HI!!im caramella,id love to give advice for those who need it.You might not always like my answers but i dont care about ratings,cuz if i tell you something you want to hear all the time,and i get rated high and you end up making a big mistake,rating aint gonna solve the problem then.I want to tell you guys to think before you act and look before you leap in order not to make misttakes,if you have made mistakes NEVER regret it,regrets are a waste of time and happiness and wont change what happened,BUT it will give you expereince and teach you not to do it again and refine your future^_^regret over wasted time is more wasted time.
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I'm 15. I hate being around my family because they always make me feel like I'm not good enough, I do everything wrong and all they do is yell at me. I live with my Dad and my step-mom. I have for 4 years sience step-dad started getting way too abusive. I don't know what to do. I am on anti-depressents and they were working for awhile but now thath the stress at home started getting worse and so did the yelling, all I do is cry. Please help? (link)
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If youve tried talking to your family about how you feel and it hasnt worked at ALL then i suggest this...im sure itll work!!
you should tell a teacher,a trusted teacher in your school about what you are going throug,and have your teacher call or meet up with your parents and tell them how youre depressed and taking anti depressants and how this is no way a family should treat their kid!im pretty sure itll work,when they meet up or get the call from your teacher theyll think...omg what have we done,has it gotten this far and will probably regret and apologize for how they have treated you!
if your too scared or shy to tell the teacher have a best freind tell her the story
im wishing you the best luck and im sure everything will go fine=D
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My friend Viktor, is 10 (I'm 14). He has informed me that he has started to drink alcohol (he's 10). And I'm really worried because it's only 10.
Can anyone tell me about the impact of alcohol (cuz i havn't really tried myself) and what I should say to him? Please help! (link)
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omgg wow he is waaaay to young!!where did he even get alcohol from at such a young age?umm the impacts especially on such a young kid is it totally destroys brain cells which can lead to brain diseases,it can toxicate(poison) your liver,alcoholic drinks also have alot of sugar which can also lead to diabetes,and worse of all if he gets addicted to it...he wont know how to stop unless he goes to rehab!!
i suggest you TELL HIS PARENTS or teachers as soon as possible if you really care about your freinds health!!
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lets say youre in this situation. (its also mine..)
from grade 1 to 9, you had nearly straight As. you were an overachiever. your parents were proud of you. stress never got to you.
in the 10th grade, you were SOO tired of always getting the straight As and the stress got to you so much, that you just completely let yourself go. you always felt like sleeping, you would go days without eating..and days where you ate too much. you never felt like doing homework anymore and felt the need to look at the mirror and look perfect for a boyfriend more than doing work in school. you've found that you're losing friends and your grades slip slowly...to a point where you're getting Cs instead of the As you thought you would get in certain subjects. you only do what is easy for you and you dont even study for tests. you finished the year off...normally. average. not as the overachiever straight A for final grade person you used to be.
would you think this is depression? why would this happen to a person who has never done bad in anything..? all of a sudden? it just doesnt make any sense to me! I'm slowly getting better and hopefully will get back on track by next year. But I don't know what happened to me. What would you think?
16/f. (link)
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I would immediatley snap out of it and think i havent gone THIS far for it to end like this...i was the best student for years and i wont give up now...its a matter of two years and ill be done with school and go to one of the best colleges and be one of the most successfull people there is...and when that happens ill be proud of myself and my parents will be soo proud of me theyll brag about me lol thats exactly what i would think and do!Its ok ...what happend to you is you just had a year of negativitey..you got bored and wanted to do something new...whats past is past now you need to get back on track the next coming years!!you dont want all those years youve got straight A's in to come to waste now do you?!now THATS what i would consider depression...to waste all these years and after all that...i fail>.
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My boyfriend and I are two years apart and we're perfect for each other and age isn't a factor.
I'm African American and he's white and Mexican. He's a dancer and isn't into all the "gangster" stuff (thank God).
I've always dated or been associated with older guys who are black.
So my problem is a lot of guys are still trying to get with me and of course I tell them I have a boyfriend, but they always have something to say. I'm SICK of them talking about my boyfriend and us. Yes, I know they're jealous, but gosh SHUT UP. Whats the best thing to tell them? (link)
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to fuck off!!if you have feeling that youre talking to someone and theyre gonna start talkin bout your guy tell them that you dont want to hear it right away.If they insist on talking even though you told them not to,tell them to stfu and if they keep talking like this you dont want to know them anymore cuz theyre racist!!
