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**NiCkNaMe** **TuTu,SaRaBeAr,[theres more]
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**ThInGz** ThE rAiN, MuSiC, WaLkZ, LaTe NiGhT TaLkZ, RoEsz, BoOkZ, ThErEz MoRe!!
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1. BaCkPaCk ThRoUgh EuRoPe
2. ChAnGe SoMeOnEs LiFe, BiG oR SmAlL
3. DaNcE PrO.
**FaV pOeMz**
Every girl wants Prince Charming...and while he may be nice and all...I'm thinking that I'd rather have the guy that's gonna call at 4am just to say hi, or someone who'll stop by my house- after just hanging up the phone- because he wants to see how I'm REALLY doing. Because I said I was fine, but we both know I'm lying. Or the guy who'll stay home on a Saturday night with me because I'm sick and bring me my favorite kind of candy...even though I can't eat it because my stomach flips at the idea. That guy- that one guy...he may not be Prince Charming to anyone else...but he'd be my hero. My "knight in shining armor." Anyone who'd rather stay home on a Saturday night and hold my hair back while I puke...that's a hero...
What is cute, cute is young and inexperienced, cute is holding hands in the car and kissing at the red lights,what is sexy, sexy is standing in the rain as you push me up against the hood of your car, tearing my shirt as you kiss me with the intent to never stop; what is passion, passion is knowing what you want and stopping at nothing til you get it; what is beautiful, beautiful is about the inside of a person, beauty can only be found in the heart, passion is putting your heart in what you do, what is love, love is the amazing balance of all these things on your mind, heart, body and soul.
PeOpLe HaVe AlWaYs ToLd Me I WaS gOoD aT GiViNg AdViCe BuT iDk...HoW aBoUt YoU tElL mE!!
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I think im addicted to cutting.... and i like it but i want to stop.... how do i stop? (My parents know and im not talking to a damn physcologist)
~Kele~ (link)
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think about why you did it in the first place...well my friend was really bad N they took every sharp thing out of her house...plz dont get that bad! and remember the damn phycscologist cant tell your parents anything thats the law unless its like drugs or somthing like that...maybe talk with one of ur friends about it N if u get the urge take somethink N cuz like a pillow or cardbored or somthing to take it out on...here are some places you can call to help you out.. and a site to go to!! National Crisis Help Line: 1-800-233-4357
Hotline for Teens who Cut: 1-800-366-8288
http://www.palace.net/~llama/psych/injury.html
http://www.shatteredinnocents.com/self_injury.html I hope i helped!! XoXo Sara Ask anything!!
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ok , can you die from drinking soda a lot of times!!!??? omg im so scared . please help me!! (link)
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you cant die for pop u just may gain a few lbs. XoXo Sara
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Ok I know this is wrong but Ive gotta ask!!!
My friend hes like a brow to me!! But my bestfriend goes out w/ him!! NOw shes being all weird and like if shes cheating! She doesnt deserve him but I really really like him like you have no clue!! He is so my type but I have the worst fear of regection! Plus I told mybest friend Id never go w/ him after they broke up. which seems like its coming soon. I cant get him out of my head and hes driving me crazy!!!!!! what do I do????
