Hey duuudes im 14 years old an im an outgoin kind of person and im a goofball and i dont really take n e thing seriously.. i luv rap and hip hop and a lil bit of punk rock but not a lot.. im a tomboy and i play sports, and im not into the whole girly girl thing but ya. I dont take n e shit from ne one and i am who i am an if u dont like it o well then :/
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My best friend of 9 years is trying to hook up with my ex-boyfriend, who is my best friend, WHO i had sex with. She acts like theres nothing wrong with it, but it bothers me. When i tell her, she just calls me drama and starts cussing me out. Do I have a reason to be upset? I feel awful! (link)
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i can understand that you get upset but sometimes you have to forget the past and move on you know what i mean? and you should not let her cuss you out you should just not take any crap from her and start cussin her out to it might finally get her to shut up.. but since hes ur ex u should move on and just let her hook up with him but if the break up was long ago you should let it go but if it was very recent then its a problem
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I'm a 15 yr. old guy and I've recently realized I like one of my best girl friends (Let's call her Rachel). She's a really nice girl-and at one of my friends parties last week, I told my other best friend that I liked Rachel, but I thought she liked someone else at the party (Let's call him Jamie). My friend wasn't sure, and she told me that she wouldn't tell Rachel or anyone else. I've been talking to her a lot on AIM, and I like her even more- but I'm not sure if I should make a move and ask her out, I'm afraid that my heart will be broken once again (already broken thrice by my friend I talked to at the party). Please help!
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well i kinda know what your goin thro because im going through the same thing with on of my best guy friends and i dont know if i should tell him or not... but any way the best thing would be just to come out and tell her how you fell about her and just say hey Rachel i wanted to tell you that i like you not just as a friend but more than a friend and if you dont feel the same way i would still like for us to be friends.. and ya man go for it make a move you just might get lucky hope she likes u back good luck dude
hope everything works out
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What are some good songs about best friends? (link)
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the song "what about your friends" by TLC is a really good song about friends.. its mad old but its pretty tight
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ive been sore a lot of times before
but this soreness i cant take
its in my arms
and my arms i do alot with
and i hurts to move them sometime
is there anyway i can help it
or treat it?! (link)
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well since ur arm hurts u really souldnt do anything with them because they will just hurt even more.. but make sure you stretch your arms really good before you workout
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How do you know if someone is a true friend? (link)
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the only way you can tell if someone is your true friend if they are there for you no matter what happenes if your in a jam they will help thats how you can tell if people are your true friends
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I have a friend that is so wrapped in herself and shes the friend that i feel like i can go to with anything, but all she cares about is herself and shes spoiled in getting her way. i don't want to give up the friendship. so, what do i do??? (link)
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That just goes to show that shes a conceited person and u dont need a friend like that who doesnt really care about n e thing but herself you should just tell her that you feel that you need a friend that cares about and not just themselfs and if she doesnt change you should take a little brake from her
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I am live with my dad in the ATL and my mom lives in Chi-town, I really want to go home with my mom, but my moms income didnt come yet her our apartment, so I think I have to stay here in atlanta, I dont want to stay here, I want my mommy. Living with my dad is horrible, i want my mommy. I have so much stress here with him, what should I do. I cant send my mom money for the apartment Im broke. HELP (link)
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Just be like dad i dont want to stay here i want to go home i miss home and i miss my mom and like if your dad has money convince him to send your mom some money so that you can go back home.. and just be honest with your dad and tell him this isnt my mom my heart and my real home is back with my mom and im happy there, im not happy here... but im sorry to hear about your mom not being able to afford to pay for her apartment.. but good luck
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okay well i have this 'friend' who was always nice to me to my face but always said stuff about me behind my back . we got into a fight that lasted about 2 months then she said she wants to be friends agian . my mom told me not to be friends with her becaause of waht she does because shes a back stabber! anways.. im sick of her doing that because she is only mean to me when shes with her friend and she will start fights with me . today [ like 10 minutes ago ] i gave her a piece of my mind and told her that she hurt me and what she does . ik what i did was right. idk what im relaly asking just i needed to tell that to someone . sorry♥ (link)
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since you just said she acts like that in front of her friends she just trying to show off in front of her friends and she thinks its cool and she just trying to act cute.. maybe shes acting like that because the people that shes talking to about you maybe do not like you and she probaly wants to be accepted by them so she pretends not to like you to and if i were you i would not be friends with her because if she cant be real instead of two faced then what the point of having her as a friend if shes just gonna stabb you in the back again.. you have other friends most likely better than her you dont need that so i would just ditch her
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I was logging on to my computer and my dad's screenname was on and i found some porn on his recent go-to sites. It made me really really mad. *&& said something about an escort [[yeah I know what that means]] it really hurts me. I want to confront him *&& my mom about it, but I know i'll get yelled at for my parents thinking i just went on his screenname at this time they wont believe me, because they recently grounded me from myspace. Please help me ! thank you (link)
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WOW what a thing to go on and see.. well if i were u i would just tell your dad straight up that u found porn on his screen name, not that you were snooping on is things its was that you were going on the computer and it was on, i know it will be hard to tell him that you know but the thing if you tell your mom your dad might lie about the whole thing saying that your lying.. but if you kinda think of it if you get proof that you can show your mom that he was on it, the next time your dad is mean to you or something or whatever, use that as blackmail..i know that may sound a little harsh but it might work.. but moreover just talk to your mom about and dont be scared just tell her what you saw and how you feel about it..
sorry if that wasnt good help but i hope it was
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my friend went to the public pool today
and while she was swimming her purse got stolen
it had her makeup, notes, and her house key.
what should she do since it has her house key
and if they know where she lives they could get it!!
help! (link)
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since the house key was stolen and just in case its someone that knows where she lives have her parents change the locks on the doors as soon as possible just in case
good luck
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Ok so I have stretch marks all over my stomach because I lost a TON of weight. They're all icky and black because I have darker skin and it's summer and I need to wear my new bikini.