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I am deeply in love with a girl. She happens to be my class mate nd we are pretty close friends. I told her how i felt cos i couldnt keep it inside any longer and I thought it was best to tell her. Well she doesnt love me the way i love her for now (Thats wat she said). She says that I am a great guy and all. She just wants to be my friend for now (thats what she said exactly).So I asked her if anything could happen between us in the future (A pretty stupid move i think) and she said probably not. That hurt a lot and it still does.One of my our friend also asked her (when i was not around) if she thinks anything could happen between us in the future. She told him that she doesnt know. she likes me as a friend for now and would like to know me more. And she keeps saying i am a great guy and stuff. The problem is that I cant stop loving her. What am i supposed to do? Does anyone think I stand a chance.
we've known each other for the past 5-6 months only.. (link)
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I think she just needs more time to think about it.She loved you as a freind and when you told her you loved her more then that it wuz something she didnt expect,give her more time and try to get closer to her so she can get to know you more,and who knows?She might end up feeling the same way you do for her^_^
Just dont be discouraged,keep on trying im sure youll get her in the end:D
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my friend is always rude to me even though when she is down i look after her eg i was talkin 2 her and then she said somthing wrong so i laughed and told her then she sweared at me and told me 2 shut up i just walked away i have told her and she said she would stop but she just keeps doin it i dont no if she is a real friend or i could do much better
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ok in this case i dont think just telling her is enough,fight back!Give her the same attitude she gives you and when she asks why your doing this,tell her from now on im treating you the same you your treating me!I think you should also tell her that she is going to end up losing many freinds cuz noone is going to tolerate her rudeness and shes lucky you do after all those times youve ben there for her.If she still doesnt stop then stop talking to her for a while and shell come and apologize and stop IF she cares to make this freindship go on!!
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help me please!!!!! well I'm 14 my promotion is coming up in about a month but we need to practice and i need a dress for my promotion. well I'm almost 5 foot tall i weigh about 100 pounds. my hair is dark brown. I'm light skin. i really like the color lilac(light purple). what do you think i should get.
p.s i can't go over $100 dollars. (link)
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hey hun so sorry i answered so late>.< my advicenators wuz messed up.ANYWAYZ there are amaazing dresses that are good enough for your promotion on macys you should chek out the website www.macys.com
the color lilac would look great on you and its very simple and pretty,dont go in something too showy or attractive on the first time like red
i think a dress that might look preety is this one http://www1.macys.com/catalog/product/index.ognc?ID=306975&CategoryID=37783&LinkType=EverGreen
its adorable,affordable and totally feminine AND a good price for a branded dress!!u can wear big pink hoop earrings on them itll look great=D
if you dont like this dress you can chek out the other daytime dresses in macys theyre cute:D
hope u like it^_^ and hope ur promotion goes well:D
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hi, i was wondering my boyfriend and i are having wild unprotected sex and he ejaculated in me, but i got my period,is there any possible way i could be pregnant? (link)
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if you got your period then i dont think your pregnant.
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Ok, here's the problem. I have a 10 yr. old sis that drives me absolutly insane. Everytime I go to my parents to keep her away from me, they ignore me! Even if I'm having an issue in school, or with myself, they just won't listen to me. Almost everyday, I feel shut out from everyone, and my sis is RLLY pissn me off. I need help pleez! (link)
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You can try treating her like very nicely...she WILL change...because shes used to you obviously being mean cuza how she treats you...so when you try being nice...who knows??When she does something to annoy you have a calm talk with her and tell her that she should be nicer cuz your her older sister and you love her and this makes you sad.Shes a lil kid ...shell understand.
