okay well i have this 'friend' who was always nice to me to my face but always said stuff about me behind my back . we got into a fight that lasted about 2 months then she said she wants to be friends agian . my mom told me not to be friends with her becaause of waht she does because shes a back stabber! anways.. im sick of her doing that because she is only mean to me when shes with her friend and she will start fights with me . today [ like 10 minutes ago ] i gave her a piece of my mind and told her that she hurt me and what she does . ik what i did was right. idk what im relaly asking just i needed to tell that to someone . sorry♥
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Friendship? Waza answered Tuesday July 18 2006, 1:57 pm: since you just said she acts like that in front of her friends she just trying to show off in front of her friends and she thinks its cool and she just trying to act cute.. maybe shes acting like that because the people that shes talking to about you maybe do not like you and she probaly wants to be accepted by them so she pretends not to like you to and if i were you i would not be friends with her because if she cant be real instead of two faced then what the point of having her as a friend if shes just gonna stabb you in the back again.. you have other friends most likely better than her you dont need that so i would just ditch her [ Waza's advice column | Ask Waza A Question ]
princesslindsey answered Tuesday July 18 2006, 2:19 am: i believe its always good to speak your mind. it was good to let her know how you feel. now, you'll feel better and she'll be concoius of it. try calmly talking to her and if all else fails, you need to drop the friendship-however hard it seems. [ princesslindsey's advice column | Ask princesslindsey A Question ]
Lucky answered Monday July 17 2006, 8:02 pm: I dont think that you should be friends with someone you would treat you like that. Dont be friends with her. cuz all she'll do is stab you in the back(again)!
B0YgimmeTHATx3 answered Monday July 17 2006, 6:53 pm: Honestly, yeah you shouldn't be her friend anymore. Don't tell her your business and don't talk to her about stuff or gossip to her or anything like that. To be honest, only keep her around if she can do stuff for you lol. Some people are your friends and you treat them as friends, and some people you can use to your advantage to get ahead, hustle 'em
At Least you stuck up for yourself. You should do that anyways whenever sometimes trying to get one over on you
Kali [ B0YgimmeTHATx3's advice column | Ask B0YgimmeTHATx3 A Question ]
Brandi_S answered Monday July 17 2006, 6:04 pm: First of, girls can be very wierd and very mean. I am sorry you are having to deal with this, because I know exactly what you are going through.
The only thing I can say is something you will maybe not like...
Your mom is right! You shouldn't be friends with a backstabber. If she is so two-faced, she's not really your friend, and doesn't deserve your friendship.
I'm glad you gave her a piece of your mind! That's good that you stuck up for yourself and your feelings. But don't subject yourself to people as low and thoughtless as a so-called "friend" who is kind to your face and cruel to your back. [ Brandi_S's advice column | Ask Brandi_S A Question ]
just_ask_me answered Monday July 17 2006, 5:57 pm: I'm not sure what question your asking or even if you are asking a question BUT good for you for telling her how you feel. She isn't a real friend and I hope you don't talk to her anymore. You deserve true people in your life, who won't talk about you behind your back no matter what. [ just_ask_me's advice column | Ask just_ask_me A Question ]
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