Is there anything I can do because I worked so hard to lose all this weight and fit into my bikini and now I have stretch marks everywhere and they're really visible.
Do you also know a way to get rid of all the flab on my stomach. I have like extra skin over there and I've been doing stretches but I still have all that skin from where my fat used to be... help? (link)
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to get rid of your stretch marks get some coco butter or coco butter lotion and use it everyday in the places where you have the stretch marks.. coco butter make all kinds of scares go away and unwanted marks. its works pretty good..but im not really sure how to get rid of unwanted skin that you have from having extra baggage its kinda hard to get rid of that skin but i kno there is a way.. but i hope everything works out for u
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I have really dark brown hair, its almost black.
What color should I consider dying it?
Not blonde, I'm asian, & I really blah dont think thatd look too neat.
thanks.
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try a light brown color
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im really depressed and i take medication but still suicidal and i cut
i know cutting is bad and can kill you but i really want to stop
ive asked other people who have cutted but their advise wasnt so great
i just want to ask how can i stop?? (link)
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thats the kind of thing that you need to talk to your parents about and why you do it most of the time people do it just to do it and some do it because they are full of pain and have not other way to express their pain but just by cutting themselfs..i know that i might be hard to talk to your parents about it just try that.. also going to a theropist and talking about how you feel can also prevent you from doing it
i hope that was good advice
good luck
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I am always getting the hiccups. Always! Sometimes when I hiccup its only just once then i get them again and then its just once. Then at different times when i get the hiccups i get several and they dont go away for quite sometime. I know this sounds stupid.. but could this be a bad thing? (link)
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well i heard that getting the hicups means that your growing but im not even sure if thats even true.. but dont worry i know for sure its not a bad thing
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Hey my name is Rachel and iam a 17 year old girl and iam babysitting this child who's autistic and he left the house today without telling me what should I do if he does it again? (link)
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thats kinda a hard thing to explain to autistic kids that doing something is bad hmm try showing him/her the area in which the child left and point to it say its bad and that u should not go near there...
i know that might not be good advice but thats all i really can think of sorry bout that
good luck tho
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my skin WAS usually somewhat clear...i had some acne, but nothing bad. well, i decided to take care of the acne i had and get rid of it. my acne is just WORSE now. the products i have used recently are Nature's Cure for Females, over the counter benzoyl peroxide by neutrogena, and makeup by Lancome Paris to cover. I am not sure which one of these is the culprit? How can stuf thats supposed to get rid of acne be making me break out TONS...please give me some tips on a skin care regimen that WONT make me break out and that will help me clear up my acne!!! (link)
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You might of had an alergic reaction to them that could of been it.. and just asking do you eat chocolate? and if you do do you realize a mayjor breakout in the next days after eating it because in some people chocolate or junk food makes people break out in acne...Also perhaps seein a skin doctor i went to one and now my face has been clear try that it will work
good luck :)
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16/f.the other day i went on the elliptical for 30 minutes, (which i havent done in a while) its 3 days later and my arms are killing me! what are some ways i can stretch them out and help them feel better? (link)
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the best thing would just to relax them doing other exercises with sore mussells will just make it hurt even more
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I started at a highschool with no friends going with me. I have some great new friends, but sometimes i feel like they dont really like me as much as other times. I try to to stuff with them, and sometimes they will say that they're busy, and other times i'm not invieted to do stuff with them that i know is a group thing not just 2 people. What should i do to see whether they really like me and how should i try to be more included. ps i am a 14 year old girl (link)
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do this as a test to see if they are your real friends like just try not to be around them much and dont talk to them as much and stuff and like stay away from them and if they dont come to u and ask whats wrong or why your not talking to us then u will know that they are or are not your real friends
i hope it helps
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i need to get rid of my acne, quick. please help me. i know about pro active but is there anything i can use without buying stuff like creams. if not products are good too. at this point im desperate. anything will do. * automatic 5`s if you give me atleast 7 different ways to get rid of acne * (link)
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well if you want to get rid of acne you have no choice to use faceal pads or cream but try seeing a skin doctor and they will give you a perscription for your face trust me it works i went to one
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hey, i need some tips on learning how to do a split and/or straddle. i cant go that far down yet but is there anything i can do to get quick results?
i'd like as many advice comments as possible and i will rate very high. (link)
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when trying to do a split go down as far as you can and hold it there for about 30 sec or so and each day go down further and further each day then your mussels in your legs will untighen and you will be able to do a split
good luck hope that works
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