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help!! okay i dont know what to do, for about three weeks now my hair has been falling out in like little clumps and when i wash it or brush it so much hair falls out, i dont know what to do because about half my hair is already gone! its not really noticable that its been falling out though cause my hair was really think to begin with. i eat more than the required enough amount of protien so i was wondering what could be causing this?? could it be my medicene...amitriptyline? please help i will rate 5s for anyone who can help me! (link)
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Yes it could be your medicine or it could be the start of something bad so I would get it checked out by a docter quick for the saftey of you.
shuree
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Ok sorry that this is long but please don't pass over it I really need help.
My parents aren't divorced but they both cheat on each other they basically both get with anything that moves of the opposite sex. My dad is always drunk and is very abusive. My mom isn't physically abusive but she just tells me that I'm a waste of life and that she wishes she never had me and that I'm such a huge mistake and bla, bla, bla but her boyfriend Tom hits me all the time and even rapes me sometimes. I've gone to the police before and they took my parents side because to everyone else they look like such nice people. But at night they're druggies and alcoholics. I even went to social sevices they put me in a home for a week where I started cutting and then they put me right back with them! Lately I met a guy who uses drugs and I've been going out with him. And we were using and did some things and now I'm pregnant and I don't know what to do. He was arrested for possesion so I can't go to him. I can't go to my parents. I really don't have any friends who aren't stoners and all they care about is how they're going to get their next fix. I don't know what to do. I've already tried killing myself and it didn't work. I'm soo scared I don't know what to do. I was going to run away but I know that I'll just end up somewhere where there's drugs and I'm really trying to stop. What can I do about all of this? Please help me (link)
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ok first of all calm down I would try to get yorself into therapy or a rehab something that can help you get off drugs then I would not see your boyfriend any more he's not helping you in any way and neither are your friends. I would stop getting high and drunk or whatever you do cause it's gonna hurt your baby real bad. If you want the baby thats cool but don't keep it unless your stable enough to give it a good home. You don't want it to go through what your going through. If you have any relatives or any one at all that would take you in I would go live with them. Email me at rubber_duckie392@yahoo.com if you need anyone to talk to or anymore help. Good luck it will be okay for oyu hopefully :)
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this may sound scary but lately i have these thoughts like a voice in my head saying im a satanist. i don't want to be and i try to force the thought out and think that god is my only one though it always comes back. i got this book and it had a list of all the warning signs of a satanist and i had all of them except for one. i think i am becoming a satanist. i also do witchcraft but i never did anything involving the devil. now all i can think about is becoming a satnist i need serious help. i am originally catholic. and i am a girl. (link)
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Oh shit your going to hell I would start going to church and pray to god to et the voices out of your head and just to let you know what the hell do you think witchcraft is it's messing with satan but then maybe being a saintanist isn't that bad. Well my believe is your going crazy get a good therapist.
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Ok, I'm really good friends with this kid mike. And he just broke up with his girlfriend and lately he's been really flirty with me. And he asked me out the other day and I'm kind of nervous about going out with him because if it doesn't work out I'm worried about if our friendship will still last. Should I take a chance and go out with him or just tell him that we should stay really good friends? (link)
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Normally when you date a friend nothing gets uined it normally makes your friendship alot closer and better. shuree
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How can I get this guy I like in jr.high that is 12-13 to notice me even though he says he does not like me? (link)
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Start acting like you don't like him it gets them every time though still flirt with him but when he does it back kinda blow it off. It should work.
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there's a kid who wants to fight my friend and his little brother (known them for about 10years now)my friend knows i have his back but told me not to jump in if a fight breaks out. the other kid is very street and it could get ugly quick. i kno i can make a pancake out of this b*tch. im 15 years old 6'1 175(muscle i mite add) i dont want my friends geting hurt, so should i fight this kid myself or let my neighbor do it.
talking it over and going to adults doesnt work so please dont suggest that. (link)
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ok don't fight the kid unless your friend starts getting the shit beat out of him and it gets bad. When that happens then jump in and kick the shit out of him. If your friend gets mad just say hey I was only helping you out you were starting to get the shit beat out of you.