Live2luvu (link)
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i think that if you talk it over with your firend a little bit after they brake up >>dont do it right after it will seem mean
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im gonna be a freshman next year and im really afraid im not gonna fit in. see i have plenty of friends now but i worked pretty hard to get and keep them. im... different to say the least and a lot of people dont get me and now it feels like i have to start all over again to find friends. and frankly, im not sure how. im kinda anti-social in a way... i dont like people on a whole lol cause they're stupid... but i do like meeting new people and i would really like to make some new friends (link)
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there are tons of people just like you! they are all over high school and if ur lucky u will have lunch or classes with your other friends...in class u will almost HAVE to talk to people for one reason or anyother soo just look for people that seem like they like the same things as you...im your same age but i guess im a "prep" if you wanna put me in a group...but if u have a list of your classes and stuff call people up talk to them on the net and see if anyone even people you dont totally get along with hve classes with you...u will know maybe one person!! aand live up summer!!! hope i helped XoXo Sara
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i have this friend, closely resemblance to Marshall Mathers, low life. A couple years back my friend opened his heart to my other friends mother. At that point in time we didnt know that she would be having an affair with a 13 year old. They even did sexual things in public places. Now that we have found out we ask him cause we are horn dogs. But should we be congraulating him, or cutting him down. I think its tight cause he hit that shit, but she is 20 years older then him. Which one is the sick bastard? (link)
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Okay think of it this way...his doing that with your mom?? thats gross i mean doing the whole stacys moms thing and doing her is totally gross!! talk to him N all N her she has problems!!! XoXo Sara
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alright, you might all think i'm crazy but don't judge me CAUSE YOU DONT KNOW ME! anyway..sorry but umm i'm 8 months pregnant and no one knows, not my parents, not my friends- no one...i've been able to hide it pretty well with baggy clothes and the fact that i'm a little big as it is naturally..since it's getting pretty close to my due date- and i havent seen a doctor once, yet...does anyone have ANY advice..please i'm in desperate need...and i'm really scared...i don't live at home beacuse my dad used to beat me and my mom was having an affair..so i moved out and i live with a friend..im 15 but my friend is 19..and he's not really good with this stuff..please help me ! (link)
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alright just find someone to take you to the doctor and set things up like who you want to be in the room...if you dont want alot of people to know then just tell your close friends and just do all that stuff...dose the dad know?? i hope the best for you and your baby!!! XoXo Sara
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How do you get ur hair to look wavey and a little curly with gel or other products...when I try it with gel it just makes spiral curls and I don't like it!! =/ (link)
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allright depending on you try of hair put some sort of styleing product in and scrunch it let it dry half way then put your blow dryer on low N cool...nd dry it the rest of the way...them get a 2 inch curling iorn and fix up teh parts that didnt work or if you have yout hair strait N dry and take a 2 inch curling iorn and spirl it and it will come out wavy...for both thing run your fingers throught your hair to brake it up more...hope it works...XoXo Sara
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i straghten my hair with a CHI straightener (which is one of the best and really expensive ones) but i can never get my ends totally straight they always curl a lil bit...i was wondering if anyone knew something i cud do or something i cud put in it that would help...
thnxxx!!! (link)
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well if you have split ends make get a trim that could help but other wise that its gonna curl a little bit at the end out ot in! i know cuz straighten my hair ever day!! XoXo Sara
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I just called my boyfriend and he's moving! I know I'm only 11 but I really like him. I've known him for a while and we just started going out a few months ago. We're not breaking up but I don't know. Will the relationship work out? He's got my # and he said he'd call me that way I can get his number when he moves. I know I could write him and maybe, if my parents would let me, visit him in the summer. But what do you guys think? (link)
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Okay well my best friend went throught some hard stuff with some with this just dont think that its gonna last foreva!! i dont want you to get hurt like my friend did!!! just stay alert!! XoXo Sara
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ok im 16 me n my boyfriend who is 17 have been going out for just over 2 weeks now.. everytime i think about him i get sweaty palms.. and all i can do is smile.. i feel like the only thing that could hurt me is him leaving me and i get all teary just thinking about it... am i falling to hard to fast?? i really think that im falling in love with him but ive seen so many of my friends go through the same thing and get hurt so im afraid to really open up.. am i being to guarded? should i end things before it gets too serious?? (link)
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well if your falling theres almost nothing you can do because thats life and you are gonna have to go through some hard times...remember you have to hurt in order to grow!!!! i hope everytihng works out in your favor!! XoXo sara
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Ok so theres a guy I met like last year and I was actually 14 then. I met him when he was down on vacaion. We tried to make it work but it didn't because he never moved down because his dad found a job up there. I still know his AIM/Email. Should I try to contact him? What should I say? This sounds crazy but I think about him all the time and love him sooo much. I'm sure the love is strong enough the distance now wouldn't be a issue. What should I do?
Signed,
Sad and confused!
15/Female (link)
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alright...well IM him or E-mail him N start talking to him again if you think abotu him liek that maybe theres a chance he feels the same...just start talking again and stuff dont rush anything tho!...and if it dosent work out then theres always someone else!! XoXo Sara
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i need to no how u find a boyfriend...help me asap.
thxx (link)
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its not like shopping...totally...just if u are attracted to a guy get to know him...and dont try to hard if he dosent like you theres someone out there that dose...and talk to them it will make them notice you...XoXo Sara
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Ok the thing that she was using him for was that we are both going to high schools in north philly but NOT the same school. She was using him because I don't know my way and she needs him to like be my body gaurd or something like that! (link)
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Oh i see thankx....im sorry, thats really unfair N stuff...
