bullshit! anyways!! i really just want to get over him, any advice on ways to forget somenoe you were in love with? i really wish i could find a new guy to replace him and make me forget him but ive been trying and im just not into anybody.. i thought finding a new boyfriend would be much easier but its not at all. i go out a lot with friends but, it doesnt exactly help me get over him? (link)
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wow, i can relate to how you are feeling. not fully, but a little. It sounds to me like you want him back or something. If that is the case, then i think you should do to him what he is doing to you. make him want you. make him feel like how you are feeling right now. like when he says stuff and doesn't talk to you for like 2 weeks. you should think about doing the same but with maybe telling him exactly how you feel, and then ignore him. it will probably make him crazy. i think the really good way is to say how you feel, and then when he texts you back, ignore him. it will bug the shit out of him. or, another thing you can do is like if you are talking, tell him how you feel, and then just interrupt when he wants to respond, and be like "oh my gosh, i gotta go, i just remebered something...bye." i think this could get to him a lot. but even with all this, you seem to have had too much and as you say "have been so hurt by all this bullshit, and want to get over him". To get over him is probably and likely gonna happen in a small period of time. Because it seems like you had a really strong connection. And try to realize that there are more guys. That there is always someone better out there. And that everything will be okay. Keep yourself really busy. Do things that will take your mind off of him like sports or like, things you love to do, stuff that can make you really busy. or join a club or something...this will be good. and crying can help too because it releases all the stress and tension in your body and mind. But anyway. I am very sorry that all this has happened to you, and i hope that everthing gets better soon. you will get through this! goodluck.
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14/f
I have a lot of friends. But ever since we started high school we started splitting up more. I don't really have a problem with it anymore. Me and my friend still hang out with a couple of our other friends. But its kinda getting old. I want different friends. I don't want to lose these ones but its just not as fun as it use to be. I find it more fun to be with different people I met this year. I'm not a person who talks a lot. But I can if I wanted to. All my friend does is say, "oh you don't talk at all. you need to talk more...ect." Its getting annoying. But its always at the end of the day when I'm tired. She doesn't get that. She talks a lot like non stop. I mean I love her and all its just idk. She says I'm weird and stuff and I know she is joking around with me but she kinda brings me down. Like she will point out dumb stuff I do on accident and how I look and stuff. I have low self esteem so it doesn't help much. I can be a really confident person...when I'm not around her though. I don't really want to talk to her about this. I know I should but there isn't much I'll be able to do about it. So thats out. My question is how can have different friends being that I'm super shy with people I don't talk to. And how do I ignore the way she talks to me even though its not helping me do any better. Sorry it was long and thanks alot! (link)
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wow, i can really relate to you. I was in this same situation. I'm still in it. I think that your friend does this to you to bring herself up. That is how she keeps her selft esteem up. It seems like she has a low selfesteem, which she is probably hiding, and so she has to be negative towards you, so she can see you all down. Bringing her to a high! that is exactly what my friends do to me. And it gets on my nerves. But you can just try your best to ignore your friend when she does this stuff to you. Act normal like how you do, and show her that what she is saying doesn't affect you. Because she is looking for you to react to what she is saying. I don't kno if i'm making sense. Be yourself around them by just being you. Don't think about the things your friend has said to you, because it seems like she is having her own issues. Be you, and they will love you for who you are. And try not to think about what they think about ur personality, because everyone's personality is different, people are different...and the way you are, is what makes you. You are unique. I hope this helped. goodluck.
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ughhh! i am so angry! dont you just hate it when people you want to like you, don't. i use to be friends with this guy and now, im nothing to him.
how would you deal? (link)
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wow that can make a person pretty angry when that happens. You know, wut you can do is just try to reach out to him. you could tell him how you feel, but that might be a little bit hard. and then like, go up to him or when you pass him by be like..."hey stranger, how come you don't talk to me anymore? (and do it in a playful nice way)." and see what he says...and then maybe you can ask him be like....what happend to us, we used to be so close, now its as if we never knew each other.....then be like we should talk more often and catch...like we honestly got to catch up...don't you think? and then see what he says and how he acts and if he doesn't seem to want to be friends anymore, just forget about him because he obviously isn't trying to make ur friendship work. and it will be hard, but then you will have to somehow just let go of him and move on.
