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Pleez tell me what you think!!!!??? Should you go a party of a girl you hardly know rlly with your whole school or should you go hang with your best friend because its her birthday that day???? pleez help and say what you would do or think.....??!! xo (link)
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i think u should spend time with your friend or go to the party with your firend. but dont turn ur friend down. do smtn with her on her b-day
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I recently started liking my friend, "Ray". We were hanging out a couple weeks ago & we were flirting a lot. Then we kissed.. Twice. The next day, I talked to him & he admitted that he has a girlfriend! Does this make me a slut, because I didn't know that he was cheating on his girlfriend! (link)
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THIS DOES NOT MAKE U LOOK LIKE A SLUT. IT MAKES HIM LOOK LIKE AN ASS. I DONT THINK U SHOULD GO OUT WITH HIM BECUASE CHANCES ARE IF HE CHEATED ON HHIS G.F THEN MOST LIKELY HE WILL CHEAT ON U. BUT DONT WORRY UR NOT A SLUT IT WAS AN INNOCENT KISS!
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I've noticed lately that a lot of guys have started liking me. It doesn't really faze me, but today this guy came up to me & said that his friend thought I was cute. I said I was flattered & asked to meet him. The poor guy was too shy to talk to me! I feel kind of bad because I could have easily just walked over there & talked to him. Should I ask him out? (link)
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I THINK THAT U CAN GET HIM TO OPEN UP A LITTLE BIT. BY GOING OUT WITH HIM. BUT DONT GO OUT WITH HIM IF U FEEL BAD MAKE SURE U GO OUT WITH HIM CUZ U LIKE HIM!
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hey everyone ok im gay for starters and i have been made fun of my whole life for it and now people at work are starting too and i think im going to kill myself so please talk to me.:( (link)
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first of all why do people make fun of you? i deffinatly dont think u should kill urslef i ithink maybe u should go see a counselor. and try to make new friends. please dont do anythign stupid because it isnt worth giving up ur life. if u need a friend to talk to or if u need to talk about this situation more then please im me on x6xtonix9x im usually always on so feel free to im me
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i need help my parents stariotype me like if i don't want to study they automaticly think i just want to watch t.v. i don't i have told them that they do that they say the same thing every time they won't litsen to me and i am in major need of help because they blame everything on me even if its not true (link)
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well if talking to your parents dont work then maybe u should try to inprove ur behavior and do homework beofre tv and before computer time and take care of things around the house and put ur priorities before extra privilages. i know it sounds stupid and boring but it actually helps alot.and it makes ur parents trust you alot more
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umm theres this guy that likes me alot and he is def. not my type...... but my friends tell him i lik him bc they feel bad for him... But i dont like him... Im going icekating on my birthday and soo is he.... he is giving me this real diamond ring and asking me out... what should i do? (link)
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just becuase hes "def. not ur type"oesnt mean u cant give him a chance. but dont use him for material things ex: that ring for ur b-day... u never know if u can have smtn good unless u give it a try i dno maybe if u gave him a chance then u might like him.. but tell ur friends to stop telling him that u like him because thats so0o0o0o0o0o0o0o wrong u just dont do that no matter how bad u feel for sumone. either talk to him in person and tell him that u dont like him but do it in a nice way.. or u should just give him a chance and if it dont work out then break it off with him.
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My boyfriend & best friend are very close. My best friend even hooked us up. The thing is, my best friend is always messing around with my boyfriend. They always play fight and laugh about it, but to me it's flirting. I get extremely jealous but try to play it off thinking they're just good friends. My best friend is the kind of person who if I told her about it would think I'm crazy but then flirt with him even more! I love them both, but I can't help feeling that they have some sort of feelings for eachother. He tells me he loves me and my best friend is just a friend, nothing more. Am I crazy for thinking this? Could there be something going on between them? (link)
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i dont think there is anything goin on b.w them i think that maybe u shouuld just accept ur emotions and deal with them. its tottaly normal to get territorial when it comes to boys but just let it go and dont react off of it b.c if she was ur true friend then she wouldnt want to hook up with him maybe shes just a flirtatcious person and she doesnt realize it. as for ur boyfirnd if he "loves" you then he wouldnt even think about being with ur bestfriend boys are also very flirtatcious people and they really dont know it. its just a natural thing for ppl to flirt and i know it makes u mad but just know that they bboth love u dearly and they wouldnt do anything to hurt you!!
