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hey well i'm 14 and i'm girly girl and a bit jock like it werid but w/e lol. I mplay football rugby,soccer. I'm pretty mature and i love having in depth conversations. I'm not afraid to speak my mind but over all i'm a really kind and caring person and i love to give whatever advice i can. Hope you have a good day:)

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whats a good and affective exercise that can target "love handles"? haha thanks.

aha i had the same issues! haha. Well i do theese things called side sit ups. lie on your back with your hands behind your head and your knees us and bring your elbow to your alternate knee (like right elbow to left kneew) do that for about 3 set of 10. Their is no realy tmucles caleed your love handles haha i checked, so the best thing for you to do is work your lower abs, obliques, and butt. Here i found this site it's pretty cool and it gives better explinations than me haha,

http://www.howtobefit.com/love-handle.htm

Hope i helped!

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my knee hurts SO bad. it feels like someone is stabbing right thru my kneecap. i've been to an orthopedic surgeon for it before and they took xrays and said that it was just my knee trying to come out of its socket and so its grinding against the bone because my muscles are so strong there that theyre forcing it over. so we had to go buy a brace. then they put me in pshysical therapy for it for like 3 months. so now its getting REALLY bad again and i just want the pain to stop. pain reliever isnt working. any ideas or anyone know what this may be?

Ok so i have this thing in my knees where the knee cap is being pulled to the outside because the knee cap has no little divit to sit in. My knees acctaully do dislocate. The only thng i know for you to try is strengthen the other side of your knee. If you get the mucle on the rest of your knee or onthe other side the mucles might even out and pull your knee back the other way.

Hope i helped

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im 13/f 100 pounds and like 5'4 im sooo thin i have no boobs and a semi butt its soo annoying cuause guys dont even notice you unless you got a ncie figure how can i gain weight and get more of a figure and dont say be the way you are cause well thats lame no ofence

Ok hunny i'm 14 130 haha. honestly you just need to understand that boobs and butts are all one thing, Fat! Just have a healthy appitie, but don't over do it. Unfortunately darling alot of it has to do with your frame, it's just how your born. Honestly your sure as hell not done growing yet either. You'll get bigger you just gotta be patient. So darlin the only thing i can really say is.. eat and don't be afraid.

hope i helped,

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What is your opinion on blonde hair?Do you think it is ugly?

Well as a natural blonde i can say heck no! haha I have the opinion that those with fake blonde hair don't always look good but thats only if they absolutly bleach it. It really depens on your feturs. I have really light fetures, pale skin, blue eyes, ect. If you have slightly darker skin or brown or hazel eyes it might look a little fake or unatural.

Hope I helped,

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ok im not sure if this is in the right category but whatever


ok so on christmas eve i was with my boyfriend and he like, bit my chest through my shirt and it didnt really hurt that bad but the next day and the day after it had a big purple mark kind of like a hickey. then the day after that it looked like a bruise and now there's this weird yellow color around it. what the hell is up with this??????
answers appreciated asap please

Don't worry sweety it's just a bruise going through it's stages- first it turns purple then usually a brownish color and yellow and soon it will go away.
Try rubbing some lotion on it for me it helps bruises go away- I hear massage oil helps to. Don't worry it will go away.

Hope i helped

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I am not very good at putting makeup on. Also, i am almost all irish...so i dont tan very well so i'm kind of pale. What is a good way to (and a good kind) of makeup to use to make mayself look tanner AND OLDER i look kind of younger than i acutally am.

Well I think you should use black eye liner and like you i had trouble putting it on. So i went to the girl at the mac counter and she conpletely helped me out she showed me how to use an angle brush and black eye show it looks amazing and it's totally easy to do now i can't pass off for being 14 like anywhere lol everyone thinks i'm 18. Oh ya i'm the same as you i'm pale and can't tan. It sucks eh. And maybe use some brighter colors on your eys (eyshoadow) or maybe some nice browns layered on each other(like put one color on top of another, usually lighter on top of darker) and some shimmery type of lip gloss looks really good in the sun.

Anyway,
Hope i helped

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would it be weird to talk to your dead grandmother portait about things? cause i know a friend that does it and it helps her or something

It gives people hope to talk to someone who's not really there. Like she can talk to her kinda like praying but she has somthing to pray about. If she prays through the pic she's probly just trying to communicate specificly with her

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Hi, i weight 116.5 pounds and im 5'6. my age is 14. i have a 8% body fat percentage rate. i run and workout every other day, and i play baseball. i think im fat, i dont no why, it takes over my life! please help me. do u think im fat?

sweety i'm 14/f and 5'7 and guess what i'm 131 pounds! and my doctor said i needed to gain weight! bealive me i think i'm fat too but i have the beginings of a 6 pack i play rugby and basketball, base ball, swim, and football (i know jock girl eh lol) bealive me weight means nothing mucle weighs way more than fat and think about your bones too! i have a big bone sturcture so go look in the mirror to see your wearight cause scale are bull! lol hope i helped!

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Ok, this guy asked me to a school dance. But, he is fat, and he is a real nerd. He was the first to ask me. Im afraid that people will laugh at me for going with him. I really want to go because it will be fun and we get to go to six flags afterwards. What should I do? Go to the dance with the fat nerd... or stay home?

just cause you didn't get asked dosn't mean you shouldn't go i mean i understand no matter how much we don't wanna admit it looks are important or else you will always think you could do better.
I think you should tell him your not into him that way and go to the dance anyway and have fun!

