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my friend needs help
I have a friend that is so wrapped in herself and shes the friend that i feel like i can go to with anything, but all she cares about is herself and shes spoiled in getting her way. i don't want to give up the friendship. so, what do i do???
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That just goes to show that shes a conceited person and u dont need a friend like that who doesnt really care about n e thing but herself you should just tell her that you feel that you need a friend that cares about and not just themselfs and if she doesnt change you should take a little brake from her
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i have the same problem. i couldn't find out what to do so i talked to her about it. she seemed okay w/ it but she said that she has been to caught up w/ herself. she apologized and has been better. the same thing probably wouldn't happen w/ you but you should talk to her about while you are like at the mall or something like that. maybe you should help her with buying things or something like that. i hope i helped.
~adriana♥
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i hve the exact same problem just try to avoid conflict w/ her thats the best thing i can say when she starts talking about herself and she like nagging and conplaining just try to change the subject or like make a joke w/the whole spoiled thing i dont think i can help u
i probably didint answer your question but theres not much to do cause yall are really close friends
hope i helped at least a lil
zen4evr
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I'm just like your friend lol and my best mate is forever telling me how fed up she gets of me sometimes. So talk to her and tell her how you feel, if shes been there for you before then it obviously means she cares, but maybe she doesnt always show it. Just sit her down and tell her it bothers you, she will soon realise that it affects you and change her ways, she won't be perfect but then again who is!?
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I guess what you should try to do is remind her that other people in the world aren't as better off as others. Show her something that would make her feel more for others and less about getting what she wants all the time. Sometimes it's really hard to change how a person thinks because that's how they've always thought, it's something that you can't fix but is something you can help lessen. Hope I helped :)
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I have a friends sorta like that. We get in fight alot. But i know that other then that she is soo great and i would never wanna loose her. Everyone has there bad spots. But you just have to find the good ones. I mean i guess you just have to deal with it. Maybe say something to her about, and then maybe it will make her think and change. Talking is always the key =)
Jess
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