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hey my names jody, im 15, i live in Beloit, Wisconsin and i go to Turner, im a freshman(supposed to be a sophomore) im not a mean person even tho i can be sometimes, im not a person whos known to fight a bunch of people, but i have gotten in a few...and havent lost ANY so im not really a weak person if you think about it...i dunno how good my advice is...but i try to give the best advice i can!

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hi, ive got a french oral exam on tues and i havent hardly learnt any of it, we have to learn our presentatation about anything ( mines half a page long) the questions to go with it (5-6 questions), topic one and topic two which is like 13-15 questions. im getting really stressed out cos, ive got no time to revise.

can someone plze help!!!!!!!!!!

study study study

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Ok, so i have this problem. I always dress in black or dark colors and i've been doin this all my life. Some of my friends are starting to get pissed that i'm always dark. they're embarrassed when we go out in public just because of me. They yelled at me but i just told them to piss off. this can become a problem. Should i just keep telling them to shut the hell up and put up with it or try to deal it out with them?

advice is nice...
i don't care if it sucks like hell, just give me advice...

its none of their business what you wear...just do what you wanna do....but maybe you should try wearing colors like green or blue...or maybe even pink....but if you dont want to and you want to keep wearin black and dark colors then do that...if your friends have a problem with it then they aint your friends think about this quote..."do what you want, and say what you feel because the people who mind dont matter, and the people who matter dont mind"...you dont say nothin to them when you dont like what they're wearin....so why the hell should they have the right to say shit to you and tell you how you can dress???

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In my school people get picked on school temas basically because they are friends with the coach. they could be not as good as one person but if they know the coach they will still make it. well i dont know the coach and im trying out for basketball but i dont know if i should because they probally wont pick me cause i dont know the coach cause im ok at basketball im not the best but im not bad (sorry if this is confusing) my question is though should i try out or not?

well...try to make friends with the coach and if it doesnt work then try your best

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ok well im 18/f , and my b/f got me pregnant , lik 3 months ago, b4 he broke up wit me. today he punched me in the stomach , nd in my face. and i dnt kno wut to do?? plz help me. how do i kno if he killed my baby?

go to the doctor...then maybe you should think about the police...thats abuse you know...heres a # you should think about callin 1-800-37-abuse

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Me and my boyfriend have been dating for about three months. We havent kissed yet, but i think i want to. How should i tell him??

make sure you really want to....yall have been going out for a really long time...if ive been with a guy that long id go all the way...but yeah just ask him how he feels. and then youll figure it out

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okk theres this boi lets say john nd i love him !! a lot hes my first love nd well he loves me too (nd i think its true cuzz i live 45 minutes away cuzz i moved) nd he still talks to me .. nd yesterday i told him that i wanted to see him one last time nd then i didnt wana see him agen and then he said why nd i was like cuzz i think its qwhat i shuld od nd he said i dont nd i said that i think it would be better that way nd then he said something bout space gives oppurtunity nd i get it but then he was like i dont wana lose you nd then we got in the big argument cuzz my friend got me to do it (if you wana or need to see the convo then IM me at
" theOnlyOne4me x " ) and well i dont kno if i made a mistake or not nd i really really need help on if he IMs me then shuld i go w/ it or shuld i stop what is tarted nd say i didnt mean it !! please help soon !! i really need it

xO - Confused

i wanna see that convo....my sn is xoxbabiiphatx69...anyway...yes tell him you didnt mean it...cuz he obviously really does like you if he doesnt wanna lose you...feedback is Greatly Appreciated thnx!...dont forget to rate!

xoxoxoxJody

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ok, flashback like 2 years. there was this guy who i always thought was pretty cool, but i DID NOT like him. we weren't exactly friends... it was like one of those dumb " 6th grade-i-hate-you-i-hate-you-too" things. of course we didn't actully hate each other, we would just said that cause we were dumb little 6th graders (actually, we were always playing and goofing around and laughing all the time in class with each other.)but the thing is that around the middle of the year, all of his friends just started to tell me that he liked me a lot and stuff, but i never listened to them either cause i just didnt believe them or i didnt want to believe them, but i didnt.i knew they wouldnt just bother to tell me for no reason, though. anyway, that guy (let's call him W) and i never talked about it. i dont think he even knew his friends would tell me all that stuff.but during that summer, i just realized that i was really starting to like him. fast forward to about 4 months ago. all these rumors were going around about it and he ended up hearing about it from more than one person, and he suddenly started to avoid me and vice versa. then one time he told my friend " dile a ella que no se haga falsas ilusiones" which means "tell her not to make herself any false illusions". i was getting tired of it though, so my friend, being the dumbass that she is told him that i didn't like him, that he's a fricken dumbass, and a bunch of other crap and embarrassed him in front of his friends (haha) and said it was all from me. after a while, we started talking a little bit again, but only cuz we had to for school. anyway, he somehow (?) got a hold of a note my friend and i were sending to each other in class, saying all this time about me liking him. the next day my friend told me that she'd heard him tell someone that he ws never gonna talk to me again. i told her to tell him that he didnt have to worry either, i wasnt gonna talk to him either. we havent talked since, but we sometimes find each other occasionally glancing in the other's direction. my friends joke around that i stalk him, and one of his friend told him and he looks at me like i'm a psycho. what is up with him cause his friends still tell me that he likes me but he is just shy or wants to look cool or something, but i dont think so. he is a jerk since this year started and i want to stop liking him, but i cant change my feelings overnight. how do i get over him, get him to know i'm forgetting him (uhh....kinda!) and what's up with him... i mean all guys?!