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okay so my best friend has been seeing this guy, well shes been kind of ignoring me.. and then she made out with him last night for the first time, and she didnt tell me first..she told all my other friends.. who are her friends too, and they ended up telling me.. i dont know i got really mad about this and can u please tell me if im over reacting? bc i think she blew me off the other night to go hang out with him too.. plz help

ya i had a friend who did that too i din't think your overracting about her ignoring you.s he has to understand that when it dosn't work out shes gunna need her friends to help her but whats she gunna do when she lost them all from blowing them off i don't think your over reacting i think ur right on the money

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k, i know if 13 but i WANT bigger boobs, i hate waiting! i'm always being called 'flat' and i hate it, can i eat something or do something to make them bigger without stuffing or implants?!

Well it's kinda a natural thing see the only real way to get bigger boobs natural is get fatter lol and i know u don't want that so another thing you could do it get a better bra one with more support or more padding

Well i guess maybe but if u went bigger i would just go a bit bigger so it don't look retarded i guess mine kinda did u could try it

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For the past 2 years ive been afrade of being locked in small areas for a long amount of time

when i go into elivators my heart beats extremly fast and i get realy worried that im going to get stuck

my parents always say "its just your mind messing with you" but its really annoying and my friends think im weird
Ahhhhh!

lol it's not wierd bealive me clostraphobia happens. I think you should ovoiding being in really small spaces for awhile then maybe one day when your feeling good try facing your fears and maybe your realize it's not so bad.

Hope i helped,
Becca

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well there is this kid.. that i used to like.. and i think he used to like me.. well a little bit because he flirts with me all the time.. still does but he had a girlfriend all this time.. so im not sure if we are friends.. bc he talks to me..sits with me on the bus and stuff..but some days he doesnt even talk to me.. so im not sure how to view the sitation..its really complicated i dont get it guys are so retarded! and.. also i was wondering..how you can get a guy to notice you..like i think i like this guy..but i dont know his name.. i just see him in the hallways and stuff and hes older than me but i was wondering how i could get his attention... thx for the help

Well it deffinately seems like you guys are friends but i'm not so sure he likes you quite yet.
I would just try speaking up and being there to listen to him. And ya know flirt back let him know your there:)

P.S- Scent is the stongest thing tied to memory so try a new perfume and everytime he smells that after he'll think of your really it works! lol

Anyway hope i helped,
Becca

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I feel that I really need to lose some weight on my inner thighs, stomach, and upper arms. What should I do? Are there any spefic exercises? Anything I should stop eating or start to eat? I'm totally clueless on what I need to do so please help and I will rate!

--Thanks

Hey :),

Well i have the same problem but lucky for me my bro is a body builder lol. Anyway what i've started doin lately is lunges. See the inner thighs is connected to the butt so you mighr wanna look at butt exceries too like biking on a really really low gear is really good here try theese web site it will prbly help
http://exercise.about.com/cs/exerciseworkouts/tp/butt.htm

http://www.lhj.com/home/Thigh-Exercises.html

Hope that helps,
Becca :D

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I was mothers-helpering for my neighbor. I had no clue how much she should of paid me. When she gave me the money, I felt she over paid me. One time, for just an hour, she gave me $8. Today, for just 45 min, she gave me $6! Is this too much? (Mothers helpering is when you watch the kids while one of their parents are home) The kids didnt really require that much. There are 2 of them (one 1 year old and one 4 year old.) How much should she pay me per hour?


Also... when I babysit them.. how much should she pay me?

Well when i babysit i usually get 5 and over and the parents arn't home, but i do have one parent who pays me much more just because she thinks i do a good job and she likes to tip cause she trusts me (she's my next door neighbour lol) it also depens on how many kids the parent has like you would prbly get more for 2 kids than one.
So i think 8 bucks is a little much but 6 deffinately isn't thats a good wage and she may just be tipping you too.

anway hope i helped,
becky :)

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hey my name is Rachel and iam a 17 year old girl and iam going to be babysitting an autistic child for a whole month in june what kind of activities should I plan.I know autistic kids don't like change so what should I do if i make a mistake and he pitches a fit?

Hey whats up,

Well in grade 7 I had an autisic kid in my class. Most of the time he loved things to be quiet casue loud noises and too much going on bothered him so try doing things like a puzzle or somthing simple so he/she only has to concentrate on one thing. If he pitches a fight the best thing you can do is await till he calms down cause if you do somthing he dosn't like it could get worse or maybe try offering him somthing else.

anyway hoped i helped,
Becky :)

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I NEED YOUR ADVICE!! i am 13 and been wanting to pluck my eyebrows forever! and i secretly have. i have been plucking them with my fingers and sometimes using my moms tweezer. but i just dont know how to ask my mom if i can REALY pluck my eyebrows. and i am afriad she will ask me if i have been using her tweezer and i dont want her to get mad at me. if you pluck your eyebrows, i was just wondering what you asked your mom. i am pretty sure my mom will say yes but i want to know how to say it to her.

lol i tottaly remeber asking my mom about that what i did was i waited till somthing came up on t.v about like a trimmer or somthing or you go and look in the mirror and then come out to your mom and say hey do you ever pluck your eyebrows? cause i think i wanna start lol and i don't figure she'll question it i'm 14 now and i started last year too bealive me she won't care or at least i don't think so.

hope i helped
becky

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I am 16 /F. Last week i visited my girl friend, she told me they are naturalists and celebrate all week ends as a naturalists and they wear nothing at home. So I went their to see and I was astonished to see all of them nude (Dad, mom, my friend, her 12 year old sis and 19 year old bro). Is this kind of thing allowed? Isnt it a kind of incest?

Well it's not agais't the law as long as they keep it inside there house anywhere public is illegal but if i were you i would go if it made you uncomfortable

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