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well the title kinda says it all!i really didnt meen to do it!we had been talking on the phone for like 4 hours and i was really tired and kept slipping into sleep then waking up!well we were talking and i axcidently called him by my ex's name!i immediately started like cursing at myself because i was sooo mad that i had just did that!i kept saying sorry and the whole time he was queit!i asked if he was mad and if he forgave me and he said no he wasnt mad and yes he forgave me!im still like worrying about it because thats like the worst mistake you could make!im like stressing about it and i want to talk to him but i dont want to be annoying about it or make him mad!i just want to stop stressing over it! should i be and how to i get over something like that?!? (link)
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just drop it and stop stressing and stop reminding him of what you did.I think you should do something extra sweet for him,go out with him and be extra sweet,tell him how much you love him and do NOT bring it up its okay its just an accident.Hell get over it when you be extra sweet and nice to him^_^
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okay, so i'm absolutely IN LOVE with my boyfriend and i want a good acoustic love song that i can put on my myspace because of how amazing the kid is. im seriously in love with him.
but i love acoustic songs and if you can give me a few love songs (nothing sad just happy love songs)
itd be awesome.
thankkk youu in advancee =] (link)
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don no any acoustic songs BUT
omg youll LUVVVV sum41 with me itll so match^_^tell me wut ya think
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well i am 15 going on 16. is there any songs about the ages: 15 & 16.
i know there's one for 17 by ladytron.
but i want 15 and/or 16
thanks in advance! (link)
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quiencenera by thalia lol its spanish thou,all i can think of,its bout being 15 and how shes all older now lol
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At my school everyone is very big on cliques. Theres the Girly Girls, Emos, Goths, and Spunkys. I am not in a clique, I'm a Tomboy and the boys dont have cliques so I hang with them. All the girls say aleast I have friends that are girls and stuff like that. I want the cliques to stop what should I do. Thanks in advance. (link)
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you cant.Its been there for like forever and its impossible to change.
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What would happen if I ate 5 month overdue candy? Specifically, maple nougats? (link)
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youll definetly gain weight!
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im really bad at the reading section on the SAT especially when i have to fill in the blanks with words that i barely even recognize. so i was wondering if there were any tricks that can make this easier for me or any tips? and also what are some ways to make my SAT scores higher, other than classes. thank you!` (link)
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damn i hate that section and i sucked at it first time i did the sat test,but i realized that the only true way to pass this section is to practice it like hell and time yourself!TIMING is mad important cuz when you spend too much time on one question youll have no time for the others!For the vocabulary,what i used to do is like get new vocabulary words everyday that i didnt know and memorize them,get like 20.Itll definetly help,and when i took courses they said that there are root words you should know thatll help you guess,these are the prefixes,suffixes and root of every word,they usually mean something.For the passages this needs practice alotttt.You need a clear head and pay attention to what your reading,ask yourself whats this author talkin about,hows he feel about it.good luck^_^
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okay,
i really like this guy and i think he likes me back. but he is really "sexual". he hugs me alot and holds my hands and we just met each other at the begining of this school year. my friend who is friends with him says that she went to his house and he was all over her and she isnt the only one. i really like this guy and i want to date him but im not really ready for all of that stuff. What do i do??? (link)
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i dont think you should date a guy you wont be comfortable with cuz you just said that your not ready to be havin a guy be all over you.
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Ok... So My Boyfriend has some.. family problems with his older brother/guardian....like Incessant rape? I can't take it anymore I've been understanding about it and since I live so far away I can't do anything to stop it but talk to my boyfriend and comfort him when he's depressed. Some of my other friends call me "the fortune cookie" because I'll change completely from a hyper bubbly girl to someone who seems as if they're reading off of fortune cookies!
Countless times I've talked him out of suicide and harming himself, I've even gotten him to stop taking drugs and drinking.
But It seems I've run out of things to say to comfort him, and today I asked him what was wrong.
"My life." was his answer.
I tried to explain it as shattered glass, to relate to how he was feeling. but if anything I think I made him worse off.
So not only does it depress me to see him depressed, to know he lies about how he feels so I won't worry, but him lying just makes me worry more.
I've often said to myself, " How's it feel to know everything you do never matters at all? "
When we first met he said I'd leave just like everyone else in his life, but here I am...a little over a year later! and as each day goes by, no matter how much I love him I'm beginning to think that maybe I've made his life worse off?
So what should I do?
I'm open to any suggestions
because if it's able to make him happy I'm willing to do anything...
