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make out.
16/f
I have never made out with a guy before. Just kissed them. Well when the moment comes, i want to be prepared. I know a lot of people say that making out is natural and everything but i am completely clueless on what it is and how you do it pleasedon't say, it comes natural. If you could tell me what it is and how you do it with steps or something like that, that would be great. Thanks!
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relax! that is the best thing you can do..lol...relaxing makes everything go much much smoother. What you can do is suck his bottom lip, and then alternate to the top with your tongue. And then just follow. Keep doing this, and then as you get used to it start to play like, play with ur tongues, and bite, and pop his lip....not in a hurtful way tho...nd then u cn come up with your own ideas after tht too. goodluck!you will be really good. You just have to relax and go with the flow.
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don't worry about it, if you're unsure of what to do just follow his lead and eventually you'll get comfortable. everyone says this but it really is natural. do basically whatever you feel is right just make sure you dont like stab your tongue down his throat or bite him or anything and you'll be fine, just don't worry =)
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This is something I can totally relate to. Making out is just an extended kiss. Kissing session, rather. I remember, like mid-September-ish, my boyfriend wanted to makeout with me and I remember thinking like "Oh my gosh. I have no idea what to do. What am I going to do?" I didn't want to ask anyone because that is rather embarrassing and I definitely didn't want to talk about it with my boyfriend. That's even worse lol.
So what I did, was look on the internet (because anything and everything is found on the internet) to look for some tips and maybe even some steps. If you want to do the same, just go to google and type "how to make out".
After I did that, I had so much more confidence, you don't even know. I was just like, "okay, I can do this without stressing and worrying". When the time came, I was relaxed and not mortified.
Though, my main worry was "what if he thinks I'm not a good kisser?" But that didn't even cross my mind when I first made out with him.
How did I do it? Well, I waited for the right moment and he pulled me in for it. I followed his lead and everything went well. I can't tell you exact how-to dircections, because what my boyfriend did may be different to what the guy you make out with has planned. But I can tell you that it started out as a kiss and we gradually went further into an "extended kiss".
Just be yourself and be relaxed and I can guartentee he won't even notice if you're good or not. My own tips: I usually stroke his back once or twice, put my hand(s) on the back of his neck or on his cheek.
Making out may lead to other things and if you're uncomfortable doing whatever it may lead to, don't feel pressured to do so.
P.S. Do not forget to close your eyes !
I hope I helped !!!
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Well, you don't have to. I never put my tongue in my boyfriends mouth. He always puts his in my mouth. Don't worry about it, you'll know when your tongue is needed. I know you don't want to hear it, but it's really a very natural thing and it'll just come to you :]
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when ever anyone asks me this question, i always forget like what exactly happened when ever i have made out with a guy before. it ussually starts out with a regular kiss and i always let the guy make the first move, he'll probably open his lips a little bit and move his toungue towards your lips to basically ask you to open your mouth more. and the way your toungues move all have to do w/ the two people who are kissing. i move my in and out and massage the guy's tounge
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