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Okay so pretty much me and my ex broke up 4 months ago but this is the only guy I have ever considered being in love with and Im not one to take that kinda stuff lightly you know? I seriously love this kid and I know that will never change even when I move on. Well after the break up I had to stop talking to him because it hurt to be around him. So after a while me and another one of my ex's started talking again and now we make-out when we hang out. The thing is I do not have those kinda feelings for him anymore and I feel horrible because I know im leading him on. I seriously feel empty of any feelings towards people right now. Especially him. SO how can I tell him that I cant talk to him anymore because I can't handle it right now. It seriously kills me that I have done this plus im still no were near being over my most recent ex. I feel horrible but I know i need to end this before it gets any worse.... Help anyone?
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i think that you should just tell him that you want him to be a best friend to you. Like you want him to be there as a best "friend/buddy", not in that intimate way because you feel like you are gonna lose his friendship. Tell him what you are feeling, but in a nice way so that ur friendship isn't ruined. If you do it, then you won't feel as bad, and its okay you know, to flirt a little bit, but not too much. because that is part of what i think will help you get over your ex, if you are really trying to get over him. i hope this helped. gdluck.
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this may be long but im desperate!
14/f
ok on october 25th me and my friend went to this hangout place and played games and stuff. now my friend is the type to go up to a guy and say hes hot then walk away. okay so shes had boyfriends but shes not a slut now im fat (but im working on it) and ive never had a boyrfriend. there were these to guys that we walked by and she went up to them and she was like do yall go to our school and i told her no they go to ***** (15 minutes from where i live) how do you
know and i said because i went to fifth grade with one of them (not the hot one) then we left. and i kept telling her how cute the other one was and so they both go to the school i was gonna go to if i hadnt moved and all my old bestfriends go to their school. so we were walking around and i was txting my cousin so i was like ya ok and she came back he the hot one was with her and im really shy so i was shocked and he asked me for my number and i got his then my friend and i were walking around some more and there was this one ride i REALLY wanted to go on but she was too scared so she went up to him and asked him if he would go on the ride (an enclosed, 2 person, upside down ride) and he said he didnt have any money left so she INSISTED on giving him the money so he said ya but in like 10 minutes his friend and him said they were gonna go outside to talk to somebody (and we were like ya right there not coming back) so twenty minutes later we went outside to see if they were there and they wernt so we came back and like five muntes later i saw them and he waved by to me and thats it so i fianlly convinced my friend to go on the ride with me and we were waiting in line and i was picking a ride and then i saw my friend turn around and i turned around and he was standing there (my heart dropped, i was so shocked) and so my friend was like you saved me and me and him got on the ride and then he left without saying bye but i started txting him that night and i was asking him questions like so whats your favorite band etc. and he was really short with his answers and he never asked me anything and i was like do u want me to stop asking you questions and he was like idc. then my friend took my phone while i was in the shower ( i told her to) and she called him! and she was like hey do you like her a little tiny bit? and he was like uhmmmmmmmm uhmmmmmmmm uhmmmmmmmmm ya i like her eyes, but i just need to get to know her before we date(:. then they hung up so i said good night then the next night (sunday) he called me from a different number and he was letting me know that hecan recieve and calls a texts but he cant call or txt people and i was like oh then he was like ya but you can call me tonight or tomorrow or both if you want. then that night i called him and we had a really good 30minute conversation, we have a lot in common. and he was like i have a question and i said what and he was like do you wear contacts? and i said no and he said you well you have really pretty eyes (there green.) and i was like aw thanks. (the nicest thing he has ever said to me. so i called him everyother day and he was really just to tired to talk and we have really awkward silences soin total we have only had like 3 good convos since then but one night we were talking and we talk for like 30 40 minutes and he was like hey what time are you going to sleep and i said midnight probably and he was like ok then ill call you at 11 so we can talk for an hour, and i was like ok but ur probably gonna forget and he was like know i wont i swear i double swear i promise. then he called me 12 cause he thought it was 11 and we didnt even talk a lot cause we were both really tired. so i ALWAYS CALL HIM like hes only called me TWICE and we never have anything to talk about except for on the weekends. and last weekend i was at his school cause my bestfriend was in a play and i went to go see it and the next day i called him and was like i was at your school last night and he was like why and i told himwhy and he was like ohh you should have called me i couldve seen it with you(: but yaa i mean i would LOVE to go to the movies with him or something im just so shy and fat... :/
what do you think??