I say what I mean and I mean what I say, so I hope you can do the same to help me before I crack and go back to my own ways before he made my life happier... (link)
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omg ok if he doesnt like doctors then at least tell an adult to get his brother to stop raping him!Hes gotta tell somebody even if its the police!yeah yeah i know its his brother but what his brothers doin can lead your boyfreind to killin himself one day man.Talk him into telling the cops?Where his parents at?Do they know about this?Well i really think that your boyfreind should tell them and if he dont do it you gotta tell them YOURSELF cuz your his girlfreind and you want him to be happy and you want this to end don you.
MY second idea is that you can tell a trusted adult YOU know about his probelm and see what theyll tell you to do,since theyre older and more experienced theyll deffinetly know how to help your guy.
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okay my name is michaela nad i am a tough girl usually but when it comes to my boyfriend i feel older yet like i dont have to stand up for some things because he is there..... so a while back i thought my boyfriend was cheating on me because some gurl said she loved my guy!! well i think that she just has a crush on him. but well we have gone out three times. four and a half mounths was the longest but i have know him for a year and a half. well today we were walking and i called him retarded as a joke because he was being stupid. and after that i accidentally said "i love you." it just slipped. i wasnt even ready to tell him that and i dont think he was ready to hear it. but he said it back at least but really really quiet. i am kinda freaked out and i dont know how i am going to react around him. i think i should just act normal but i seriously i dont think i can now. what should i do?!?!?!?!?! (link)
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Ok i think you should juss play it cool and stop freaking your self out...he said it back too!!And you coulda meant "i love you "as a freind although he knows you like him as a crush.
Just let it go and dont freak out around him or eles he will too.Unless he asks you then just tell him it came out at the wrong time and at that moment i meant i luved you as a freind but i like you as a boyfreind.
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so theres this boy. over winter break i went to a party where i met him and i thought he was super cute but i thought my friend and him were interested in eachother so i didnt talk to him really. until later that night where he told me he didnt like her but for a friend. we immediately hit it off and we "hooked up" about 6 times over break and he was all about us hanging out like everyday. but i knew he just got out of a serious relationship so i wasnt pressuring anything. so after school start back we drifted. so i messaged him on myspace and asked what was up and he told me he felt it was best if we quit talking for no aparent reason. he didnt even want to be friends. so all the time, everyday he was ALL i thought about. until one day he messaged me and we started talking again. so i told him we should be "hookup friends" again and he said yes but we would just be like friends with benefits. i kinda feel like hes using me but i want to be with him so bad. even if it means just for sex. i know that sounds super bad but i really like him. and he was all about us "hooking up" again and now hes like blowing me off and being short with me. what do i do? i need some serious help here. (link)
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alright first of all i dont think its a good idea to be with him even if its juss for sex like you said man.Thatll just make you like him ten times more and hell end up using you cuz i really dont think he likes you that way.Like you said he just got outta a serious relationship,meaning he might still have some bit of feelings leaft for his ex and he cud be doin all of this just to get over her.There are many reasons why he just stopped talkin to you,
1- he got bored and wanted to play some other gurl
2- he wanted to you like him even more so when hed come bak to u youd do anything for him
3- he cuda been seein his ex again
The only proof of a guy liking you is when he says it.I know its hard when you like a guy to just forget about him but i really think you should.Unless you wana go and demand an explanation to why hes blowing you off like dat and what he feels for you.
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ok so i have these friends that ive known since i was 3.well they r twins. i get along better with one of them (who ironicly has the same name as me) and anyway sometimes i feel like i cant talk to her if the other one is around. im going to call the one i get along with,"sister" other one, "buddy". well sister really understands me and buddy doesnt. if i want to talk to sister about something she understands and relates to me. while i feel like buddy just thinks that im being over dramatic or stupid. sister and i are ALOT alike and buddy and i are way different!
i feel like she constanly talks down to me and sister doesnt but she also doesnt stand up for me when buddy does that. HELP PLEASE I DONT KNOW ID BUDDY IS FRIEND OR FOE! (link)
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I think that buddy juss sees things differently then you do,it doesnt mean she doesnt like you come on,youve known her since you were like 3.She juss has a different point of veiw on things,while sister is compassionate and feels the way you do about things.Dont lose buddy,shes not a foe.But if what she says hurts your feelings too much then just tell her nicely to be a lil nicer cuz your asking for help not critisizm.
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