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Hi!! yah I love giving advice because I like to help people out..so just ask me anything and I will answer your questions! :o) *HuGz N kIsSeS*
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ok well i have sweaty arm pits i want to tell my mom but i dont know how to..like i was think of saying mom i think i have a problem do you think you can take me to the doctors..and she would probably sat why..i would be like because i have been sweating and i want it fixed..but its to embarrasing to say anything about it...do you have any suggestions? (link)
I'm sorry to say it cant be fixed. It can but then you would end up sweating somewhere else other than your armpits. So I'm sorry but your just going to have to live with it. But dont be scared to tell your mom I bet she'll understand. Just maybe wear more layers of clothes so its not so noticable?? I'm sorry but its just life. *good luck hun*


Last night I did my washing but I was really tired so I just dumped it all in without looking to see what went in. Then when I checked this morning, I had found that I had slipped a fur coat into the mix.

Things happen and bada bing bada boom,

The coat feel apart,

Well I'm not that upset about the coat falling apart (a bit but not much) but now all my other clothes that went in that wash have fur all over them. I have tried shaking them off but they are still covered- what would be the best way to get all the fur off easily?
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You can go and buy one of those things its hard to explain but theres little sheets that you can pull off when that ones not good anymore.Theres a handle and I guess you hold it like a brush and you just roll it over the clothes and it works pretty good. Lint roller I think??
lol well *good luck*


hi
ive got this friend and shes really annoying, she folllows me around EVERYWHERE and i mean EVERYWHERE! even when i want 2 talk 2 my other friends in 'private' she has to come up and listen in. my other friends think shes annoying as well and we dont no what do. and she always leans on my shoulder all the time and when i tell her to get off, she says that shes tired or something like that. PLZE HELP
what can i do/say to stop her from doing it???
luv nickixxxxxxxxx (link)
I think you should let her in..maybe shes just trying to fit in?? If she's still annoying then maybe you should talk to her and see whats going on. As for the shoulder thing maybe she's trying to get your attention?? Talk to her more and stuff..let her feel noticed? I dont know just try that. *good luck*


ok i have 4 dogs:
-Irish Setter
-Golden Retreiver
-Beagel
-Yorkie
And I have 3 cats:
-Siamese
-Sphynx
-Pursian

I need ALL different kinds of toys for these pets! just 1 toy wont be enough they all fight over it! Do any of yall know ne good cat & dog toys??? in need of help b4 pets go boring and sad!

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lol hey why not just a nice little homade toy for the kitties?? a foil ball :o) and for the dogs..tug of war with a rag :o) cats do enjoy feathers though just as long as you make sure that they dont eat them. Dogs basically like ballz frizbeez and stuffed animals.


i am a 13 year old girl, and i got my period for the first time today. i don't know how to tell my mom. any advice? (link)
Just come right out and tell her. Im sure she knows it would be happening soon..and she went through it too. Dont be scared to tell her its just a part of life.


What is the right age for a male to start getting erection and be able to burst?? I am thirteen years old but I still cant have any erection...But all of my friends (same age) say they can have erection...Some even say they have been having erection since they were 11 or 12?? Maybe this sounds gay but I have actually seen them having erection in the mall or in the school shower...Is this bad? I am so worry about it...Is it possible that I won't be able to have any erection throughout my whole life?? (link)
Mmm first of all why do you watch your friends in
the shower and are always looking there?? Dont worry your body is just taking its time..all guys are different just like girls..Girls have their period before lots of others have. You have plenty of time..dont worry about it.


what happened when a guy gets an erection? can he get one from making out? (link)
Tahaha umm its when blood fills the penis?? And yes he can get one from making out..and from lots of other things. How old are you?? I think you should know this.


okay, there are these little boys i babysit for, and they are devils. i always try and to different activities *(crafts, cooking, movies, games)* with them, but they never like my ideas..what can i do with them? (link)
Try asking them what they want to do.


is it just plain wrong for a 15 year old straight male to babysit? (link)
Haha no..it would be good for you :p


I'm 6'11" 430lbs Male. I need a plan for weight loss, and i need to lose it soon. My doctor has suggested surgery, and i do not want to go there until i absoulty have to. It is literally killing me. Please give me some low cost solutions on losing weight. Thanks. (link)
Replace good things with the bad. Also eat slower it fills you up faster. Just dont eat junk food. And umm get out and exercise?? I think it would be really hard to lose all that weight. Everybody is different on their rate of losing weight. I would recommend having the surgery done. *good luck*


Ok i have a puppy, i just got the other day and she will be 7 weeks old tomorrow...well my problem is...she wont stop useing the bathroom on my floor in my bedroom and everywhere else in the house...even though i tell her no...thats bad and not to do it again but she keeps on and on whenever i see that shes about to go to the bathroom i pick her up and rush her outside....its annoying and i need advice on how to get her to stop useing the bathroom on my floor...thanks...i'll rate anyone who answers this for me! (link)
Put her nose in it and tell her no then put her outside. Also with female dogs you can tell when they are going to go poddy..if you see her walking around with her nose on the ground or going in circles or getting ready to get into that "position" tell her no and rush her outside.


i have a puppy she is about 5 months old and my mom is very alergic to her .. she is now living in teh gaage bcz my mom almost died ! we wanan give her away to a family taht loves her but dont know who my question is .. how could i let ppl know about my dog ??? thank u soo0o much and p.s she is a girl if that helps
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You can put an ad in the paper..or make flyers lol and put them everywhere. You can also take her to a shelter they will find a nice home for her. *good luck*


My cat came to my house as a stray she is was declawed... i put her with my kitten he isnt neuterd she is getting fatter how can i tell she is pregnant? (link)
Take her to the vet. I really dont think its possible for pets that young to get another animal pregnant. Its not healthy for a animal real young same as it is with humans. Im not sure..well i guess its possible. Get your kitten neutered and that would also prevent the cat from getting any other animal pregnant. It would also prevent bad diseases and other problems later in its life. Talk to the vet.