should i stop calling him?
do you think he likes me?
ive gone 4 days without calling himn to see if he would call me and he didnt.
i need help dudes.
please?? (link)
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This boy, sounds like the boy my best friend just broke up with. It sounds like he likes you. He probably just has problems with his phone. So don't worry. Make him want you, by just calling him, and maybe when you are talking say, hey, my phone is being weird, and i can only take incoming calls, so can you call me tomorrow, or thursday, or just tell him to call you somehow. Because the part about calling is a little bit awkward. Maybe he is really shy. That is what t might seem like. Because he doesn't say much on the phone or whatever....A lot of the times when people like each other, it is really hard to make convo. Which to me in the beginning can be a good thing because it shows that the person is nervous around you, and they can't think because they like you so much. But it will sure get better in time. Don't worry! And the fact that he was happy about you meeting his mom, is showing that he likes you enough to show you off to his mom. So thumbs up for you! One thing you can do to get him to open up to you and talk more, is to be you and open a little up to him. And ask him question about his hobbies, and talk about it. It will get him more comfortable. But he likes you. I think that the problem is just being shy and not knowing each other well yet, but everything will get better soon! good luck.
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Well me and my " First Love " dated a year and 3 months , We broke up in June ... We've had MAJ0R fights over these past 5 months . Sometimes we're good , and sometimes it's real bad ... Well these past couple of weeks have been REALLY bad , but it's honestly [ not ] me! I understood that when we broke up we were gonna " talk " & do other things with people , I fount out crap like a couple weeks after we broke up .. ofcourse I was upset but I mean we were not dating so I could'nt really say anything about it ... Well as soon as he finds out stuff about me he JUMPS down my throwt , calls me a whore , and all kinds of stuff and says EVERY BAD THiNG in the book! He's done the same as I but yet ( im ) the bad person . He says he does'nt like me as a person and horrible stuff ... Well I ALWAYS try to make things right because we're each others first love and I believe we should atleast be friends , but its like he DOESNT care .. always ignores me , not even a simple hey or a smile in the hallway .. I never snap back but last night I LOST IT!! I went off on him and told him to get the FCK out my life , is that wrong ? I mean honestly he is such a jerk and he never talks to me anymore ... him being so called " in " my life is the same as him being " out " .... I think it's best if he's out .. atleast for right now .. help ? (link)
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this is what i'm thnking about him getting mad at you and saying bad stuff about you; when he is doing the same thing. HE IS JEALOUS!!!lol....that boy still loves you. wether he likes it or not.So he is trying to figure out ways to make himself feel better for the things you did to other people other than him. Honestly, he would love to be the one you had or whatever. He only says all these things to make himself feel better and to try to convince himself that he can be along without loving you. But he is really nuts about you. I think he also igonores you in the halls because he can't take talking to you or anything like that because he is still strugling to erase you from his mind. So he is doing everything he can to do that. HE CARES!!!! don't worry, its human to say things like this. Its not wrong, because in my opinion, its good to be you. You expressed how you were feeling. It might have been harsh, but at least you got out how you were feeling. Leave that box of friendship for him. Like that open space. Because I thnk that maybe he is taking longer than you to get over your love. So you probably should just step away from him. Give him the same attitude he gives you. Like as if you were playing hard to get. And then maybe he will want you and realize that he does want you as a friend. I think that when he sees you not trying to get along with him, it will hurt him, making him want to come to you. Anyway, this is my thot about your situation. I hope I helped!lol...goodluck
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When you make out, what do you do with both of your tongues and do your tongues stay in the other persons mouth the whole time or do they go in and out a bunch? Like, do you touch tongues, then go back into a regular kiss and just keep repeating this or what? I am so confused. Please let me know, or give me steps and details and everything! Thanks! (link)
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hey. your tongue is not in there the whole time. and you can touch your tongues. then go back and instead of a regular kiss, suck his lip. then keep repeating, but alternate. sometimes do the top lip, and sometimes the bottom. and you can suck his togue too if you want. You just have to go with the flow of what he is doing. And just be relaxed and don't rush. Your tongues don't stay in each others mouths the whole time. But when you are making out. Touch his body. The back of his neck, his face, his shoulders, anything. And you will get him. you will get used to it after a while. I hope this helped. Goodluck!