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I am a 23 year old female who has been friends with another 23 year old female for 10 years. We have always been very close and we have also been intimate in the past WITH my boyfriends consent. Now she has been going out with my boyfriends brother for a year and a half and now lives with him. I really miss being able to get drunk with her and kiss her and being intimate without any worries and now we can't. My boyfriend could care less if we were like that again because he understands my sexuality, but his brother is completely jealous of us even being in the same room together. It sucks. I wish I could get over it but I can't and I can't get her out of my head, I miss having that close friendship, I could never have that again because no one knows me like she does. Sometimes I think she sends me signs that she misses me like that too, but I am so confused about this! I don't really know what my question is except dizzy wonder on how she is feeling (I don't want to ask her and confuse her too if she ISN'T confused). Maybe I am wondering if I should force these thoughts away and tear them from myself like a limb from my body, keep this as a haunting secert that burdens me every day, or keep hoping something will change. Thank You to anyone who is able to answer this confusing question. (link)
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it is understandable if her boyfriend dont want yall to be together i htink u should deff. talk to the girl and tell her how u feel. u cant change her boyfriends feelings he doesnt want yall to be together then theres just nothing u can do. all i can say is that u talk to the girl maybe call her or something and tell her u miss her adn u think its messed ujp that yall cant be firends anymrore. im sorry i couldnt help too much i justs dont know wht its lsike to be intimate with somone of the same sex and i dont think i ever will but good luck and i hope evrything works out!
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out of the kindness of our hearts my husband and I opened the door of our home to my son and his wife. (Just til they get back on their feet) its been 2 years and they are still here!!! My son won't keep a job and is lazy!! He will cook every now and then. Both my husband and I work. my problem is HOW DO I GET THEM OUT OF MY HOUSE?? they have nowhere to go. ITs been 2 years and the daughter-in-law has her first time to wash a dish or sweep a floor. She does not cook or clean.Does only their laundry(I usually have to put it in the dryer-so I can use machine) they pay no rent, nothing on electric(they use a personal electric heater in winter and air conditioner in summer) or water (I pay for city water by the gallon)they eat out a lot and go to the movies all the time...I can't because I can't afford it. so what do I do? how can I tackfully get them to leave? any advise will be appreciated. (link)
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do they have jobs? maybe u should twll ur son that u love him very much but u cant pull all of the weight around the house, if they want to live in ur house then they need to get jobs and help out around the house, they are being disreaspectful to you and they are not greatful for what you do for them (well at least that is wht is seams like) you need to tell them to get jobs because u cant do everything for them you can only do so much and its getting out of hand now.
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ok, i have been with this guy for a while, and the only time i ever see him happy is when we are together, and our mutual friends say the same thing, but he keeps pushing me away, his mom died in his arms 3 years ago and he was really close to her, some one told me it sounds like he loves me cuz he doesnt wanna lose me. does anyone have any ideas???? please help me! (link)
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i think he loves u but he has alot of things on hiss mind jsut give him some time and try not to get to0 close so he will feel that u respect his feelings. i hope evrything goes good with yall go0d luck hope i helped out some
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Ok, my dad just died from lung cancer on Tuesday. My friend who me and him have been really really good friend, with some benefits, for almost a year now, asked me to hang out with him yesterday, and he asked me out while we were hanging out. I said yes but Im worried that, 1. hes gonna cheat on me and our friendship is gonna be over (cause he is quite flirty with girls at times) and i dont wanna lose him as a friend cause i really need him around during this time in my life and that 2. idk if he just asked me out cause he feels bad about me because I just lost my dad. HELP!!! (link)
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first of all im really sorry about your fathers death. maybe u should break up with the boy so you can have time to yourslef and try to make things better and whenu get more used to the situation (aboutu ur father) then u should go out with him. ur family really needs tyou ryte now and i think u need them so just stay friends with the boy because if he does cheat and stuff, then u dont need that on ur mind uve already gone through enough so0 like i said just stay friends with him untill u feel that u are ready to move on and start dating again.
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Any one know anything about dogs My sheltie has a sore under is neck it doesn't seem to brother him but it sure is ugly. any ideas ? (link)
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do u lock ur dog in a kennel during the day?
maybe it has kennel sores that usually is caused when u keep ur dog in a kennel or a small area for a long period of time. if thats the case then maybe u should stop putting him in those small areas and tie him up in the backyqrd on a long chain so he can still run around but still be protected at the same time. ur dog can also have an irritated spot so he is scratching off his fur and its making a scab. your dog could have an infection or something rong with it. im sure its nothing mandatory but keep an eye on it and if it gets worse then maybe u should visit the vet!! GO0D LUCK AND I HOPE U FIGURE OUT THE PROBLEM.!!
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I really really want to learn guitar. I looked into lessons but their like 20$ a half hour! Its crazy. My friends tell me to just teach myself, but I have no idea how. And my sister told me to get a book or DVD on it to learn from. What do you think? And guitsrists around that could help me? lol. And anyone who taught themselves, how did you and how long did it take? (link)
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i think u should take ur friends advice and buy books and dvds and stuff on it; if ur still not learnin then maybe u should sign up for school and they should tech you
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ok i got this bacterial infection in my throat adn i was prescribed pills but i dont care much for them. i took them how i was suposed to for a week and i have like a bunch left but i feel fine, should i continue taking them even tho i feel fine?
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you should keep taking them becuase just becausae ur feeling fine doesnt mean that they still arent there. finish takin ur perscrotion untill ur doctor tells u not to
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Ok I am a 13 year old girl and I like this boy at school, and he likes me to but only as a friend. He thinks he's to young to be my boyfriend but I realy realy like him and I want him to be my boyfriend, what should I do?? (link)
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if he inlywantrs to be friends then u have to respect that and move on.
