Hi im Cherry Coke, I know that I am not perfect but I hope my advice will help!!
My favorite music is pretty much alternitive rock I love it. My favorite bands are Panic at the disco, Fall out boy, My Chemical Romance ,Paramore, Tokio hotel, 3 days grace, AFI and Papa roach etc
Im in Fastpitch Softball and am a Swimmer..
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Gender: Female
Member Since: March 14, 2008
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Last Update: June 5, 2008
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Well, I met a guy & really liked him & got on great with him. I had a feeling he was a player, so I didnt get too involved. Although I've found out he was messaging a friend of a friend being over "friendly", & when I asked about it lightly he openly admitted it & continued to message her (probably to annoy/keep me on my toes) but now I need advice on how to do the same back to him. I wont steep into messaging his friends, but ways which will keep him on his toes? I would really appreciate your advice! xxx (link)
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I would dump him!! You shouldent have to look over your bf shoulder when ever hes on the phone y should you have to compete with him.Hes your Bf he shouldent tease you in the first place!
I hope my advice will help...
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okay..high school classes can be very boring sometimes, as I'm sure you all know..and I suffer from..falling asleep during some of them.
I can't help it. Sometimes..even when I get like 10 hours of sleep, my eye lids still feel heavy..and they droop down..and I feel like sleeping. No matter what I do..clench my butt muscles, pump my veins, drink water..NOTHING works. what can I do to cure this? lol (link)
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I would have the person who sits behind you poke you on the back when they think your sleeping or ask alot of questions and keep in the learning conversation. Mabe even hold your eyelids open!!
Hope my advice will do somthing to help...
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is cutting your wrists without blood, slitting your wrists? (link)
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I would say it is techniclly because your still cutting your wrists. But i havent seen your wrists but I would say yes...
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does blow drying your hair cause split ends?
i know straightening does but im not too sure about blow dryingg. (link)
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yes blow drying does cause split hair and damages your hair!!
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I AM SO EMBARRASED
i dont go on here much but i went on the otha day and forgot to log off, my sis posted this thing about how she had sex with my best friend and all this shit i cant look at him or my sister the same at all she knows i saw it
what do i do? (link)
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I no how that feels somthing like that happend to me before. I was so embarresd and couldent stop thinking about it. But after awhile everyone forgets and somthing bigger happens. I would tell your sister about how embarrased you are and talk to your friend about it so then you can get that of your chest and who cares what people think. that if you and your friend have talked to each other and he knows your sister did it. Alls you have to do is explain what happend your friend will understand and you can move on.
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why are you such a dork SARAH??? (link)
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because I like it that way dont even talk to me lioke that you silly bo-billy mi filly
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im 15 years old. my name is william.
I am a freshman in highschool and for the past year ive been getting into drugs and alcohol very bad. my family doesnt trust me anymore, my friends (who got me into this shit) hate me and fuck with me. one of my best friends just jacked my ipod so that kinda hurt me. i can't get through the day without some pot or beer now, im turning into a complete alcoholic (kinda drunk right now). im ugly, i have very bad back acne, im getting 5 F's in school, no one (my family or friends) trust or like me. I have no one to talk to, i'm always grounded so I have nothing to do. I just want to make my life better, im fucking miserable right now. If I could i'd do better in school, I really try, but I don't get any of the math or science shit. I never did good in school, but 5 F's is outrageous and I need to change it. I try to get new friends, but im always shy and can't start or keep a conversation with anyone at school. I want to change who I am. I want to meet new people. But I can't. I want to get good grades, I want to do good in school and make my family proud, and stay out of drugs/alcohol, but I can't. I'm just that stupid kid that no one likes. maybe i'll just die.
thanks for listening to me, im just kind of venting here but any and all help would be great =] (link)
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First you need to dump your drug/achoohal friends and fast. Then you are going to need to depend on your parents tell them you need there help to quit. The only way that people will trust you is if your not high and thats were the acne is coming from to the drugs!! You need to go your school counsler if your parents dont help you you need someone who can stop you from killing yourself with drugs. When you have stoped the drugs your going to have to start all over again with your friends and it will be easier to have friends when your normal again.
I hope my advice will help you..
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14/F. okay so i dont no what is wrond with me. i used to be so happy, then i started cutting myself, idk why, and then on everything has just been going downhill from there. nothing ever makes me happy, and my recent mood change has made all me friends mad at me, and i can't tell them what's wrong because i dont even no what's wrong. im always tired and i never want to do anything. i dont laugh anymore and im never happy. depression and bi-polar run in my family, so im beggining to think i have one of those...i dontg no what to do and all i can think about is getting home and cutting and thinking of ways to kill myself. idk what to do...if anyone can help in anyway, that'd be great. so i'd like to no mainly if i have depression or what. thanks. (link)
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I think you do have depression. You should tell your parents and explain to them that you cant be happy any more and have them take you to the docter to get you some happy pills. You shouldent ever have fellings of killing yourself. And by polar is when your happy one hour and sad the next never inbetween. I strongly sugest you go to the docter because you most likley have depression expecily sence it runs in your family. I hope that my suggestion helps!