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Well, he told me he likes me.
but 'not as much as he did before', so now I wonder how much he did before.
But I really want him, and I don't want to.
So I think I'm guna play your game w/ him.
I'll flirt with him, than totally ignore him.
I hope that works, i'm down for anything now!
It's been so long!
ugh!
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lol...u get him...hahah...that will make him so confused and weird he will wonder what is going on with you. Which will be meaning that he is thinking constantly about you...so it'll be good. u go girl...lol.....u want him, now ur gonna make him come after you..that is really good.
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16/f
I have never made out with a guy before. Just kissed them. Well when the moment comes, i want to be prepared. I know a lot of people say that making out is natural and everything but i am completely clueless on what it is and how you do it pleasedon't say, it comes natural. If you could tell me what it is and how you do it with steps or something like that, that would be great. Thanks! (link)
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relax! that is the best thing you can do..lol...relaxing makes everything go much much smoother. What you can do is suck his bottom lip, and then alternate to the top with your tongue. And then just follow. Keep doing this, and then as you get used to it start to play like, play with ur tongues, and bite, and pop his lip....not in a hurtful way tho...nd then u cn come up with your own ideas after tht too. goodluck!you will be really good. You just have to relax and go with the flow.
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18 year old female.
helllooo :) okay long story, but please read i need advice i feel so lost right now. i'll admit, i'm in love with my best friend. we have a weird relationship. we're attracted to each other, we would hook up if it weren't for his girlfriend of two years. this is what happened. he's been saying he wants to get with me, i know he has feelings for me but hasn't straight up said it. well i was like i can't do anything you have a girlfriend. well he came over last night, my parents were gone. and at first we were just talking. i was trying to make food. and then all of a sudden he goes, "me and maria are on a break." and i was like don't try to pull that on me. do you know how many guys have said that they broke up with their girlfriends, and i've kissed them or something and i find out they were still going out with them, and he just laughed. so i didn't know if he was being serious about it or not. so i let it go, and we were in my bedroom and i took my shirt off to change and i was like i have to get a shirt and he was like no you dont so i was like fine, whatever i dont care. and we were cuddling and messin with each other on my bed and well he kissed me. and he was suppose to go to hockey at 8, and when he was like okay i have to go, i was like no don't leave me, your not going. i'm not letting you. and he was like i have to. i was like you don't want to though and he was like i know but i have to! and so then he stayed for awhile with me, and was like just holding me and being cute and he ended up leaving at 8:45 to hockey, he was late, just for me. i thought this was cute i felt bad but it was still cute. well after he left i went to my cousins house with my friend,and he is their neighbor. so we were there for awhile and then he texted me after hockey and was like we are seriously on a break. and then he was like "are you at jackies?" which is my cousin and i was like yeah. and he was like come see me and i was like oh yeah that wouldn't be obvious and he was like just tell them you haven't seen me for awhile. so i was like fine, and i went to his house and we just watched tv and i fell asleep in his arms for a little bit. and then i had to go, and he was like no you're not going, i'm not letting you (just like i did to him earlier) i knew this was going to happen and so like 10 minutes later, he let me go. and then he texted me after i left and we were talking and he was like you owe me for being late to hockey. and i was like no i dont :) and he was like yes. and we were talking about that, and he was like "i was trying to do stuff with you but you didnt let me" and i was like well i thought you still had a girlfriend. and then i fell asleep and this morning i had a text from him saying yes you do! about owing him. and i was like ok yeah i do! i feel bad. and then he text back and was like you do what? i was like owe you and he was like oh. yea. and i was like okay? seems like he doesn't want to talk to me so i didn't say anything back. i don't know whats going on. i was even like even if you were on a break i bet you would be going back out tomorrow anyways and he was like no!! and now i feel like he is talking to her again or something, i dont know. i feel like he wanted to take a break with her, to see how it would be with me. but now i'm so confused. (link)
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this might not make you happy but this is how it looks to me. This guy was apparantly on a brake with his girlfriend. he was probably hurt, and trying to get over it through you. And I think that the next day something else happend that made him start to act awkward. It sounds like you really trully like this guy, but it seems like he is after you for the wrong reasons, and most guys are, but i don't think you want to get hit and quit. He wanted to "do stuff with you", and that is all he claimed he wanted from you. I don't know, but that just sounds like he wants sex or to be physical only. That you don't deserve. But anyway. I hope I helped, and you could be right about him seeing how it would be with you, but this is just my opinion. Goodluck!