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please dont delete this question..id really like 2 kno. well im a freshman in high school and ive been having my period since the middle of my 7th grade year. my friend told me that she had discharge before her period but then it stopped. i still have discharge. is there something wrong? (link)
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there is nothing wrong with dischage.. discharge is a natural cleanser for ur "womaly area" it is toally normal u have nothing to worry about. unless it starts to turn a dark brown or it starts to have a rotten smell. you should talk to your mom about it if u have an odor and if it is a dark coolor and u should visist the gyno. but other than that, it is totally normal.. some people dont get it often and others do but it depends on ur body cleanliness. hope i helped and dont worry about a thing!
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last night me and my boyfriend talked 4 2hours (longest since summer :) ...anyways he asked me if i had been fingered b4 and i had been but see it happend when i was goin out with him so i got really quiet and sad bcz of what ive done!!..how can i tell him i kissed (made-out) and got well i didnt rly let him do it all the way but how can i tell him i cheated on him...
i dont think he'll wanna talk to me again and im supposed to see him on the 29th.. :/..plz help me! (link)
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how long have yall been going out?
i think that if you really like him then you need to bne honest and tell him wht happened. tell him that it makes u sad to think about it and tell him u made a really bif mistake and you want to make things better b-w the 2 of you. tlk to him and tell him that if there is anything you could take back it would be that. say it might be hard to trust me again but just know that im really sorry and i hope that we can work through this. i hope i helped good luck
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ok lets see if i can get this right lol...
-does he like me or does he like herr???
---is it me or is it her...or am i really her?
(sry i know this is long)
ok ..im 14/f and one of my best friends is 14/m..he doesnt go to my school...although lives in the district and i seem him here and there...hes been askin me how to ask a girl out..and i kept telling him to be himself..he just wont listen to me on that part advice...
he kepts telling me to put myself in that position..
- i said "no"
- he said "well its not hard 4 u ur a girl"
- i said "its hard 4 us as well..bc we have to turn down guys we dont like"..
i dk how to tell just to be himself..bc he doesnt want to listen to listen when he knows its true...
and he a few days ago he asked me "how do i ask a girl out and not get turned down??"..and im like idk its not something predictable...
-he goes to a private school..and i go to public school..so i have no clue who this girl is..if i did ..i would have asked her if she liked him..but i dk ....so im pointless at this point...-thx
P.S. i asked him way be4 that.."what would you say if i said i liked you" and he said "i dunno" and said well what would your 1st response be if i said i did and he said "u do?" and i said oooo..then he said something or w/e and i said you scare me sometimes and he didnt say anything for 2 mins and i said..."do you care that you do sometimes" and he said "yea"..and i said "how much?" and he said "______________________________________________________________________________"
and i said "ooohh"..then later on the other night on-line what this girls name is and
he said "marissa"
--- when we got into an little argument over what is harder being a girl or being a guy...and he said we have it easier..and when i said "no we dont bc we have to turn down guys who ask us out, i had to do it 5 times" and he said "w/ whoooo?"..like if he was affaird i was taken or something..ahh it drives me insane..-thx again
- i think i already hinted that i liked him...im just not suree if he is affaird to ask me out bc i said i rejected 5 guys- (link)
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i think u should just tell him online that u like him... if he sayes no he doesnt then its gunna be hard to accept bujt just keep working at it.(but dont annoy him) alot of people are scared of being rejected so they dont say nothing and they can pass up a great oppourtunity. he probally does like you but he just doesnt know how to tell you since you sed u have rejected 5 guys hhe might feel like he will get rejected so just go for it and tell him u like him. and if u dont want to tell him then just give him hints ask him if he wants to go see a movie or if he wants to go do something on the weekends. he cant read ur mind so ur gunna have to tell him how u feel unless u wanna end up not being with him.. im sorry if i didnt help much i just have exams andd stuff for sko0l so i dont have to0 much time to put into this as i usually do. go0d luck and i hope i helped u at least a little bit.. thnx
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i like this boy pierre!! He'z a sophmore and the runningback for the varsity. He's cute funny and ohhh so many girls like him. He lives in my neiqhborhood n we've had sex...a lot. i wanna qet things moving furthur you kno..i want him 2 b my boyfriend. All he says is that he doesn't know andthat so many girls have hurt him before..is he afraid of commitment? i do more than enough just to see his face. Theonly reason i go to school is 2 see his face at the end of the day!What do i do..or say? He tells me he likes me and that hez not just gonna say he loves me to make me feel better..im qlad hez truthful...? (link)
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well first of all u shouldnt have sex with a bot when ur not going out with him like u said the other day ur stealling chaeating sneaking out and lying for him. i think ur just using ur self up and u shouldnt be doing that. i htink that u should just try to find someone new.. i mean im not trying to sound like a bitch but i think hes using you.
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okay i go back and forth between my moms house and my dads house. The day after i went to my moms house, my dad lost my cat. He said it got outside, and then i come back a week later and he tells me this! what should i do??? (link)
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im osrry about wht happend, that happened to me once just put out flyers and go to all the pounds and vet places. i found my dog like 3 weeks later.. good luck and im very sorry about it!
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