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help!!
ok..heres my thing you guys...
*my best friend lost her virginity last year and alot of people consider her a whore now :(
but anyways...my boyfriend wants me n him to lose ours now for our 1 year anniversary hes 16 and im 14...i really dont know if i should becuz i dont wana be considered a whore or nething like what happened to my friend....please help me in doin the right thing!!
signed,i honestly dont know what to do
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if your not ready for the responsbilities of sex and ur havin doubts about it then ur not readii..but you have been together for a while and u sound committed..but its all on you i don't think you would be considered a whore..well i wouldnt consider you a whore anyway ..haha xO-- cOurt
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Just bc u lose ur virginity doesnt mean ur a whore!! LoL
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You say you honestly don't know what to do, but the only answer is to be honest with yourself. If you are not ready to have sex, if any doubts exist in your mind, then you probably should not be considering having sex.
If you've been with your boyfriend for a year, then you must be pretty close. There are plenty of other romantic and special ways to spend an anniversary, but you need to make up your mind before you are in that situation.
Make your decision, and then talk about it with your boyfriend.
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DONT! if the only reason u dont wanna do is because u dont wanna be called a whore, rather than u dont wanna do it cuz U dont want to; then u wouldnt be doing it for the right reasons if u did. If u did i believe ud be doing it for him not u! i hope u make the right choice!
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hello,do wat u think is right for u and him well see..they called ur friend a whore and if anyone finds out they will get da wrong idea and there mite be like a person that will think its wrong and tell everyone and u will be considered a hoe u kno but its ur choice no one elses!
buh bye
bubbles
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HEY THIS NAQUIA
TELL HIM NO YOU ARE TO YOUNG AND GIVE YOURSELF TIME DON'T RUSH INTO IT . TRY BEING WITH SOMEONE YOUR AGE 16 IS TO OLD FOR YOU .
PEACE NAQUIA
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Don't have sex if there is even the slightest doubt about any of the consequences, especially if you're 14. Don't take the age thing as any discrimination, because hey, I'm only a year older then you.
A friend of mine lost her virginity to a guy after they dated for a year, thinking they were in love. Now they never talk and she regrets it. Moral of the story, if there is any doubt, tell him you aren;t ready and if he has a problem with it, he can find someone else.
I won't even get into the, it's illegal for you two to have sex thing.
Good luck.
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i personaly think that you are a little too young to but if you want to and you think you are ready you should, but it sounds to me that you might be a little nervous. if you boyfriend really loves you he will wait untill you are ready...i hopt i helped! -Andrea
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If your this worried then you might not be ready.
You need to talk to your boyfriend, tell him all of your worries and see how he feels about that. You shouldn't listen to what people say, those people are assholes and don't know what they're talking about. One day you will understand that you don't need to worry about what other people think about you and you only need to worry about what you think about youself. If you think your a good person, then that's all that matters.
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i think that u r a little young but if u think u r ready then go 4 it and dont worry what people say. and if he loves u he will wait until u ready!! so i guess u should just go with ur heart.
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well... i would say NO! thats way to young, sry but u wouldnt want to be the whore? i dont think like that one like hour or so is worth everyone callin u that, just tell ur bf u want to wait.. hope i helped... <3
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It's prolly best (especially since u have ur doubts) not 2 have sex now. Both u and ur boyfriend are still young, and (no 2 be mean) but most likely one or the other of u is going 2 get hurt, and u don't wanna regret the whole experience in the future. If ur boyfriend truely loves you and respects u then he will be fine w/ it if u tell him "no" 2 having sex. Good luck!!
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sex is not something to play around with. you should not give up your virginity until you feel you are ready to do so. he does not respect you if he keeps bugging you about it. a good boyfriend should never pressure their girlfriend. hope i helped! -jMe
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14 is awfully young to be getting involved in a sexual relationship and all that comes with it.Plus,the fact that you are hesitant and are questioning it,shows that you aren't ready yet.When you're ready,you will feel it,and I don't just mean you'll be all hot n' bothered!I mean you will feel it inside that this is the right guy,the right time,the right thing to do.You don't wanna rush those kinda things,they should be special.Especially your first time,because,you can't get another first time!!!And any guy that can't respect that,isn't worth the time of day,much less your body,heart & soul!!
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dont. your obviously NOT sure about this. and what if your mom found out? i mean cum on. obviously your best friend and you werent the only people to know. think about your future and how doing this will effect it.
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If you don;t want to have sex, then don't have sex. Don't worry about what othger people will think.
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well i honestly dont know what to do...
I would never have sex at youre age but thats ure decision...
I also think if that is what you and ure b/f really want then you should not care what anyone thinks...as long as you know u arnt one then that is all that matters!
Blake08$
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ur only 14 and u should wait becuz i did the same thing...n i regredted it soooooo much..cuz a few weeks after me n mah boyfriend broke up....basically hes just takin advantage of u cuz ur younger...dont let him becuz sex is suppost to be wit someone u love..he may say he loves u..but in reality...he wants sex...dont do it...
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I think you should consider sex abstinance. Your too young to be having sex, if he's pressuring you for it, I think you need to think twice about who your are with. He should force you to do anything you don't want to, And I am telling you cause I see this all the time, SEX get's you NO WHERE IN LIFE, but babies... but I jux wanna say, keep your virginity and wait till you get older. Get your education first! And I promise you will get a lot further in life. I am 16 yrs old, and still a virgin and proud of it. Don't do anything you don't want to, and if he pullz this stunt "EVERYONE IS DOING IT!!!!" Kick him in hiz neckbone! Lol, J/K, but I hope this helps! I hope you make the right decision, and God Bless! K.I.T! And good luck! ;) Beebyes! ~1ne~
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Well... yer sexual life is no one elses buizness... and if you want to do it be my guest.. but it hurts a lot.. and you have to remember to have safe sex (a condom) and if you wnana be extra careful get the pill... and u can always tell him to promise you that he wouldnt tell ne one... if you arnt ready tell him how u feel... if hes a great guy he will understand... if not... why date a pervert whos only gunna have you for sex? the same thing happened to me except i was 15 and he was 16 i told him how i felt and it all went fine.. but every guy is different.. soo.. think about what could happen
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