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I was wondering what do you guys look for in a girl. Like if you see a girl walking down the hall at school or something, what catches your attention? Also, like what type of things it is cute or annoying or stupid for girls to say like if your talking to her is there certain things about girls that just turn you off completely? Thanks! :]
15/f! (link)
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interesting questions, what catches my eyes is the person herself, if she's wearing interesting necklases or braceletes i'd ask her right away. It's to know her a lil bit really even for a bref moment. The type of things that would make her cute would have to be her humor and her adittude. If she's a bitch then that's a no. If she has an interesting way of speaking and can hold on to a conversation then i would think that's cute and cool at the same time. Most women today don't really hold much conversations like people, they just go with the mind set that, becuase they're women they HAVE to be danty, bitchy, trendy, and dress like total skanks and act snobbish cause they have that aberchornby and bull shit on. Come to think of it i guess that would be a turn off for me, the whole "trendy" look. just becuase you have that aberchronby and crap on doesn't make you any better, if you get down to it, you're just wearing cloth and stitching with a funky ass pattern that happens to be the "hottest" thing of today. As for me im more interested in the women rather than her boobs or her butt. I'd like to knwo HER for who she is. Just never know what kind of person he/she is, what stories, life, dreams, hopes, thoughts they may have and maybe something you can learn from. I've been known to be the "differen't breed of man" sometimes i wish there should be more of me so that way women and men of today can actualy stop this whole stereotype of what man and women should act like. Cast side of pride and just live. Hope this helps, sorry if i just went on and on.
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What are some things that you would do to improve student life at a private prep school? I'm doing an extra-credit report on what I would do to do just that with unlimited funds. Any suggestions? Thanks in advance. (link)
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one thing's for sure that i noticed is that kid today don't even know what they want, so you would have to show them. One topic im talking about is clothes, yes we wear them, spend a large amount of money on em, and those dopey 200 dallor hats with the LA symbol on it. One thing for sure would be to instate uniforms that actually look good for everyone, that wayno fights or any clicks around campus, cause lets face it they always bring trouble, from the "wanna-be gangsters" to the emu or goth or whatever. That way everyone will just be people and not the clothes they wear. It's more like the clothes wear them rather than they wear the clothes. another thing would be security, like cameras, incase things do get out of hand. I know it soiunds like a prison but seriously it's a lot safe than what we have today, kids shooting eachother, race fights? ca'mon, i think todays kids ruin it for the rest of us so actions must be taken care of to prevent the next VT. Also funding in the art department so kids can actually use their energy in something creative rather than pretending to be gangster. painting and drawing,playing music, that's more of a freedom of anything really than what we;ve seen today. Plus im pretty sure the funding gos to subjects anyway so im sure they'll be fine. It sounds a lot better than what other schools have today. Also talk about after school programs so that way they have something to do after school, school functions or coffee machines, it's better than those energy drinks. You know what's in those things? processed bull sperm, which is known as toruene. Yea i know i got grossed out to. Anywho i hope those ideas help out. Hopefully maybe at least onew will be takin in thought. hope this helps and take care.
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ok well i usually a very independent person and im not 1 to need a boyfriend..!! but lately im not feeling like myself..!! i feel like a need a boyfriend... all of my friends have boy or girl friends and i think i fell lonely...!! i really do want one..!!..... i dont know hwy im feeling like this..!!but like last week i was sooooo depressed...!!! not like im going to die depressed but.... on the way there... idk what to do..!! plz help any advice or comments..?? (link)
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ah don't worry your pretty lil head now, everyone goes through this even i do, cept for the wanting of a boyfriend. Evedentaly i have a girlfriend and sometimes, yes, even i do get a lil depressed form time to time. It's just a certain state of lonelyness people get, you don't really want a boy friend, want's and needs are a different thing. Wants are like " i want to get a starbucks" and a need is like " need moeny to pay for classes" also it's possibly that everyone around you has a boyfriend or girlfriend, hahaha don't worry about that either. If your in highschool, or middle school, usualy these "relationships" don't even last long, they last till graduation or at least till the grades up. The real ones are when you're a lil older or at least in college, i honestly didn't think i'd get a girlfriend cause of all the random bullshit that i do and say but she does too and we do like eachother, NO im not gloating in front of you cause even that's messed up. I'm just saying that maybe you should wait on it while your in school, focus on your studies and notice the world around you and the environment you're in. Study the zoo and learn from them so later on, you can use their tactics and visual examples to your advanage when you're released in the wild. i.E the real world, which is college and real career life. So if people say shit like " omg like you need a boyfriend" just say no, i don't need that kind of thing right now, i'd rather live my life. You should be independent, be yourself and other people will see what a women you are, and those are the one's with the succesful careers and all the men looking at em' Later on in life you'll find your man, but for now, just live your life. Al the drama in school will only last in school anyway. just keep that up beat additude of yours and not even the world will stop you. I have faith in you, i was just like you when i was .. i think about you age. being free's great so live it. I know what you're probably thinking. "if being free's great then why are you in a relationship" well i can say that we both get along with our lives and our individual lives, it's like having a best friend but we do things for eachother and love eachother. We can relate to one another and still live our individual lives. Anyway i don't want to bore you, hope this helps and take care.