write your friend a note telling her about what you just told me then tell your friend to show him the note but tell her NOT to tell him that you told her to...hope i helped...feedback is GREATLY appreciated...rate PLEASE!?...


xoxoxJody

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I made a promise with one of my cusins I dont know if I can keep it you know ... the promise is to keep my virginity till I am married what should I do I love the guy I am with right now

what ever you wanna do...you cant make promises like that cuz almost everyone has sex before marriage...feedback is GREATLY appreciated, please rate!

hope i helped
xoxoJody

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when does a girl usually get her period?

somewhere between 9-18

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Ok...Here's the story. I have been friends with this guy since the 5th grade.We're both 16 and I have had a crush on him since 5th grade too. Finally, 5 years later,(2 months ago), we went out for a month. I thought "Wow, I can't believe this.It's what I've always wanted." Well it wasn't. He was always around his friends. I mean I don't see ANYTHING wrong with guy time,because I want girl time too. But he was ALWAYS with them. He barely called cause he was always with them. The funny thing was that before we went out we talked every night for like 4 hours! I adored him and I know he adored me. But being alone all the time just wasn't working. So we broke up. We THANKFULLY went back to being best friends again. Well now 2 months later we have a little problem. We went to a party and we kissed...I loved it and I know he did. Then 3 days later I asked if he liked me. His answer was "Yea but I don't see us as anything more than friends right now...but yes I do like you." I was devastated...did I read his signals wrong? Well we had a heart to heart and came to an understanding and hung up the phone with saying we loved each other! The next night we went to a basketball game, then to the pool hall. As he played pool and I sat there watching...our eyes met for the longest time,he smiled at me with the cutest smile, and my heart just melted! "Maybe he really does like me the way I like him!!" I thought. Well when it was time for me to leave he said "Bye I'll call you later" Without anything else...he usually hugs me or kisses me on the cheek!! Once again...a signal misread. My friend Beth, whom was there throughout it all, spoke to him one night about it. He said he didn't want me to like him the way I did because he didn't know what he wanted right now and that he didn't want it to end up like last time and him "hurting me". Problem was...he never hurt me! Now, almost a week later, we have yet to speak to each other. BIG CHARACTER HERE!! Morgan... a girl he is/was in love with has hurt him twice. They didn't even go out...she lead him on and then let him down. He claims he doesn't care anything for her. I believe him...but if I could just find out what it was that he loved about her I would change and just to gain AT LEAST one characteristic he loved about her! I have never been like this...I've always said I would never change for anyone! Especially not for some guy. But for him I will do anything. WHAT DO I DO!! Please don't say "Girl, don't change for anyone" or "Let him come to you"...seriously HELP ME!!

you really shouldnt change for anyone...if he dont like you then he dont like you and i think you should just get over it (no effense) but theres other guys out there...ive been in this same place before and it really hurt...so i know what you're going through...and someone told me the same thing i just told you...and it really worked...me n him are still friends and i still have feelings for him...but i dont let the feelings control me like i did and how you do...play the field for a while...if it doesnt work out then you know this boy is "the one" and he'll relize the same thing about you sooner or later...but if he doesnt then you know that you will NEVER be more than friends and no matter how hard it will be....you're just gonna have to move on

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well me and my bf have been goin out for like a little more than 2 months and we really like each other... but he seems shy when it comes to kissing or something...wat does this mean?

it means hes slow....dump him and find someone more your speed...unless that is your speed

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ok this is going to be long but i neeed help! well im 15/f and i go to a big public school. lately ive been skipping classes though. and its not too big of a deal and i mean i know its really wrong but i make everything up and make sure i get all my work and have good grades. but i think my mom found out about it. and shes getting really upset. she hasnt told me anything but shes really sad acting and i hear her sometimes talking to my teacher and saying she wants to keep me in my school but she dosnt know if she can. and then today i looked up my computer history and i saw websites for all GIRL boarding schools in like north carolina and stuff and i live in texas! what is a boarding school? im not even sure! and i mean im a good kid but i use to skip a lot and i started again. so i geuss shes getting upset about it. i dont know what to do. i have a great life here. i have a great best friend, great boyfriend, great everything! if i had known about this whole boarding school thing i wouldnt have evvver skipped again! is there any way do yall think that i can talk to her about this? i already told her i wouldnt anymore. but i messed up! everyone does! ive just been messing up a lot more latley! and i really dont want to leave my boyfriend! im going crazy! what should i do?!?!?! pleaaaaase help!!!

