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welp i consider mahself to be perty outgoin n easy to get along wit at times...as long as u dont put me down or put down things i believe in...we will usually get along...alot of ppl come to me n ask me for advie n most likely i can help anyone out....i havent failed yet lol n hopefully i never do...one of these days i hope to make a wonderful career outta helping people with any problems they have

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ok well i like this person and this person likes me too but befor we admitted it we where good friends and we still are..and if this person is gonna ask me out i wanna say yes but what if we brake up i dont whant us to loose our freindship...so should i say yes?what should i do?help!ill rate you for this!

you should say yes but talk to he/she bout it and tell em if u break up u wanna be the best of friends u was before....tell em u dont want nothin to change...dont worry so much bout loosin ur friendship becuz most likely if u guys r close now as friends..if u break up u will still be close...good luck

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ok well i like someone alot and that person likes me alot too, i wanna ask the person out but everybody tells me not to that i should wait for the person to ask me...should i just ask the person or should i wait? cuz it does seem like the person is gonna ask me...what should i do?

u should ask em out if they dont in the next few days or before...becuz think bout it...if u dont...that person could find someone else new....and im sure ya dont want that to happen...

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what's a good way to make friends?

just be urself...have fun...make jokes(that r funny) be nice...talk to ppl u think u might have alot in common wit....things like that..n dont backstab!

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Do you think my brother's gay? He got caught looking at male porn once and hasn't had a girlfriend.. he's 23..

um ya probably...either that...or hes just a realllly shyyy guy lol...but theres nothin wrong wit gay ppl...i got alot of guy friends that r gay...n there really cool

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I found out that my Dad looks at porn.. and I think my mom knows too.. my brothers know too.. what should I do? Is this wrong?

lol nothin wrong wit it...mah friends dad does to!...its kinda weird to think bout ur dad lookin at stuff like that but u cant make him stop so lol..just hope u never see him!

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Mi B/f is So0 hoTt n a ToN oF gUrLz lyKe Him..
iM sCaReD heZ gOnnA dUmP mE
HoW cAn I mAkE sUre ThaT He Is/IsNt!?!

i know how u feel...like everytime i turn around some girl is checkin him out and it pisses me off...but all u can really do is ask him....be like "ur hott and all these girls like u but i love u/like u alot(which ever u perfer) and i dont wanna loose u...ur gonna dump me for one of them are u?" and tell him if he likes u/loves u as much as he says he does....that he will be straight out honest wif u....hope i helped..good luck!

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My friend is always saying the word bobadee to me. anyone know what it means? thanx
xoxo moofies megan

hmm no clue...why dont ya ask em what it means?

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me an my girl wen tout for a while and i really found out that i do love her , she just never wants to open up to me or act like she trully loves me and everyone says she does but i dont know what to do so we took some time apart i asked for it so we could get things figured out and i love her but what should i do ?

just sit down wit her and tell her that u do love her soooooo much and u cant depend on what other ppl havet to say of what u feel...u wanna hear what she haste to say even if she doesnt know exactly the right words to say...u just wanna hear it from her...because ur relationship depends on it

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ok. Me and my ex were back to dating, trying to see if we would get together again. We have been on and off for 7 months but a few days ago have officially ended things. I guess love is not enough to make it work but I'm ready to move on, don't get me wrong I LOVE HIM but i NEED to move on. ok. now here's my dilema:
In order for me to move on I need to forget him EVERYTHING(because i can live off the memories) but I don't really want to forget the past because what we had was beautiful. Can I remember what we had (as just that) and still really move on?
PS: the thing is we do have feelings for each other, we care about each other but as bf and gf we don't work. we can't be friends so pretty much i don't want to forget him because our memories is the only thing we have left. we love each other so its too painful to be friends. advice.

u can stay friends and u can still have the awesome memories..as long as u dont bring up the bad ones wit the good ones...u guys will be fine...dont stress it so much and dont worry obut the "feelins u still have for each other"...

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What is your view on long distance relationships? I started one today.. and I am nervous because I've heard both positive and negative things about them...

there okay to a point...i did one for 2 years...but it really sucks...i missed the hugs n kisses n just everythin that went along wif a reg relationship and we both ended up cheatin on each other....some work out...some dont...just gotta have the right person for it

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ok..heres my thing you guys...

*my best friend lost her virginity last year and alot of people consider her a whore now :(
but anyways...my boyfriend wants me n him to lose ours now for our 1 year anniversary hes 16 and im 14...i really dont know if i should becuz i dont wana be considered a whore or nething like what happened to my friend....please help me in doin the right thing!!
signed,i honestly dont know what to do

ur only 14 and u should wait becuz i did the same thing...n i regredted it soooooo much..cuz a few weeks after me n mah boyfriend broke up....basically hes just takin advantage of u cuz ur younger...dont let him becuz sex is suppost to be wit someone u love..he may say he loves u..but in reality...he wants sex...dont do it...

