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just will not listen
Ok, here's the problem. I have a 10 yr. old sis that drives me absolutly insane. Everytime I go to my parents to keep her away from me, they ignore me! Even if I'm having an issue in school, or with myself, they just won't listen to me. Almost everyday, I feel shut out from everyone, and my sis is RLLY pissn me off. I need help pleez!
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haha, i have young sister too, she sooooo annoy, i keep telling my parent, they did same thing, ugh so i just keep myself busy, not stay home too long, like going work, or walk around, or out with friend,sometime when I'm having good mood, i talk to her like hii how you doing? how school today talk to her like you talk to your friend, and just said hi, or keep yourself out of house more often.
people at school not listening to you, okay don't talk to them until they realize it or do something to prove them. i remeber when i was in high school, my friend doesn't listen to me, i was like fine forget it so keep going what i was suppose to do like doing homework or talk another friend who listen to you, and tell them what kind friend are you who not listen to me, if they have REASON to not listen they should tell you truth that what friend do, so yea leave them alone, injore them, if they said hii how are you, just said fine, walk away, show them how much you been hurt and not get chance to sit down and talk about them about your sitution at home or whatever...
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Here's the thing with little sisters, they just want to be with you (this is coming from a lil sister). They they that you are cool and idolize you because you are older. She could be trying to hang out with you because she really wants to be with you.
I know that it's annoying. I went from being a lil sister (still am, but don't think the world of my brother anymore), to a mom with two girls that are 3 years apart. The youngest tries her best to hang around her sister all the time. Luckily for me, they are still young and like to play with each other, but it does get on the oldests one's nerves.
I would suggest just trying to spend some time with her, when you can. It doesn't have to be anything special, maybe just watch a thirty minute show with her, like Hannah Montana or something. Maybe if she gets some hang out time with you, she will back off a little bit. After you watch the show or spend time with her, tell her (politely) ok I need to go and do some stuff on my own. At first, it still will hurt her feelings, but after time, she will be grateful that you even spent some time with her.
As for your parents, you need to go up to them and say "hey look, I am having some issues that I need your help with and I need you to listen to me. If you can't provide me help now, then think of what you are going to do when I make a bad decision and tried to come to you for help, and then get into trouble instead. Would you rather take the time to help me now, or be hurt by my actions later? Also, tell them that you didn't ask to be brought into this world, and it's the least they could do to actually be parental figures to you and help out."
I know if I actually had said those exact things to my parents, my lips would be walking beside me on the floor, saying OUCH, but you can try to get them to notice you. After all they owe you at least that. I hope things get better for you. Good Luck!!
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You can try treating her like very nicely...she WILL change...because shes used to you obviously being mean cuza how she treats you...so when you try being nice...who knows??When she does something to annoy you have a calm talk with her and tell her that she should be nicer cuz your her older sister and you love her and this makes you sad.Shes a lil kid ...shell understand.
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