(14/f) ok well.. i have this guy friend who used to be like my best friend but we havent talked in over a month and his name is steve. hes everything i ever wanted in a guy. we used to be a couple but then i broke up with him cause i thought i liked someone else more (this was in like early july) and now i dont know.. im really starting to fall for him. and i came right out and told him i still like him. and he didnt type anything back so i just said something totally random and he responded to that. but i know he heard me because later that night i said i shouldnt have said something earlier and he was like "oh was it that you still like me? because i already knew that". i dont think he likes me anymore because when he used to like me (way back in may) he used to act like he wanted to be my friend but ever since we broke up it seems like hes just being my friend cause he feels bad for me? so i wrote him and said "if you dont wanna be friends anymore dont lead me on, just come right out and say it" but he kept saying he does and stuff but i just dont know. so im working on making our friendship all good again but i just dont know its hard when i like him so much. and i dont wanna stop liking him in case he likes me too and i dont realize it. should i just come right out and ask him if there is ever gonna be a future for us and if not i need to know because i dont wanna waste my school year being stuck on you while there could be other guys.. im just so confused. sorry this is so long but i need some help and this is the only was i could describe it! muchos gracias in advance! -- christine
Well first... the reason he probably didn't respond when you told him you liked him was that he most likely didn't expect you to say that. But anyways...I definitely think you should come right out and ask him if theres a chance of a "future" between you and him. I mean really, what do you have to loose? and if he says no, then forget about him and just stay friends. If he says yes then don't loose hope, sometiems things like that just take time. ALSO he might be kinda hesitant because of the fact that you hurt him before... but just talk to him about that issue, i'm sure he'll come around! good luck! .:.macy.:.
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see my friend she always flirts w/ this boy i like and it gets me sooooo mad am i just jealous and should i tell my friend to stop i know she does it on accident but she does it everyday! so help plz
You should tell her exactly what you just told us. Tell her flat out how you feel about the situation, and if she's a true friend she'll start acting a little differently. .:.macy.:.
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Hi my name is jessica and i have this friend and she likes the same boy i do she knows i do but one of us is going to end up going out with him but if we do i dont want to loose everything we have because if one oof us go out with him the other will get mad what do i do?
I think you should talk to her about it. Tell her how you feel and you should both agree that whoever this boy picks to go out with th other cannont get mad because of it. You should never let a boy get in the way of your friendship, it's just not worth it! .:.macy.:.
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uh i liked this guy, (like recently) and he also liked me but we wernt goin out or anything, then one day he just tells me that he doesnt really like me any more, but i could tell he was sorry when he had to tell me cause he was really sweet about it and all, but i still like him, what should i do, ill rate high!
You should tell him how you feel and ask him why his mind changed so fast about you. He might just be scared of getting into a realtionship with someone. .:.macy.:.
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I feel like I can't be then 'just friends' with a guy. I really don't see why! All the guys go after the pretty popular girls, and I feel like I can't compare. :( Can someone out there give some advice?
I know how you feel because sometimes I feel the same way, but you need to think positively and I'm sure the boys will come around. No matter what, don't give up! .:.macy.:.
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Hey,
I need some help!! I really like this guy and he knows that I do but one of my best-friends likes him to but she also likes someone else better!! I have liked him for three months and three days today and she says that I have liked him longe and that I like him more!! He still has not asked me out!! I think he is kind f getting annoyed by me cause I like am obbsesed with him or at least that is what they think!! WHat should I do to get him to ask me out?? If you wanna IM me my sn is volleyball092209
well, I think you should maybe back off a bit and yet still be flirtatious towards him. The fact that you are "obsessed" might be scaring him away, so just try to back off and I'm sure he'll end up asking you out sometime soon! good luck! .:.macy.:.
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Ive been going out with this one boy for about 2 months. and i like him a lot but we havent kissed! and i do not make the first move. how can i make him kiss me?
14/f
Well... you should try and get him to notice your lips... try wearing some lipgloss and also lick your lips... you could even try leaning towards him REALLY close and make him think you're gonna kiss him, but instead give him a hug or something... .:.macy.:.
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ok so last year i went out with this kid Ben right but he cheated on me now hes having a baby with the girl he cheated on me with. He called me about a month ago and told me he missed me and i told him my feelings i still had for him so i've been talking to him ever since and i kissed him a couple of times. and i dont know what to do cuz hes still with the pregnant girl and i know i shouldent even be talking to him but i need an outsider opinion.
P.S i ve also been seeing this other guy whose 22 im 16
I'm not sure what to say about Ben, because he seems like a player from what you've said, but I'd like to point out that most of the times girls like guys that are hard to get... say... too old for them or guys that already have girlfriends...! I'm the same way though. It just makes things more exciting. Now.. thw 22 year old thing I can kind of relate to. My friend Jonathan is 21 and I'm 16, he's such a nice guy and he's always watching out for me... but I have more feelings for him then he knows. He jokes around with me a lot asking if i want to makeout and stuff, but I always turn him down because I don't want to get him in trouble. You should think about that... the fact that if you get with the 22 year old and wind up having sex... it's rape... whether you willingly had sex or not and he could get in HUGE trouble .:.Macy.:. (Rate me!)
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HI uummm see i just broke up with my boyfriend because he was beating me, u know banging my head n his car hood, and stuff , so I broke up with him and well i still love him for some reason but did i do the right thing?
plz help!
YES YOU DID THE RIGHT THING!! No matter what he says you did the right thing. Don't go back to him, you didn't deserve to be treated the way he treated you. Even if he says he's sorry and it was an accident or that he'll "change" don't get with him again cause chances are, he won't change! besides you deserve better to begin with! .:.Macy.:. (Rate me!)
