me and my bf just broke up.. he doesnt wnt to ruin the friendship we had before.. is there anything i can do in the future if ever we do want to get back together that will make him want to stay with me even though it could mess up our friendship?
MiZzAdViCe16 answered Friday February 25 2005, 2:46 pm: just say to him if you are ready we can get back together but if this is gonna ruin our friendship then lets just stay really good friends (that is what you can say if you guys have feelings for each otehr)
BabiiD answered Friday February 25 2005, 1:28 pm: Girl, I think you should be a good friend to him and hopefully he will take you back, but even if he dosn't, you'll still be really close friends and that can be a good thing too.
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Courtney answered Friday February 25 2005, 1:06 pm: Try to be there for him as any friend would do for him . Don't try to focus on being with him in the future because you need to worry about the present . And right now you really want to focus all your attentions on being his friends . Try to really and extremely devote yourself to being just friends for right now . AND Just For right now . I hope I was some help and I wish you good luck . Thanx [ Courtney's advice column | Ask Courtney A Question ]
Karen answered Friday February 25 2005, 12:31 pm: You need to find out why you two broke up and once you do, try not doing that in the future and that will make this guy want to stay with you. If you two broke up, then it means that your relationship with this guy couldn't work out but if you ever do get a chance to start a relationship with him, don't say or do anything that caused you to break up the first time.
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FunkyHoMoSapien answered Friday February 25 2005, 12:24 pm: umm... idk i guess you could find out why you two broke up and avoid doin that. and if you both go out when you are both really good friends with strong feelings yoor relationship should last longer. [ FunkyHoMoSapien's advice column | Ask FunkyHoMoSapien A Question ]
ImHere4u answered Friday February 25 2005, 12:21 pm: I really don't think theres anything anyone can do to be a better girlfriend. You know if a relationship feels right for you all. Maybe he felt it didn't? and personally, I thynk thats really respectful to not want to ruin a friendship feeling something will go wrong. What's meant to be will happen so just focus for now on being friends.
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