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religion is essential to a moral society?
what are your guys opinions or support? (link)
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Like, i'm 16...and I honestly think that people have the right to do whatever they want. But i think it is so hard to live life without believing something. I think that it is good to have some belief about life and everything because if not, then you end up being all confused and you don't really have a base on what life is about or how to live life successfully. I think that life without any kind of religion or belief is tough, because you question things more and you aren't steady and life gets a bitunbalanced and overwhelming. this is my thot abt religion. I hope it made sense.
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I'm catholic, I even attended a catholic school [K-2grade] I'm 13 now and I don't really believe in God. Actually I'm not that sure anymore. I would like to believe in him but I just don't. So I was wondering if there is like any proof in God. Like how do people know he did exist. Because right now I'm on the lines of believing in evolution because its the only one they have actual proof on and it makes sense. Also, I'd like to add how none of the stories are actually possibe. Like the story about that guy getting swallowed by the whale its impossibe, which leads me to believe God doesn't exist and he's jus a bunch of stories and myths.
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it is okay to feel how you are feeling. I'm 16 and I think i can put myself in your shoes. I was going through the same situation as you are. One thing that you have to start out with is faith. Its believing. You don't need prof to know that he exists. It doesn't matter if you call him God, Heavenly father, anything he is there. Think about it this way. K. I'm not trying to tell you that your mom is not your mom but how do you know that your mom is your mom?.................................you honstely don't know because you could actually be adopted.lol....but how do you know that your mom is your mom?................................well, you honestly don't know if your mom is your mom, but you believe that she is your mom. You can't recall ever coming out of your mom's womb? you were'nt really there when you were born, so you can't say wether or not your mom is your mom. But what you have, is a belief. You believe that your mom is your mom, not because you were there and you saw, but because of PEOPLE THAT WERE THERE TO SEE YOU....because of doctors and family. Its the same thing with God. We believe, because people back in the the day were there. They witnessed him. And recorded it, and they know that he was there. Like when you are gone, your great grand kids are gonna hear stories about you, through their parents, they will believe. But wether or not they believe you, doesn't change the fact that you were there. It the same thing with God. Wether or not we believe that he is there, and through all the prophets and people that were there and saw him there, we believe that he was there. I hope this didn't confuse you too much. And I hope it helped. Goodluck!
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I'll be the first to admit that I'm completely taken advantage of. Everyone describes me as the "nicest person they have ever met". And I couldn't agree more with them.
Making people happy is my main focus in life. It's always others before me. I'm there to comfort my friends, pay for everything(I have given a friend $2,000 to get a car when my own car is completely broke), drive them places (including three hours just to comfort them), do the stupid shit to make them happy (ex: make them crafts, bake them cakes..ect.), the word "no" does not exist in my vocabulary and provide or find entertainment for them when they are bored. It makes me feel so good to do so much for them.
At the same time being nice is my weakness. I have a love hate relationship with it. I love seeing people content and happy with their life. I see how much value I put into people but they usually don't realize it. Lately I've been crying about this because I'm not sure how to handle this. I've had things stolen from me, people ditch me, using me for my kindness, only calling when they want something or when it's convient for them. I "thought" I had friends but when it comes down to it I couldn't be more alone.
I can't say "no, I won't help you" or leave anyone stranded. I have tried to confront people about using me before but it only makes the situation worse. And I was never raised to be mean. Does anyone else have this problem? And for the people who actually do have a back bone...can you provide suggestions for me?
I always tell myself karma will be good to be someday. But I'm finding my optistic views slowly thinking otherwise.