O.K- My dog (Millie Light) keeps pooping on the floor and I literally clean up poop 6 times a day! Is this just plain diaria? Is this normal? Please Help!
P.S- I'm cleaning up poop as we speak!
~~~Kayla~~~ (link)
Did you change the food you were feeding the dog?
That could cause a little more pooping. I would take him/her to the vet also the dog could be sick you never know. If its a puppy and hes not poddy trained yet just simply tell him no and put him outside soon the dog will learn not to go in the house. Lol if the poop is like really runny i would really take it to the vet. It could be some kind of infection in those areas. Then you would get medicine that you would have to feed it in its mouth for about a week.
*good luck*


I apologize in advance for the potential length of this post.

Lately, I have been having trouble with my father. It seems like he's taking every opportunity to ruin every chance at happiness that I ever had. I normally wouldn't care, but he's really effecting my relationships with other people and my potential opportunity to get into a good college, which is really important to me.

Since I'm only fourteen, I have no way to move out without his complete consent, and I have considered moving in with my mother in San Francisco, but she is physically abusive toward me, so that really eliminates itself as an option.

He's making me feel worthless and like I'm a horrible human being and I don't know what to do. He's called me a slut, a liar, a failure, and a sociopath. Someone please help me. (link)
Yeah my dad is the same way at times. I'm not sure what to do either. I just sit and take it only sometimes im brave enuff to stand up to him but i do regret it after i do. I dont really know what to tell you but umm..be strong?? Try living with some other family members or telling them about your dad and stuff.


I'm not sure but I may be a victim of emotional abuse. I've been with my guy since high school, more the half of a decade ago, and we have a child together. Now he doesn't call me names and put me down to my face, though he's come close before, but it's like whenever he's in a bad mood he takes it out on me, he blames EVERYTHING on me that comes to his mind. It makes me feel really low. I think he does it to make himself feel better but then I feel like total crap and I hang my head down and sigh for like hours. Sometimes I get so sick to my stomach over it. It's just this vicious cycle that keeps on going. He acts nice again and I love that person that he is when he is nice so I forget everything and am able to relax again for a little while. But when he changes faces again I'm like, "Oh why do I put myself through this, here we go again." I feel like such trash for putting up with it. I just love him so much, and I know he loves me but wonder if there's a part of him that hates me because he has to blame so much on me. And if I say anything when he is angry, ANYTHING, it makes him angrier and he doesn't listen to anything I have to say. His father treated his mother like this and I think he's following in his footsteps. I don't want my son to think this is how a man is supposed to treat a woman. So I'm just wondering if this is considered emotional abuse. Thanks. (link)
You really need to leave him. You and your child would be a lot better off without him. It could get a lot worse and maybe he could get physical. Right now is about the best time to leave before it gets worse. I see all guys as total assholes give that man a nice hard bitchslap n get the hell outta there. I wouldnt and I dont think you want your child getting involved with his anger. Yes I agree about your son even when you think you wont ever act like it..you always do it was just the way you were brought up. I say you take your son and leave. *good luck hun*


ive become really depressed lately..bc of my weight...im five feet tall and i weigh 135. i dont think im fat but then again i dont know...i have big boobs and a butt..so that sometimes gets mistaken for fat also and makes me look bigger...can someone plz tell me how to get rid of all this weight? i dont have a gym memebership so i cant work out...any suggestions?? (link)
First off don't think of your self as fat, and if anyone else says anything, ignore it! To help in losing weight try running. It doesnt have to be 1,000 miles just start with a small amount and work your way up. Running is a great way to get inshape and clear your head at the same time. Also keep goals in mind or motivation, because it will help you through it.
Well *good luck*


On my bus the older kids are mean to my best friend. They always steal her stuff. Like yesterday she had a gameboy with her and was playing sims and this kid stole it and wouldn't give it back until she gave him gum. She had to jump some seats to get it back. Then today she wouldn't give him gum again so he started stabbing her with a needle. He treatened to stab me with it if I didn't move so he could get inm our seat. They my best friend threw the gum out the window and he and his friends started cursing her off and trying to cut her with it. I want to find a way to help but I don't know how. What should I do? (link)
Pff poke his friggin eye out. Tell the police?? I dunno I'd fuckin kill da bitch. Ok just take it calmly and tell a teacher er sumthin.


Ok my I have a friend Laura* and she is always copying me! For instance, I got my hair cut short and the next thing you know she decides to cut off her like 3ft long hair too! And the other day on the bus I was singing the Fresh Prince of Bel Air theme song (:D) and she goes " OH! I LOVE THAT SONG!!!! " I was like...goodddddd!!!!! It just gets on my nerves alot! Idk how to make her stop...anyone have any ideas? THANKS! (link)
Obviously she is jealous of you. Try acting different maybe she wont like the way you act then, and maybe she will stop. Or maybe just go in her face and tell her off. :p


ok last night i cut myself in the leg. its not deep or anything just like scrathes and i did it with a really dull razor. i did it because i keep fighting with my friends and i can't help it. i had a dream about it that night and i can't stop thinking about it!! i definately don't want to do it again and i most probably won't. DON'T SAY "TALK TO A PSYCHIOTRIST, CAUSE I DON'T NEED TO!!" i just need to figure ot why i would do this and why i can't stop thinking about it, i mean like i know why. i just feel really screwed up in the head and shocked that i would do this. am i screwed??? (link)
Stress..dont cut yourself because of your friends..talk to them about it..dont hurt yourself. I dont give good advice but I just say for you to talk to them.




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