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do you think its possible to acctually fall in true love in the 7th grade? i know everyone always says you dont find love until youre older, but i think ive found the perfect person. seriously... if someone asked me to change somethinmg about him, i would say no, he needs no changing. ive gone out with him three times and all three times we broke up for stupid reasons. hes always there for me, and always makes me feel like the smartest, prettiest, most unique person in the planet. he is willing to listen to my views on things, and trys really ard to make me happy. he is artistic, yet hes also a football player. hes really hot but i SWEAR thats not why i love him. well, i think you get my point so ill be quiet now. Tell me what you think! thanks - i rate high unless your response really sucks. (link)
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Yes it's posible to fall in love in seventh grade I fell in love in eighth grade and we broke up 11 times so yes I think it's possible and it sounds by the way that you talk about him that you really are in love.
Shuree
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hey i'm a female and i'm 14 yrs. old and this guy that i've been really good friends with since i was 11 has been flirting with me and we did some stuff the other day. I don't regret it at all i mean it wasnt that bad but my friend has asked him if he likes me and he said he thinks i'm really hot but we've been friends too long. I can't let this go though because i dont have many guys liking me and he has never cheated on anybody and he would be the perfect boyfriend. He's really hot and i like him so much. My problem is that we've decided to just be friends more than once before but we always get together and flirt and do stuff and this happens all over again what should i do?
Luv,
~Very Emotionally Confused~ (link)
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I would tell him that you really don't wanna do stuff with him if your not dating because your going to like him more and more like that and he really doesn't want a relationship so you don't think that you two should flirt anymore.
-shuree
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For the last few days a bunch of boys in my class have been looking at me funny. At first I thought that I mite have had somthing weird on my face or maybe my outfir looked redicules to them. Then they all started talking to me. Not at once, but boys would come up to me all threw out the day and talk to me. This one boy even said that his best friend (one of the boys who wouldn't leave me alone) had a crush on me. I didn't belive him. Another one, was always trying to make me laugh, anouther one was always starring at me. The boy I have a crush on is really cool and always talking to me too. I can tell he has a crush on me. I think all the other boys have crushes on, and it really freaks me out!!!!!! A bunch of girls have been giving me the cold shoulder, or being really mean. My crush is my best friend too, and we are always together, some stupid boy calls us the love birds. I really don't know what to do. Should I just stay away from all boys in general. (link)
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Heck no don't stay away from them just cause some jealous girls are giving you thr cold shoulder. It's not your fault they all like you and if you like them then don't let a couple of girls get in the way.
-Shuree
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i have a mole on my cheek... should i get it removed or keep it? and if i do wanna gte it removed how can i approach my mom with the idea... about 2 years ago i told her i wanted it removed and she said we'll think about it... but im really afraid to ask... any ideas?!?!!? please help! (link)
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If you really don't want it get it removed if you like it keep though just go up to your mom and say "Mom i've been thinking about it and a really wanna get that mole removed" Simple good luck :) Shuree
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Ok, so I went out with this guy, let's say in like November. Well we broke up after about 2 weeks and it was squashed, didn't talk much, started dating other people rather quickly and such. We've been hanging out recently and have had sex, but he has a girlfriend, and yes, I do feel used, but the way he acts and talks towards me, really sends me mixed signals and I'm not sure as to what to do. Any advice?
Signed,
Second Thoughts? (link)
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Think about how the other girl would feel if she new put yourself in her shoes. Plus your right you should feel used but he needs to decide who he wants to be with and you need to tell him that. I mean in the end it all could work out and you guys could get together but it's not right for you to have to share your guy with someone else or for her to have to. Good luck hope I helped!
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lately, ive been thinking a lot about my first love. thes this other boy and we're pretty into eachother, but i havnt been able to stop thinking about my first love lately. its gonna be a year now that met and we fell in love over the summer. is this normal? is it just cuz he was my first love? or do i still have feelings 4 him? i really like this new guy. its just that i've been thinking about the first one. maybe, its b/c he represents a happy time in my life or hes very special to me or something. i dunno. do i still like him in a way?
