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sorry if this is long but i could so use some advice. ok well i went out with this one guy about a year ago who well call joe and i really really liked him and then i had to go away for a week. when i came back we seemed fine and we went and hung out like we always did and then one night apparently he was talking to my best friend who well call sue. well i guess he told her he only wanted us to be friends and he had her break up with me the next day. well obviously it really hurt and everything and i didnt understand. it took us a while to get over the whole thing but now were best friends again and its been this way for about 10 months. i trust him with my life and tell him everything and there are times when he really trusts me too. my friends and i think that he flirts with me sometimes and in return i apparently do it back. we both know people think we like each other and he really hates what people think about him. so then he starts to be really mean to me and says im annoying and all this other crap we both know isnt true. i dont do anything back because it will always turn into a fight and we just have to many of those i dont want to add to it. well now i think that i have a crush on him again but im really afraid what hes going to do if he finds out. i dont know whether i should just try really hard not to like him or whether i should just let him know. he thinks i do like him but whenever he asks who i like i always say no one. also, if you think i should stop liking him is there anyway thats really easy to take my mind off him cause we hang out so much its not like i can stop going near him. thanks so much and ill rate high if its good advice!!
~Leah, 14~ (link)
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hes not worth it if he is willing to bad mouth you to stop people from saying stuff about him then there is no use having him, you need a guy that that isnt affected so much by other peoples gossip, hope i helped.
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alright, i like this kid, and we've hung out and stuff, and i've liked him since i first met him, then when i started to get to know him more i liked him more and more as we went along, we stopped talking for a while [ we both had a lot going on ] and then the other night he IMed me and we went for a walk, i started liking him allll over again. i'm not sure if i should tell him i like him or not, because i don't want things to be really weird, & because if he doesnt like me back i dont want to deal with his friends [who are semi- my friends too ] knowing about it because it'll make them weird around me too.
sorry its so long, i tried to give a lot of info :\ (link)
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you should tell him, cuz there's no point of going through life the safe way nothing good in life comes from taking the safe way trust me and if he doesnt like you back then know that there is better people out there
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This is gonna sound confusing but, my best friend that i knew for about 6 years now has this really hot brother, hes about my age. He likes me and i like him! But she doesnt want us going out and she keeps making up excuses on why we shouldnt. She doesnt know i like him and im afraid if i do tell her she will get upset and be rude about it. And plus i think it will feel a little weird going out with my best friends brother! HELP i am soo confused (link)
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if your friend was really your friend then she wont get in the way of you two, and as far as you going out with your best friends brother i say dont worry about it it may feel awkward for a while but youll get over it trust me
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so i was going out with this kid named chris last summer he was a grade older then me and we went out for a few months and then he cheated on me so i broke up with him but we still hung out like once or twice after we broke up and he really wanted to go back out but i didnt want to.. even tho i still really liked him alot and and a few months later he told me he liked me agin but i told him i didnt wanna go out even tho.. again i still really liked him i just couldent go out with a guy who cheated on me cause i thgouht he would do it again so now its a year later and we both have new people that we are dating but i still think about him all the time and sometimes we still talk... so my question is ..is it bad that i still think about him all the time even tho i have a boyfrined and yeah ..and any other comments please tell me ..i will rate (link)
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if he cheated on you then you should know that theres someone out there who thinks about you and only you if a guy cant just be with you than thers someone better so yea that is a bad thing because the longer you think about him the less you think about our boyfriend and then that can cause alot of problems and it will just become a huge mess
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so i was going out with this kid named chris last summer he was a grade older then me and we went out for a few months and then he cheated on me so i broke up with him but we still hung out like once or twice after we broke up and he really wanted to go back out but i didnt want to.. even tho i still really liked him alot and and a few months later he told me he liked me agin but i told him i didnt wanna go out even tho.. again i still really liked him i just couldent go out with a guy who cheated on me cause i thgouht he would do it again so now its a year later and we both have new people that we are dating but i still think about him all the time and sometimes we still talk... so my question is ..is it bad that i still think about him all the time even tho i have a boyfrined and yeah ..and any other comments please tell me ..i will rate (link)
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if he cheated on you then you should know that theres someone out there who thinks about you and only you if a guy cant just be with you than thers someone better so yea that is a bad thing because the longer you think about him the less you think about our boyfriend and then that can cause alot of problems and it will just become a huge mess
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OK ive been friends with this boy for a while now, and i think i like him. I'm pretty sure he only wants to be friends. Hes never had a gf, ive never had a bf. This is weird but ... i dont think i would ever have a shot of going out w/ him, cus he wants to be a priest and is really catholic, and so am i, thats the major thing we have in common. How can i like, get over him? Should i get over him? idk what to doo !!!!!! (link)
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you have a shot with him but as soon as you stop believing that, thats when you dont have a shot anymore. dont give up.