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well, a few monhs ago i broke up with my boyfriend, and we had told each other that we loved each other and i really did mean it, i wouldn't just say something like that, but he had said it to other girls and hadnt meant it, but this weekend we were hanging out and i asked him if he did mean it and he said yeah i was his first love, but four days after we broke up he started going out with another girl and now theyre been going out for 3 months or so and he says that he loves her now. do you think its possible for him to love her now even though just three months ago he claimed that he loved me? (link)
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Sorry to hear about your recent break up, it usualy happens from time to time. Sometimes men and or women will say what people will want to hear just to get what they want and like dopes we believe them. If he claims to love this new one now then he's probably just saying the word "love" liek an empty blank word that we usualy use day in and day out. it's rare to find people who say i love you and truly mean it, when you look deep in their eyes and you see something no man or women can see, the inspiration that says " you are my world" then whaen he says i love you, he means it. Emotions are a lil complexs in the minds and hands of men and women a like, sometimes we're dooped by both and don't realize it. It's the new "norm" unfortunitly, we say i love you when really we have boyfriends or girlfriends just becuase everyone else has one, and when we don't people look or stare asking why we don't when we just bealy reached elementary school.. ahahaha isn't that weird? we live in an age were having relationships are as common as the penny on the floor. im sorry to have gone off. i can see that you are someone who's still hurting a lil but that's life, it hurts, it sucks, and there's no escape. You're a strong person so i know you'll get thorugh it im sure, just take each day lil by lil. Just erase him from your mind, till one day when you do find a man or women you can totaly forget about him, also if he comes back just look him in the eyes and just say " im sorry? do i know you?" that should get him. Being forgotten is worse than death. Anyway i hope this helps, take care now ^^
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O.k well this guy I like is kind of in the popular crowd. Like alot of the really popular guys talk to him. I try to stay in the middle so I'm not known to well so my name stays away from rumers. Anyway I like him and I think he likes me too. I want to ask him to be my bf, but I'm afraid that he will laugh in my face like he was dared or somethin cuz him and hiz friends do that alot. I think he really does like me thou because We are always joking and laughin and we sit together in all my classes. One time during a silent project he chunked a dictionary at my leg so I threw it back. We laughed. Another time my teacher asked his friend to write names on the board and he hates me so he wrote my name on there. He said NO erase it! So he did. He carries my trumpet to and from band hall too. I have to pay him though. My friends are always tring to hook us up. P.S not to sound raciest but he's balck and I'm white. PLEASE HELP ME!!! (link)
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im sorry dear but this isn't worth it, sounds to me like you're doing more effort that your supposed too. You have to pay him to carry your trumpet? that's a waste of money in my book, but that's just my opinion, the KEY way to get a man to go on his knees begging for buttermilk is to play HARD TO GET that's right. Playing hard to get drives even a guy nuts cause they want your acknowledgement to know they exsist. Just pretend that you're not interested and that he's just some guy. It may be hard but trust me it works. Evere heard the phrase " white women are a blck mans criptanite?" May sound "racsist" but it really isn't in all fairness they made it up first and in popularity others fallowed. Other than that, it sounds like you guys don't even have much a connection anyway, esspecially the part when you pay him to carry your trumpit. I would say try it out and observe his actions and see if he's worth it or not. If no go then he's no go. Beilieve me, i've seen and done these and it usualy works. Of course it also depends on the human will, which is another story. Hope this helps and take care now, lemmie know how this turns out.