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it sounds like you are an amazing person for doing this. You've probably herd the saying that too much of anything can be really bad. I think that you are being too nice. You have to control that niceness. Be a little bit stingy. That is why people are only coming to you when they want something, because you are way too nice. You should hold back a little bit. Like, help someone when they really are in need, not when they just want something. Like your friend wanting a car and you giving them 2,000 dollars to buy the car. That is too much, help people who seem to be suffering. because you obviously can tell when they are using you, so don't let them do it. Tell them you can't do it. Or give them advice and tell them to apply for a job or something. You are right, karma is alive. What goes around comes around. It will come and bite them in the butt hole really hard, but that doesn't mean you have to b too nice. Just only help when you see that the person is really strugling. Like if thier tire brakes down, they need a ride to the hospital because they are sick, they need someone to talk to because they are going through a tough time. Things like that. Dn't get them things that are too big. Too much of anything is bad.I hope this helped. Goodluck.
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15 female. (sorry its super long, but please read!)
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hey everyone! well, last night i went to a homecoming with the boy i like. me and him have been reallly good friends since forever. and he knows i like him and sometimes i think he likes me too. well, anyways.. a week before the homecoming he asked me when i go trick or treating, if i get him 10 reces he will give me a surprise. well i did, and he told me he had a surprise for me. i believed him.
then also before homecoming we were talking on msn like on webcam. and i dont remember what we were talking about but he said i looked pretty. and then i wrote something to him like : i want you to be ____ ! ; and he put your boyfriend? and i was like psf, i wish. so he put i wish you were my girlfriend... and so i thought he was gonna ask me out! but he didnt.. that night of the homecoming we went to his house before we went.
we messed around, sexually. and then when we were at the homecoming he kissed me a couple of times in front of all his friends, which that never happens. so i thought, okay maybe he is going to ask me out! but he didnt.
that night after we got home, we almost had sex, but it hurt wayyyyy tooo much only after he put the head of his dick so we didnt do it.
which is another thing, im not a virgin, but ive only had sex once which was like 9 months ago.. so that can explain why it hurt so much??
well, thanks for reading and i would like to know what you think about this situation. i reallllly like him, alot! and i wanna be his gf. but idk whats going on in his head :/ also can you let me know why it hurt so bad for the sex part. and how much more times do i gotta do it so it wont hurt?!
thank you so much!!!
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do you know what i honestly think, is that you should play some hard to get. He is gonna end up hurting you, because he seems to be all straight up into things that lead to sex. You do not deserve to get hurt by this guy. What I think that you should do just distance yourself a little, and play hard to get. It'll make him want you even more. Like flirt with other guys and stuff like tht. Don't make it seem like you want him so bad and you gotta have him.But don't ignore him completely. Usually things that go by too fast, don't last too long or they don't work out. Yeah..... I've had friends who say that about your third time, it doesn't hurt, so that is probably whats happening to you.
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helllllo! 18 years old. i've been through so much in the past two days its crazy. well i like this guy but he has a girlfriend. he has feelings for me too but said he would feel too bad breaking up with her. last night he told me they were on a break. i didn't believe him, at all. then later he said, seriously we are i'm not kidding. so i was like okay i believe you. well then today my friend was like his "girlfriend" is at his house. i started balling. i was like seriously why would he do this to me, he lied to me. and my friend was like i'm going to kill him. so she texted him and was like are you and nicole on a break? and he was like i dont know kind of, why? and she was like well it's kind of weird that if you are, that she is at your house right now. so after i heard that i was fed up and i texted him and said "when you lie to me, like you did maybe you should try hiding it a little better next time" and he was like i did not lie to you! and i didnt say anything back, then he was like are you being serious? your talking about me and nicole right? (his girlfriend) and i didnt say anything back, he was like linds. and finally i was like, yeah im being serious, i'm not as dumb as you think i am. and he was like i don't think your dumb! and i didn't lie to you. we are on a break thing. we are still like kind of dating but decided to not hang out for a while and see what happens. and i was like i don't think i can trust you anymore.. and he was like linds why! i didn't lie to you. and i was like, because you know how hard it is for me to trust people and i finally trusted you and you pull this shit on me and he was like i didn't lie. i'm sorry if you think i did but i didn't. and i was just like you better be sorry, i feel like i shouldn't even be talking to you right now. and he was like i am sorry. i'm sorry you think i lied to you, but i didn't, i wouldn't lie to you, but i guess i'll let you go then..im sorry. and i was like i'm not even going to argue with you right now, it doesn't matter and he was like, ok.. and i was like you can text me later or something because right now i'm in a really bad mood and i don't want to say something to you that i don't mean and he was like alright..