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It's you're first love and nobody ever forgets there first love you guys probably had a really special ralationship. Probably now that you meet this new guy is why your remembering your first love because every one compares there new guy they like to that special first love but it sounds lie you should give this new guy a chance. Good luck :) Shuree
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I love my boy friend so much! He is one of the best things that has happened to me in a LONG time. I just moved more than 30 minutes away from him. My parents almost never give me a ride over there and no one in his house will give him a ride unless we pay them money. I love him but I feel like we are just growing apart. Should I break up with him or just see how things go? (link)
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This has happened to me before and you can still love someone and not be with them so if you think your growing apart maybe you should break it off and just stay really good friends. Shuree
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ok i like my b/f but i never REALLY REALLY liked him okay hes really nice and all its like i like the b/f thing just not the boy....... i mean ther is nothing there n e more well i kinda wanna break it off w/ him but like my friends dont want me 2 and our 1 month aniversary was monday and he bought me diamond earings i no weird 13 year olds wer do we get this money ?! n e way i have 4 classes with him... i wanna break up with him but i dont no if i should b/c i dont wanna make him feel bad and i just dont wanna go o/ w/ him n e more! so should i break it off with him or not and if i do how should i do it? (link)
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Well if you don't really like him anymore than you should break it off. There's nothing worse than not likeing someone and just dating him to make him feel good. Don't listen to your friends listen to whatyou wanna do just tell him you think that you guys are going in different directions and that you should just be friends. Good luck :) Keep me posted Shuree
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i've liked this guy for a while. lets call him bill. and we're pretty good friends. so lately i've been getting some signals from him. we took some pics with his head on mine and people made him put his arm around me but yet it stayed there until i got up to do something. then hes all "i miss u wanna see you" when he was gone. and lately we've been getting tormented cuz people think that we like each other. well i like him but that not the point lol. so lately hes been blowing me off not talking to me at school and barely online anymore. i'm so confused! please help! does he like me like everyone thinks he does or what?!?!! (link)
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Maybe you should just ask him. He could really like you or just be a big flirt but you'll never know unless you ask! Shuree
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Hey I'm 14/f and lately one of my best guy friends has been asking me out, i really care about him but right now i am dealing with other things in my life. such as trying to get into a good highschool, and my other hobbies that are really imortant to me. yet on the other hand, i really like him. my question is what should i do? i mean why should i risk a relationship when we are just going to break up sooner or later? what is the point in a young relationship right now? besides "having fun" because i know that loving someone is a lot more than "having fun" please answer, ill rate fives as long as you try to help (link)
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If you like him enough to date him then it should be at least a little important and how are you ever gonna find love if you don't date and have some fun? You never know when love comes it doesn't matter the age and you never know it could last give it a chance if you like him! Hope I helped! Shuree
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Ok I kinda like these to guys who are in the grade below me. I mean when I'm away them.. it's just my flirt meter goes off! And like I'm jelious when other girls are around this one guy. Is it wrong to like a younger guy? Is it stupid to go out with a younger guy? (link)
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No it's not stupid to like a younger guy if you like him age shouldn't matter.
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I like this guy and recently I told him I liked him, but now i kind of regret it because I know he is going to act different around me and its not going to be the same. What should I do? (link)
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Just try to make the best of it and don't try to think about it when your around him sometimes after a little while they'll act like you never even told them you liked them. Good luck :) Shuree
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I like this guy and i dont think he likes me he has a grl friend and i dream about him and i stare at him every day i cant get over him and i want to go out with him but i keep waiting for him to break up wit his girl friend but i dont know if i should keep waiting
what should i do????? (link)
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Well it seems like you really like this guy and think about it would you like it if some girl was waisting for you to break up with your man? Probably not so don't do it to that girl you should try to find someone who doesn't already have a girlfriend. Good luck :) Shuree
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i just started straightening my hair and when i straighten it its always frizzy and doesnt stay straight..i always see ppl with perfect straight silky hair and i wanna know how to get mine like that. please help! (link)
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well try using Frizzies from John Frida you can buy it in walgreens or frys or even sallys it will help you out alot or maybe it's just your straightenier and you need to get a new one. good luck :) Shuree
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