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I'm 17 years old and I was friends with my boyfriends sister before I started going out with my boyfriend. I never really hung out with her that much or anything and I got to know her brother through parties. Blah blah blah. We have been together 9 months and now she is saying things infront of my friends that arent true. Such as last night infront of my friends she said "My Mom said your ditzy" I got so embarassed so I said something to my boyfriend like how I dont want to be at his house when his mom is there because I feel like an idiot because I haven't gotten to know her too well she works a lot. My boyfriend got mad and said his mom woudl never say that and calle dhis mom and she denys it and he called hsi sister flipping out and she is saying that it was said. I dont know what to do because I feel like I caused a whole big problem and I feel like I can;'t show my face at the hosue because one of them is lying and its embarassing and everything. Any suggestings??
what's wrong with being ditzy?!*giggles* ha jk, but no... for real, who cares! I don't see anything wrong with being ditzy! Don't even worry about it, just forget about the whole thing and pretend is never happened! .:.Macy.:. (Rate me!)
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I am 16 years old weigh 115 lbs and im 5'4". Well I was trying on homecomming dresses at my friends house But every dress I tried on I felt soooo fat or shall I say I LOOKED so fat! I was about to cry but I couldnt cry infront of everyone. Homecomming is in about 1 month and a half away. Should I go on a diet or should I just tell my friends I cant go. My friends would be sooo mad at me if they find out im not going because I never been to a dance before. Its NOT as easy as you think it is. I been thinking about it day in and day out. I wish I could just accept that im fat! Do you know any good diets?!? Thank you sooo much
i think the reason you posted this was because you wanted people to be like "oh you are NOT fat" but I'm not going to do that because obviously you are not overweight if you only weigh 115 and you're 5'4" but good luck and I hope you decide to go to the homecoming dance anyways! .:.Macy.:. (Rate me!)
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what should i wear leg warmers with? Give me good combos, and if you could suggest some cool style of leg warmers and where they're from that would be neat. thankz
well... leg warmers are cute with skirts... and especially if you wear like... a black skirt, pink leg warmers and a pink ballet sweater... try going to an online dance apparel store or something! .:.Macy.:. (Rate me!)
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do guys like when girls where fishnets? (guys answer too!) and what are some good sites where i can order some? thanks
fishnets are NOT something you want to wear.
They look tacky, and seem like only something hookers would wear! but whatever floats your boat! hehe .:.Macy.:. (Rate me!)
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well im a girl lol because some people like me to say that before i ask a ? but neways is it normal to pluck the top of ur eyebrows and the bottom because my mom said i shouldnt do the top
perfectly normal, you wouldn't want stray hair up there... now would you?
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Hey...im a girl and im addicted to masturbating. i do it whenever i can with whatever i can. if my parents found out they'd kill me. but...i was wondering 2 thins
1) can your cherry pop when you're masturbating?
2)if you masturbate too much, can it make you sterile and not able to have babies?
Im so scared of these two things...but im so addicted...help me!
ok lets see.. i'll answer your questions in order...
#1. your cherry can pop doing just about anything... like riding a bike, exercizing, masturbating, and whatnot...
#2. no, there is no such thing as masturbating too much UNLESS it has started to interfere with your everyday life.. say you'd rather stay home and m-bate then go hang out at the mall with your friends or go to the movies... and it can't make you unable to have babies, as far as i know! but if you're still concered try going to a website and finding out more information on it!
Good Luck! .:.Macy.:. (Rate me!)
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so a year ago my mom moved like an hour away to live with her boyfriend now husband....and i moved in with my granny cuz i didnt want to move that far from everything...and my sis moved in with my dad....well eventually i moved back in with my mom its been about 4 months and I HATE IT ...my granny said that i can move in the downstairs apartment at her house. but i know im gonna feel bad my sis says i shoulddent becuz our mom left us blah blah blah
You shouldn't feel bad about it!! You're mom must of never realized how her moving in with this man would affect you! First you should tell your mother how miserable you are there and that unless something changes you're going to move back in with your Grandmother. Plus I'm sure it would make her happy to see you be happy, even if that means living with someone else! good luck!! .:.Macy.:. (Rate me!)
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Ok, lets say one of your best friends just broke up with his gf, who you have kind of liked for awhile? Should you ask her out right away or give her some time? It wasn't a very serious relationship, but I don't know how she would feel going out with me, after being with my friend?
I think you should give it some time and then maybe after a week or so try and see what happens... it's difficult when you have the same taste as your friends! .:.Macy.:. (Rate me!)
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Well I heard that usually after you have sex your voice changes but then the guys voice changes also and thats when their getting older I mean when is my voice gonna change if I dont have sex because I dont want to like around what age and well it be ina good way and well guys like u more...Im just Curious!
Puberty is what makes your voice change, not sex. Everyones voice changes though. I mean, I'm a girl and my voice cracks sometimes too so it's not just guys, but they get noticed more... You won't always have that high pitched 3 year old voice... lol -Macy (rate me!)
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((I'm 15/f))I think i am ready for sex but im not all that sure cause sometimes i think about it and think that i might regret it in the future. I REALLY like this guy tho. Also, I'm kinda scared that it will hurt really bad and i'm scared that i might not know what to do. What do u think?
i have a 3 words answer for you "don't do it!" it's as simple as that -Macy (rate me!)
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I'm 14 and going into the 9th grade. Guys pressure girls to have sex and I might be ready but I dont want to be called a slut. What should I do?
if you have even a TINY doubt in your mind that you're not ready and the "I might be ready" shows a pretty large doubt that you are not ready. Then don't do it. Don't do it until you have no doubts in your mind what so ever.. and until you can say "i'm ready" woithout having ANY second thoughts just say no! -Macy (Rate me!)
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