do you think i was too harsh? i just don't know he made be cry so hard when i heard his girlfriend or whatever you want to call her was at his house today. i was starting to shake i was so upset. i felt bad because i know he felt really bad, and after i called my friend and she was like i really don't think he is lying to you. and so i felt even worse! but i told him how i felt, because really i was hurt, badly. i thought he betrayed me. i hope he doesn't think i hate him now. i told him to text me "later" do you think he will? i just need an opinion. (link)
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so. In my opinion, I think that maybe you could have asked him his side of the story before coming to conclusions. Don't worry though, I honestly would have freaked out on him too because if I were you trying to gain trust from people, it would hurt to have something like this happen, so I can try to put myself in your shoes. I think this just shows you that you know, your friend might have told you something, but you shouldn't have quickly taken what she said as accurate until you found out his side because she ended up saying that he was on a brake with his girlfriend. You sound like you like to talk when you go through these things, so you did good by how you were feeling, and getting things a somewhat closer to normal. Be careful though. He says he likes you, but he's with her right now, on a break. Be really careful. Don't get your hopes up too high, because you could end up getting hurt if they get bak together. Just try to leave your options open, and meet different guys, or go out with them. That way you won't be waiting on a guy that you are not sure of, and one that you seem to have doubts about. I hope this helped. goodluck!!!
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ive been dating my amazing boyfriend for 3 months and recently hes been starting to kiss my neck...does this mean anything?
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i think he is just being affectionate with you..lol...in a physical cute way. He likes you alot. It could also meu a that he wants to give you a hickey. Or he wants to take it a step farther in that kissy way. I think that he is just showing how much he loves you through that kissing of the neck.
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theres this boy in my class, wer freshmans btw , ive liked him since lat year, and this isnt some kind of crush thing, i have strong feelings for him well anwyays,this kid will only look at me when i turn around,like he will never look at me if im lookin his way,and whenever my head is his way he always looks somewhere else,and everytime i turn around he like stares,[[This is what my friends tell me, which by the way i knoi and trust alot] whenever me nd him are like walkin next to the door or osmething or he wants to pass buy me he alwayus seems to bump into me or touch me, like my hand and stuff, and when he talks to me he always has this smirk on his face like he wants to smile, ofcourse i cant control it when i talk to him and i jus smile so widely ,but do you think this could mean something? and also he jus asks me the most stupidest stuff like, do we have h.w or something,and he tries to ge my attnetion by makin loud noises in class and stuff, idk what do yoou think? maybe im jus being paranoid.. (link)
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It sounds like he likes you too! It sounds like it because he always bumps into you, and smirks, and he asks u the stupedest questions. Most of the time when we like people, we don't kno what to say, and the we come up with the stupedest stuff. But anyways, you should think about talking to him more. It sounds a lot like he likes you.
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You see, i have this friend witch at the beginning we werent really friends. But then her and her bestest friend had a small argument, so they werent talking to each other. Thats when my friend and I "were" very close. But now they arent mad at each other anymore and i am glad about that and at the same time I feel used because my friend is talkning to her and not really to me, WHAT SHOULD I DO? should I just let it go or do something about it? (link)
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tell her flat out, and straight up honestly, because you don't wanna keep feeling like this. You don't deserve to feel like she used you. Just one day when you see her in the hall just be like..."hey stranger...lol..are you too cool to talk to now or wut?lol.....(say it in a jokingly gway)hahah...wut happened? ever since you got cool again with your best friend you don't talk to me anymore." then you guys will probably talk it out. If she responds in a weird way lke distantly fake, then forget about her, and if she is all nice and welcoming and stuff, then you guys will be very close again. anyway....goodbye!good luck..hope this helped.
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