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There's this guy that I really like and I don't know what to do because I'm shy and don't even really talk to him but I like him soo much..Any suggestions on how to become closer to him? (link)
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alright i know its gonna be hard but u have to over come your shyness a bit..not al thte way, maybe bump into him in the hall...start by smiling, hi if u have a class or say u dont understand somthing find out whats hes into [music, hobbies, oppinions] bring them up if u like or agree with them..but dont change for him...never change for a guy unless its a flaw...i hope i helped...>>Sara
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ya maybe we could travel together lol. where in europe do u wanna travel. have you got a emil addy (link)
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um..not likely..everywhere really...
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Hey, i like this boy and i have like him on and off for about 3 years. he said he liked me twice, but they were at different times. but i didnt do anything about it. and now i like him alot and he doesnt know, i dont want to tell him because it would be really weird..and he would most likely take adavantage of me liking him. so what should i do? (link)
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okay..well if you like him this much i say tell him, i know that there could be a bad outcome but there could also be a good one, things may be weird but you guys can work throught that, and about the taking advantage of you, dont let him...guys that do that arent worth anyones time!! If ya got any more questins u know where to ask! Sara
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i like this girl, and she says shs likes me. we went out before but we broke up, she lied to me for the reason why but then i got the truth. i was mad at her for lieng to me andi didnt know what to do. so i didnt takl to her for a while. then she cdecided that she needed to talk, she said that she regreted breking up with me and she wanted me to take her back, but at the time i couldnt.
about a month ltr (now) i was hanging out with this girl and we were hugging and hanging out but i couldnt take it i had a wierd feeling. and then the girl popped into my head and i couldnt stop thinking of her. i rushed to her house and talked for a while then she let me come in side.i told her everything.we then started acting like nothing happened, we were friends again, and i was fine with that. then we started messing around i guess u call it flirting and we started to kiss. we kissed for a good time. but then my mom calls yelling at me to get home so i rush out.
the next day i asked her out and she said no, we taslked about it ltr that day but she didnt talk back, she said that i had bad timeing...
i want to go out with her and her best friend says that she feels really stong for me and she wants the same what should i do to correct what has happened... how do i winner her back? (link)
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Alright, well from what u have told me u guys seem like you can talk to eachother and thats very good! just keep talking to her flirting saying sweet things...[dont over do it] if she has stong feelings for you like her best friend said she did then somthing that u dont know about it maybe going on, do u know what she means by bad timeing?? ask if not...just dont give up!!...hope i helped!!! u know where to ask if u got any questions...Sara
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i just had sex with my dad and i'm afraid that he got me pregnent..what the hell do i do! i'm so scared. is it possible for my dad to get me pregnent (link)
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OhmiGOD garrett...ur soo stupid! i swear!
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okay well...my mom and dad got a divorce a few years ago..so i have to go back and forth like..one week i'll be with my mom and the next i'll be with my dad..but i cant stand my dad and his new girlfriend..personally i think he deserves better than her but what do i know i'm only 14...okay well..how do i tell my dad that i dont want to go over there anymore because he changed and i dont like his girlfriend? (link)
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alright, well...my parents got divorced a few years ago too, if you think ur dad deserves better that i bet he dose, who knows him better than you, and u know alot at the age of 14! i tihnk this is gonna sounds stupid but talk to him tell him that u dont like his girlfriend, keep going over there i mean he still is your dad after all, i know i should be talking in this situation but still....i hope i helped ya out!!
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Well ive been hurt a lot of times with guys, and i dont trust very easily. i dont usually stay with a guy very long anymore bekuz of it. i just met this guy, Cody, and i love everythin about him! hes amazing, ugh i duno what to do though. im scared, i feel like i like him to much that i shouldnt be with him or ill get hurt.... but its like should i trust him or no?? if i do and he hurts me again i dont kno what i would do, but i dont know if i should miss out on this love experiance i could have... i dont kno what to do?!? (link)
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Alright...well see everytime you get hurt you seem to grow, you learn what went wrong and im thinking that u cant see any of the little hints wit this guy, well i think that there is a mr. right for everyone out there...everytime that you get a "mr. wrong" he will just [even if he hurts you] will make you stronger and know for sure when the "mr. right] comes along knocking at your window! i dont think that u could be toolder than me if u are, soo i mean u still have time...dont settle down to fast! alright i hope i helped! and if anything dose happen just girl one of ur girfriends a call N do a "girls night out" thing
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