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Okay so in the beginning of my junior year I had a crush on this guy and he had told me he really really liked me...soo I was talkin to my guy friend and askin if i should ask him out or sumthin and he said i should so somehow that got around and my crush started freakin out
and started ignoring me
and started talkin shit behind my back and makin fun of me in front of me cause he's friends with my friends soooo i was completely crushed for a month i was depressed out of my mind. He's an asshole of course but I just felt like a fuckin loser because of the complete and total humilliation and rejection. So anyway I'm pretty much over it but I'm not the same, before all that happened I was a happy go lucky girl, confident, highest self esteem ever and he pretty much tore me down little by little. I've never been able to fully recover...probly becuz i put up walls with everyone i meet becuz im afraid that i will get made fun of or get hurt again. So im never able to just be myself around anyone else except for my 2 best friends.
Can anyone help me to get over this so i can be me again??
I will rate a 5 to anyone who really tries to help :D
thankss (link)
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well mabe he was shy of you and thats why he was talkin like that but i dont no him so..
I think that you should look around your school for a new crush and talk to your friends about how you feal. Y would people care if he rejected you everyone in your school will eventally get rejected and as soon as you start at your new crush every one will forget about what happend with you and that other guy.
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HELLO,
My 16 year old neice stole my daughters $350 sunglasses she bought with her own graduation money at a family x-mas party. This week I saw my neice wearing them. What to do. Parents are unapproachable and can be hostile. What should we do?? Neice is in counseling for similar issues.
Carol (link)
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I would confront your neaice tho let her explain herself and dont tel her as stealing tell her that your daughter needs them back. If your neaice loves you she will listen. If she tels you there hers ask for the recipet and think on your feet!!
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i had a dream i was walking in the park with my ex-boyfriend
what does that mean? (link)
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That means that you are thinking about him in your head. Mabe it was a memorie with him and your remembering it but your head is thinking about him. I hope I helped and mabe you should talk to him.
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i have a lot of acne on my face and back.
ive tried lots of different types of acne cleaners, but it seems to only cause scarring on my face, and then i get more zits.
whats a fast working product that doesnt cause scarring?
and how might i get rid of the scars that i have now
pleaseee help!! thanks! (link)
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I think you should try Noxema its medicated and helps alot my mom used it when she was young and she had beutiful skin i dont use it that much but it does stink a little but it will help your acne or you could try biroe to help minimize and clean your pores. I hope my advice helps i do not suggest proactive at all for many people it does not work.
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I read a book from one of the alice series but it talked about how one of the girls didnt want to wear a tampon because they were saving their virginity fo when their older are you considered that you are not a virgin if you wear a tampon because im 13 and wear tampons for sports (link)
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yes you are a virgan. It is safe to were a tampon you will still be a virgan.
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hey, i am 100 lbs and 14/f
i want to lose around 5-10 lbs.
any suggestions? (link)
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yea well it would help to no how tall you are??? but a 14 year old should weigh MORE then 100 pounds so yea dont lose ANY weight!!! If anything you should be gaining some weight!!!
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15/m
I really do need to have any help from anybody willing to answer, anything will do.
A few years ago, i left my old school to go onto Secondary school. Now, at my old school, i had lots of friends and i was really, really happy and nothing was wrong. But when i changed schools, my social life just...collapsed. I've just been finding myself on my own and I guess it was from that point onwards that i began to talk to myself, creating realties in my head and situations and i would act them out (literally), speaking to people who weren't there and i would respond when they replied or asked or even spoke. I'd only recently began to notice this and it's scared me, i mean really. I don't know how to stop and try and erase this 'world' which has formed in my head. It only happened when i am alone.
What's even worse is that i've forgotten how to socilise with my peers and I've wanted to sit with them at luch time and dinner (I board at school), but i can't.
So basically, my question is: how can i get my life back together and have the social life i used to have? (link)
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well my advice for you is to get out of your comfort zone and talk to someone you dont even no. Start just by asking somone a question or somthing basic but give the person some space so they dont think your a creepy stalker. GO SIT AT A RANDOM TABLE WITH RANDOM PEOPLE BUT ASK before you sit there so your not rude bring up subjects at your school. After talking to alot of people i think that will help you from talking to yourself and get a therpist if you can to help.
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I have this extra fat that I just want to get rid of because it's uncomfortable and displeasing. What can I do to make it flatter and a techinique that actually works? I'm a 15/F and just want to flatten that area a bit. (link)
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well i think i can help. Have you considerd becoming a swimmmer? swimming helps your cardio vascular systum and you exersise all off your body. Try going to my pyramid.com to tell you what foods are good for your body type.
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I'm a 42 y/o single man. Less then a month ago my best friend died in an accident. I have not been able to come to grips with his death. I have recently been having thoughts of ending my life. This happens whenever I am alone, especially at night. I have lost loved ones before, including my parents and brother all within a year of each other, but I never felt this type of despair, or loneliness. I am afraid I may eventually give in to my suicidal urge. Can anyone help me? (link)
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I have felt your pain before im only 14 but i have been to way 2 many funerals. Frist you need to just cry it all out. After you have it all out you need to think what would that loved one want you to do? definitly not end your life they would want you to pick up the peacies and move on . because if well you belive in heaven you will see them again when it is your time. But ending your like will not help if your loved one is lookling down from heaven they would not want to no that they caused you to end your life. I hope that this advice will help you just remember the good times you had with them and start a family get a partner and live a happy life you may lose many people in your life but there will always be somone to help you up when your down...
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