you fucked yourself with this one...shouldnt have done it

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I have this guy friend that i used to like. He's nice and all and we talk on email a lot. Then he said that my best friend (basically my "sister") and her (really cool) guy cousin sucked at hockey, were wimps, adn were on steriods because they talk funny. I was about to cuss him out but then i maintained control because they are two of my best friends. I really got pissed when he said that her guy cousin was on steriods. REALLY pissed. What should i do to this kid to teach him a lesson?

no matter how much you try to keep it in sometime or another its gonna come out...well whats happened, happened...but if it ever happens again, dont hold it in....cuss his ass out

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ok.... my "so called friends" r blaming me for an email that I didnt write but they wont belive me. they were calling me names and crap then they wrot me emails that were really mean.. Everyone wants out of this expect the ppl blaming me!! so i have ICQ then this girl of me so called friens was cussing me out!!! then on the bus they were throwing paper at me now they really hate me... and the worst thin about the fight is that one of my friends r my science lab parenter!!!!! then she acts liked everything is ok but it is not

what should i do

i rate 5's!!!

signed
confused

they aint your friends...send them all emails telling them that you dont wanna be their friends anymore cuz you dont need that...just tell them that theyre all bitches...n if they have a problen with it tell them to email me at
xoxbabiiphatx69@netscape.net....you can email me to if you ever need to

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My brother and I are nine years apart but we get along great and I love him to death. Over the years my brother has been with a few girls and I've always got along with them. But his new girlfriend (he live with her at her moms house because we moved and there was no room) but anyways we dont get along I mean I try to like her but shes a bitch to me and my friends. My best friend shes like my sister she considers mty bro her bro and my bros girlfriend is always a bitch when shes around. She is very stuck up and im afraid my brother is going to be with her for a long time.......What should I do I want to like her but I cant.
Dont say im jelous or protective of my bro because no matter what ill be happy for him. HELP!!

talk to him about her...tell him how you feel about her...he'll understand...and if he was really a caring brother then he would take your side

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me and my bf just broke up.. he doesnt wnt to ruin the friendship we had before.. is there anything i can do in the future if ever we do want to get back together that will make him want to stay with me even though it could mess up our friendship?

its best if you dont get back together unless you really do care for each other cuz otherwise yall gonna break up after a lil while and your friendship wont be there anymore...rate please!..feedback is greatly appreciated

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Okay kiddos...this probley sounds really lame...but There is this guy and he is a grade below me....well ne ways me and him talkled on the fun Frday and Saturday last weekend and we say hi to each other at school....well ne ways his friends keep asking me if I like him and i was like yea...and then he and i were talking and he said he wants to get to know me better....but i want to know if i should ask him out or not!! HELP!

he's prolly planning on asking you out....dont ask him out....girls do that all the time and seriously...i think it makes girls seem desperate

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I dont know if this is the right cateorgory but w/e. Ok well let me put it this way my classmates most of them are jerks. Well see the thin is i am smart like really smart and my classmates make fun of me for it because i get all 100% on my tests and quizzes. and they also hate the fact that when we have a huge test and we have to write stuff down i dont take notes because i rember it all and then i get higher grades then the people that wrote it all down. so i guess what i am asking is how can i get my class to stop annoying and makin fun of me because i am so smart.

tell them to kiss your ass...its not your fault theyre stupid as hell and your jus smart

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ok me and my boyfriend recently broke up..it was really hard because of rumors..anyways theres this guy name bradley and well im starting to like him. hes been holding my hand and stuff and me him and my friend were walkin to gym and i had grabbed his wrist to show him this girl and he slid his hand and we ended up lockin hands and he started rubbing my hand.im so confused because 1.this guy named lets call him joe is supposed to ask me out because he wants a girlfriend 2-because bradley can be known as a player sorta and 3- because i still love my boyfriend.what should i do?

well if "joe" is askin you out just cuz he wants a gf then that relationship isnt worth trying...of course you still love your bf..its always hard to get over them right away....and bradley i cant really help you with...if hes a player then he might just be in it for somethin and i dont mean love...but if you like him then try it out, but i cant say you wont end up bein hurt again

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I'm completely lost. This boy that I sorta like, likes me (I think). We were in a chat room on AIM and he started saying these weird things and then I got the picture that I think he likes me. But when I asked him he said no (he did't want to tell me right away) and I stupidly said good. I always mess up my love. What's wrong with me? How can I end this before it started. He thinks I like him also, which is kinda good kinda bad. I'm just afarid of what I have done. Can I say myself before I mess up again?

well..its kinda stupid to ask a boy if he likes you yourself...you shouldve had one of your friends do it...or one of his friends..that woulda been better....cuz hed tell the truth then...but when you like someone and you think they like you back...jus remember...DONT ask them yourself..have one of HIS friends ask

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