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awkward mistake
i had planned on asking one of my sort of guy frineds out at our schools homecoming game , and i had told all my friends that i was asking him a while after he got there and that i was gonna ask him alone, i didnt want my friends coming in to play and pressuring him. so when he got there i got there my friend called him over by her and then she told me to come over by her like she was setting us up for me to talk to him! like "ok here now u ask him", i was so pissed so i walked away. turns out without me even telling her to she asked him out for me so she came up to me and told me how he said i dont know, for one i was mad and her and two, it was gonna be awkward the whole night now because of her, and now i dont know what to say when he gives me and answer, if he says no i dont want our friendship to be ruined, and if he says yes i'll feel wierd because i dont know why he said idk, like he didnt like me that much or something, like if he liked me why would he have to think about? help me to fix this awkward situation!
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well, for one thing, tell your friend not to do that again! and just talk to this guy naturally, like nothing ever happened. it might be hard but you u have 2 if u wanna make the situation better. just talk to him about the game or school or something and he'll see that you dont let things bother you that easily. and he probably said he didnt kno because he felt akward that it was ur friend that asked him and not you! good luck! i hoped i helped!
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tell your friend that it was really rude of her to do that if she knew that you wanted to do that and tell him that you wanted to ask him yourself or hell think your to shy...so go up to him and say something like...im sorry for my friend...i wanted to ask you myself so DO you want to go to homecoming with me? and then hell know that you werent to afraid to ask him and that you were brave enough to take the first step...guys like when girls take the first move it takes pressure off of them for once to ask out the girl
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if he said i dont kno theres alot of things that could happen etheir hes afraid of comittment so hes tinkin about it or he is tweeked over a past relationship and doesnt want to hurt your feelings and friends r always gonna do stuff like that its non-avoidable so just wait for an answer im pretty sure hell say yes and dont worry about ur friend and this akward situation could become alot clearer
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Ok well first of all, I think you should definitely talk to your friend about what she did because that was not any of her business and she disrespected you completely! And I wouldn't tell her anymore stuff like that, that you don't want her getting into.
Secondly, I think you should talk to the guy[I know it may be awkward] and tell him how you feel and that you didn't mean for any of that to happen and that you really don't want to ruin your friendship, he should understand and who know, he may like you too! :)
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ok this is hard but if your friend really is your friend even if he says no it shouldn't be awkward just pretend it doesnt bother you.If he says yes which he most likely will then maybe he was too shy to tell you before and thats why he said he didnt like you.Hope it helps GL!
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