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I'm 14/f/bi. I have this friend..who i've always really liked but she didnt really know until i told her..i mean ive liked for like 2 years now. and after i told her i liked her..she asked me out...and i was probably the happiest person ever. after a couple of weeks she said we should take a break because we never really talk anymore..but the only reason why we dont talk is because i share my computer with others and i havent had a chance to talk to her alot..but not that i have my own computer..i try to talk to her as much as i can..well anyways the point is..i really love her. and she doesnt know i love her yet bcuz shes always talking about how it takes a while to fall in love..but i love her more then anything in this world. and i miss her..i would do anything to get with her again. how can i tell her how much i love her and miss her? sorry it was so long.. (link)
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exactly what you just said tell her that you love her more than anyhting in this world and that you miss her
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What makes a girl a good kisser...please be specific and give instructions lol hahaha thanks oh and by the way I rate fives!!! (link)
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here ill give you this peice of advice there is one thing that makes a girl a good kisser(im my opinion) and that is the ability to be confident about it dont worry about anything else just be confident
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so i wanna know if i like this boy for real, or if its just a crush! SO HELP!!!, ohk well i odnt really talk to the guy i mean i've danced more then i've talked with him, we were at a party and he told me to dance so i told him he looked very cute & he said that i did to, the whole time we were dancing i got the vibe that he liked me & then we were holding hands cause that's how you danced the kind of music & i felt so comfortable... and we kept laughing cause there was this funny dude ... but anyways and when we did laugh we looked into each others eyes ... it was awsome & when he danced with someone else, i got so mad! so what i want to know is if i like this boy or if i think i do. remember i dance with him more then i talk to him! (link)
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really i dont think it matters weather or not you like him because i dont think he really likes you. cuz if he really thought you were special to him then he wouldnt just dance with another girl right after he danced with you so i hate to say it but wether or not you like him i dont believe he likes you
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omg...i cant even sit still to write this!! I am so cruching on this guy at my school. I swear, everytime I see him, i just wanna run up to him and give him a big smack on da lipps. I love hanging around him, and i love just having evryday conversatons with him!! i lOvE evrythang bout him; the way he walks, the way he stands when he opens his locker,hmm..Im goin crazy just thinkin about him!! bUt i guess my butterflies are whats stopping me from telling him i think hes soo pErFeCtT!!! pLeAzE hElP mE wItH tHiS oNe lAdIeS!! well, i guess if youre a guy and you know how you would like be told youre soo pErFeCtT, you could answer me too! aNd pLeAzE hUrRy..i dOnT kNoW hOw mUcH lOnGeR i cAn tAkE tHeEsE bUtTeRfLiEs!! :-*lUv YaLL!! (link)
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i m a guy and if a gurl wanted to tell me that she liked me the least i can expect is a strait up "i like u alot will u go out with me" or u can do somthin more romantic but thats all i would realy want
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okay here it goes... my friend is goin out with this guy that she really likes and he just is devoted to her (so she tells me). i've heard from his best friend that he is just goin out with her for the looks and poularity that comes along with her. I dont want to hurt her feelings by asking her but i dont want her to get hurt eaither. I dont like him mutch, i mean hes really mean to me and i think she deserves better. What do i do? HELP!!!! (link)
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hey hey hey before u do anyhitng u gotta find out if its true if u dont and go tell her u could be brakin up a good relationship here if its true than u tell her and if shes a true friend than shell believe u if not than look for a new friend
need anymore help ask me a ? in my inbox
rate me if you care
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I have this friend, and she is changing, her other friend moved it with her, and now she is completely ignoring me what do u think I should do?
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ur friend is being a bitch-hermit just wait around untill she realizes what shes doing cuz if shes a true friends she will but if she doesnt than u should lose her
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Hey, this guy told me how much he really liked me the other day and I turned him down because I wanted to be single but now he is goin out with my best friend and I changed my mind I think I'm jealous, but what should I do (link)
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ok i dont want to sound rude but the whole i wanna be single thing i think is a bubbleing pot of shit and its a bad turn down for a guy its the worst thing that could happen to a guy its liek he starts thinkin that somthins wrong with him and may affect future realtionships yea im surprised he is even goiing out with somone yea but back to the point i think ur jealous too but u only want wut u cant have and now u cant have him my advice to you is to wait till they brake up and ask him out then cuz untill than ur pretty much screwed
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i like this guy but i alwayse make excuses not to see him. I broke up with my last boyfriend, and it was really bad. I think i'm just scared this new guy will hurt my feelings again. What should i do? (link)
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dont let past relationships get to you and even if it doesnt work out theres probably tons of sweet guy out there for you just go out with him itll most ikely work out if u need anymore help ask a ? on my inbox
hope it works out
James
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hey peeple! i need some help BADLY! my boyfriend just broke up with me last tuesday and we have been going out for 4 months and he hurt me really really bad... he sayd he doesnt wana go out with me agen and he hurts me feelings alot... i stil kinda like him, i dont miss him, i miss the person i thot he was. he hurt me so bad, and now im actually KINDA starting to get over him, i like this guy and he likes me and we are going to go out and i think this is a really good choice because this boy is WAY WAY WAYYYY nicer then my old boyfriend was...except now i have a bad reputation for going out with this guy because he has slept with a few thousand girls and every1 thinks im a slut so b4 i had friends and then i just had my boyfriend and now it feels like i have no1... but maybe if i go out wityh this guy then things will get better, i dont really need aton of advice but im just having problems in my life ...