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my boy friend is a really kool person and great bf. he calls me and pays attention to me and stuff but im so over him... im just not interested anymore. i want to dumb him.. how can i do it nicely?

maybe u shouldnt dump him...think bout it...nice guys dont come along to often...maybe u should try n spicen up the relationship some more? but if u really wanna dump him...just tell him...straight out...u dont feel the same way anymore and instead of leadin him on longer u wanted to tell him...cuz u care bout him that much

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my boy friend cheated on me. should i dump him? hes really srry and i really like him but i dont think he should get away with it

no guy is ever sry for cheatin on someone...i mean really...he shoulda thought bout it before he did it...did it once..he will do it again

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that is exactly how i see it, we were close b4 and i know how she is and how she see's life she thinks everything is about her and i never had a problem with it until she did it to me, the only problem is our side of the family is close and she is always around she was just over the other night and i tried to ignore her cuz the whole time she was on the phone with the guy, it made me mad but i made it seem as if i didn't care, its not like i can just stop being her cousin u know what i mean??? thanks for the advice but can u help me again?? lol

ya that is tough...ya just needa tell her...be like "the world isnt revovled around u..even though ur small lil brain thinks it is..u can sit and talk to this guy but really if u think its effectin me...its not..i just wnat u to know that before u waste anymore of ur "so precious time" and if u really thought bout it...ur revovlin ur world around me by tryin to compete wit me...if the world revovled around u...u wouldnt have compete wit ppl..just remeber that!"

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Okay Im almost 15....a little over 3 years ago i met this guy...we went out fer a few months but then i had heard that while i was on vaca he had cheated on me with this other girl....i dumped him...he denied it all...then we went out again...and we went out for about a month...then i had dumped him because tha school year was about over and i had also found out that he was playing me with one of my freinds. Then tha next school year i didnt talk to him at all. He only stayed at my school for about 3 weeks n then moved. I was sooooo happy!! but i was bff's with his cousin and she had persued me to write him a lil note tha day he left. Then about 2 weeks after he left he called me..we talked for a few hours...but then i had gotten mad at him bc i think he was being a jerk to me online. Then tha summer before...8th grade i started talking to him and we became REALLY close. we went out but only for a week or two bc we were going out behind my parents backs bc i didnt want them to know i was seeing him again bc they didnt like him bc of what had happened b4...well later i told my mom everything and how he had "changed" and we went out for about a month or so...but then we broke up bc things just werent going good...our timing has always been wrong..but now...this summer my summer b4 ninth grade we have gotten really close. We talk all tha time online n on tha phone...we flirt n yeah. Its soo nice bc today he told me that he missed me n that he really wanted to be with me. He said he really wanted to work things out n us to be together. I'm suppose to go to his house tomarrow but im not sure if he really wants to be with me n has changed this time or if he just wants me for sex. The problem is we r both going to tha same highschool. So chances are i will see him around. And i am TOTALY crazy for him. What should I do??Plzzzz help im soo into him but im not sure if hes real!!! Thanx lots of luv*

first off..no guy ever changes for anyone...guys r pigs...plan n simple...most likely u will date again n break up and it will be that way all through high school cuz u wont know how to stop likin him...ya needa get over him..if u dont want him to hurt u...otherwise u might as well just give him ur heart now and let him break it

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i like this boy..alot...buttttt i dunno if he likes me..and i DONT WANT TO ASK HIM but back in middle schooll he alwayz flirted wit mme an all but now i dont know noo mo..r u gonna help or what?

well how u gonna know if u dont ask? u just gotta do ur best and talk to him...if u dont...ur never gonna know

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im 15 and a female! ok i went out with this guy about a year and a half ago and i made a big mistake (whole other story) and since the day we broke up i have had a major crush on him and EVERYBODY knew it cuz i have a big mouth and i don't keep it shut lol and well me and my cousin are very close or at least we were. she never met this guy untill a few months ago but she knew i would do anything to go back out with him. even though she was aware of this she still went on with her usual ways of flirting with him. this made me furious, but after about a month she forgot all about him. then one day i invited her to a party with me where i knew he was going to be there not thinking of the conciquences! she was all over him and it made me soooo angry. NOw they talk on the phone all the time i mean they don't even live in the same state! she told me that she wasn't even interested in dating him cuz she doesn't date guys out of state! so i am confused she is constantly calling me asking me to go places with them but i am not up for all that junk i don't want to sit there while they flirt. i think she might be doing this to be mean. but im not sure, i am now over this guy but it still P's me off to know that she is getting the attention of the guy i once dreamed of! please help cuz i really am confused about what i should do about the whole thing!

well first off...u needa just stop talkin to her..the more u talk to her the more she knows how to make u mad and she feeds offa that...she seems to love to shove in ur face that she can get the guy u wanted and u couldnt get him back....dont let her do that...dont let her see how much it effects u

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ok me and my bestfriend get in alot of fights but we dont wana be seperated and i dont no wat to do

ya should just take some time apart from each other...u might be spendin to much time together

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I seriously think I might have a problem. I'm goign otu witht his boy and I totally love him. I know I do. The only problem is, once guys start likign me alot and really falling for me I start ebcomign a total bitch. I'll say things on purpose to piss them off or to get them upset. I can't understand why. This isnt the only relation ive been in. Ive been in one for about a year before too and i did the same thing. I'm 18 too. any ideas why this is happening? its kidna like i cant stop either. im starting to think im evil or sumthing.

lol i do the same thing to...n idk why either...but i guess ilove the attention of guys...and i just try n press em to see how long or how much they will take and then when they finally hadda enough we break up..n then i find someone new...but still i have them on me cuz they loved me that much....so i know i always have someone to fall back on...ur not evil....lol

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What is the best cd made from KISS?

im not sure...they have alot..

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