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so lost, whats going on with him?
18 year old female.
helllooo :) okay long story, but please read i need advice i feel so lost right now. i'll admit, i'm in love with my best friend. we have a weird relationship. we're attracted to each other, we would hook up if it weren't for his girlfriend of two years. this is what happened. he's been saying he wants to get with me, i know he has feelings for me but hasn't straight up said it. well i was like i can't do anything you have a girlfriend. well he came over last night, my parents were gone. and at first we were just talking. i was trying to make food. and then all of a sudden he goes, "me and maria are on a break." and i was like don't try to pull that on me. do you know how many guys have said that they broke up with their girlfriends, and i've kissed them or something and i find out they were still going out with them, and he just laughed. so i didn't know if he was being serious about it or not. so i let it go, and we were in my bedroom and i took my shirt off to change and i was like i have to get a shirt and he was like no you dont so i was like fine, whatever i dont care. and we were cuddling and messin with each other on my bed and well he kissed me. and he was suppose to go to hockey at 8, and when he was like okay i have to go, i was like no don't leave me, your not going. i'm not letting you. and he was like i have to. i was like you don't want to though and he was like i know but i have to! and so then he stayed for awhile with me, and was like just holding me and being cute and he ended up leaving at 8:45 to hockey, he was late, just for me. i thought this was cute i felt bad but it was still cute. well after he left i went to my cousins house with my friend,and he is their neighbor. so we were there for awhile and then he texted me after hockey and was like we are seriously on a break. and then he was like "are you at jackies?" which is my cousin and i was like yeah. and he was like come see me and i was like oh yeah that wouldn't be obvious and he was like just tell them you haven't seen me for awhile. so i was like fine, and i went to his house and we just watched tv and i fell asleep in his arms for a little bit. and then i had to go, and he was like no you're not going, i'm not letting you (just like i did to him earlier) i knew this was going to happen and so like 10 minutes later, he let me go. and then he texted me after i left and we were talking and he was like you owe me for being late to hockey. and i was like no i dont :) and he was like yes. and we were talking about that, and he was like "i was trying to do stuff with you but you didnt let me" and i was like well i thought you still had a girlfriend. and then i fell asleep and this morning i had a text from him saying yes you do! about owing him. and i was like ok yeah i do! i feel bad. and then he text back and was like you do what? i was like owe you and he was like oh. yea. and i was like okay? seems like he doesn't want to talk to me so i didn't say anything back. i don't know whats going on. i was even like even if you were on a break i bet you would be going back out tomorrow anyways and he was like no!! and now i feel like he is talking to her again or something, i dont know. i feel like he wanted to take a break with her, to see how it would be with me. but now i'm so confused.
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this might not make you happy but this is how it looks to me. This guy was apparantly on a brake with his girlfriend. he was probably hurt, and trying to get over it through you. And I think that the next day something else happend that made him start to act awkward. It sounds like you really trully like this guy, but it seems like he is after you for the wrong reasons, and most guys are, but i don't think you want to get hit and quit. He wanted to "do stuff with you", and that is all he claimed he wanted from you. I don't know, but that just sounds like he wants sex or to be physical only. That you don't deserve. But anyway. I hope I helped, and you could be right about him seeing how it would be with you, but this is just my opinion. Goodluck!
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i've been on the other side of that before. even though he's your best friend he could be lying to you. keep that in mind. he's been going out with the girl for 2 years. that's a long time. if they are on a break, getting back together is most likely going to happen. starting over after a 2 year relationship is hard. it sounds like the guy is playing games. it's probably best not to get yourself into this mess.
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Well taken your shirt off in front of him made him think you was going to let him take over your body.Trust me from asprience.If he did take a break from his old girlfriend for you maybe you just didn't let him have what he wanted and that he only broke up with her for sex and he thought you would give it to you. If he can be late for hocky for you then hun he realy does like you that means he is putting in before hocky and that is cute. Try calling or texting him how you feel,tell him that when yall was hanging out that night it was the best night of your life and you thought he dumped his gf for you, and that you wish you could go back and let him do what he wanted. (even if you dont mean it)
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