thanks Xox0XoX0!~ (link)
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sure just go out with this guy but dont go out with him if its just to get friends back but ask him out and hell most likely say yes so just go out with him
hope it works out
James
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i had planned on asking one of my sort of guy frineds out at our schools homecoming game , and i had told all my friends that i was asking him a while after he got there and that i was gonna ask him alone, i didnt want my friends coming in to play and pressuring him. so when he got there i got there my friend called him over by her and then she told me to come over by her like she was setting us up for me to talk to him! like "ok here now u ask him", i was so pissed so i walked away. turns out without me even telling her to she asked him out for me so she came up to me and told me how he said i dont know, for one i was mad and her and two, it was gonna be awkward the whole night now because of her, and now i dont know what to say when he gives me and answer, if he says no i dont want our friendship to be ruined, and if he says yes i'll feel wierd because i dont know why he said idk, like he didnt like me that much or something, like if he liked me why would he have to think about? help me to fix this awkward situation! (link)
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if he said i dont kno theres alot of things that could happen etheir hes afraid of comittment so hes tinkin about it or he is tweeked over a past relationship and doesnt want to hurt your feelings and friends r always gonna do stuff like that its non-avoidable so just wait for an answer im pretty sure hell say yes and dont worry about ur friend and this akward situation could become alot clearer
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i am a 7th grader and i have liked this guy since 5th grade...in 5th grade we were great friends and he is hott and really really nice....he has been really popular and i am taller then him so its hard to get wit him...this yr his popularity is going down....how can i get him to approach me w/o me talkin to him first and how can i get him to understand my height doesnt matter? (i want him to talk to me first) I WANNA GO OUT WIT HIM SO BAD! please help me out and gimmuie a good answer and ill rate ya! (link)
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uve liked him seince the 5th grade wow sounds like u really like him and if hes so great he wont care about ur hieght so i dont think thats a factor but if u want him that much ur gonna have to cuz if u dont ull go through the rest of ur life wonderin wut would happen if u had went up to him and said somthin so i say say hi make small talk flirt and after awhile ask him out hell probably say yes
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Why is it that all teenage boys only want sex, sex and sex? Are there any teenage boys, anywhere, that want a serious relationship? It's so hard to even find a half decent guy anymore. Don't guys just ever want to take things slow and want a girl for more than just sex? (link)
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man im havin the same problem except im tryin to find a teenage gurl whos not like that good luck with that but i think theres is somone out there ud be amazed how many people dont just want sex right under ur nose yea see i m one of those hard to find not wanting sex but wanting a serious relationship guys that arent lying about wut they want if u ever need help with anyhitng ask me a ? in my inbox
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ok i like this guy named Humberto and he is fine!! Well my gurl friends told him i liked him and he came to my table at lunch!! omg and i forgot to say hi and he got all mad and said i was ugly but an hour earlier he was like saying i was really hott and all now he is going out with this hoe that fucks every guy she can!! what should i do i really like him (link)
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well i think u gotta wait ur turn and wait till after they break up or u could just ask him out right now if thats not u
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hey! i really need your help. alright im 15 years old & i like this 17 year old guy. anyway, tonight when me & my friends met up w/ him it was like 10 minutes till i was supposed to be home. so he was like just call them & tell em youll be home in about 30 minutes. which number one i knew wasnt gonna work & number two he wanted to like make out. so my problem is this...i mean i really want to 'do something' w/ him but im not sure if im like too nervous. like tonight the thought of getting in his car & like driving somewhere & hooking up wasnt making me happy. ive never kissed anyone so maybe thats why. im just so scared...is this normal? do you have any tips on kissing? am i just freaking out for no reason or what! **i nEed hELp** (link)
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ur gonna be fine ur ready everyones neverous on there first kiss i was and after it was over i dont kno y i was its not a really a big thing dont worry
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