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has never been this broken out before.
idk what to do.
idk how to cover it up
or what to use on my face to clear it up.
please help. (link)
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im sorry to hear that. That suualy happens at times so no need to worry so much. Hopefully this will help, for one, no more soda for the time being, also wash your face more, if able to (and this is my opinion) pop the white heads or black heads, may hurt a lil but small prioce to pay. If not then that's ok too, use rubbing a alcohol on your face, after you apply it don't touch it otherwise the oils on your face will get back on again. Also, no more fatty foods, cause the grease in that will only give you more pimples. other than that, try and calm down too, stress makes the body react in various ways, i know that cause it happened to me too. Stressed out so much that i thought i was peeing myself but i wasn't. Anywho all im saying is to properly take care of your face, your mind and body so that way these breakouts wont happen. Hope this helps and take care
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I have big thighs/butt.
What are some good ways to tone them up?
I ran a mile and a half everyday last summer, and that didn't have much of an affect on my upper legs. (link)
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do about 30 squats, some leg exercises. Also hindu push ups, it's when you arms legs on the flor, and spread your legs out a lil. then in a scooping motion move yourself up and down. Kinda hard to explain but just look up hindu pushups. hope this helps
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Im almost 15 and i mastrubate about 1 a day i can keep an orgasm for about a minute do you have any suggestions to keep it longer i do not have toys or anything thanks (link)
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you can also wait for a week, pace yourself,the longer you wait the better it feels.
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i had a blackhead and squeezed it out. there was a hole in place.. later i think i got another blackhead in there. i dunno what i should have done to the hole so that it would not fill up again? (link)
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Ouch, well at least yours was easy to squeeze out. One time i had one on my ass, true story hahahaha.. ah. anywho, the reason why your open pore had another blackhead was becuase it was open to oils and other dirt that are on the face and from outside. Pimples are a collection of all the dirt and oil on the skin and from outside and if left alone long enough they'll form into a blackhead, and then if still not squeezed out they'll become hard and even more difficult to squeeze out. Make sure next time when you do squeeze out any white or black heads to wash your face, and put some rubbing alcohol on, it burns away the dirt. After you apply it to the face don't squeeze anything out otherwise you'll get oil on it. Might wanna drink some water from time to time too, it cleans the skin and helps the brain out. Well i hope my advice helps, let me know if it works ya? take care now
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I have alot of acne and im a pretty girl but when i look in the mirr my face looks worse and all red and i want it gone i look soo bad with it i odnt know what to do is there anything i can fine or do i cant go the the doctors im poor idk what is there like to find around the house or drink or what please help me (link)
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for most caeses of acne it's stress. try and take a breather and try and look things with a calming light. Also try not to drink any energydrinks or sodas, drink some water. Also wash your face once in a while, when dirt is collected they form those nasty ugly things. If you have some rubbing alchol use it once a day, and when you do don't touch your face. It'll burn a lil but it works, i used it too and i look pretty good so i've heard. Also that proactive is ok too, but this home remedy works too, it's not expensive and it's very cheap cause it's free. Anyway i hope this helps and good luck.
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I am tall and i hate it i am 5 ft 11 and im only 14! and i odnt wanan grow anymore i dont like it :( is it bad to be tall because i ahte it please help me :( (link)
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Ah well it's ok, it's perfectly normal to be tall. i mean really, people who're tall when they're younger usualy end up as super modles, or those people in New york that's the envy of all the women. You should be happy and confident to be tall. think of it this way, all the other chicks may be short and probably amke fun of you, you can always look down on them and make some wity puns like "out of my way, gutter chul" or if they ask how's the weather up there? just say something like " it's fine, how's the ground down there bottom feeder?" hahahha that'll teach em' then again you don't need to be mean all the time just to those who'll try to make you feel bad. Again, don't be worried or intimidated by others. There'll be a big future for you, i know it ^^ anyway hope this helps and take care
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so i'm in 9th grade and i'm 14. i really like this guy and we'll just call him...timmy.lol. ok, well, i've liked timmy pretty much since the begining of the skewl year. well, he found out that i like him cause my friend sorta told him (its a really long story..) well, he told her that he doesn't like me that much, but he would probably like me more if he knew me more. and his friend and my friend just told me to talk to him and have a convo w/ him. btw i have 3 classes with him and a lunch if that helps. well, at the start of the year, i didn't talk to him a whole bunch, but this past week i've been talking to him quite a bit. but there is a prob. he is going to ask this other girl out. so i'm really pissed cause right when i start talking to him, he gets a gf. i'm just like wth?? and i'm the type of person who belives everything happens for a reason and there are signs for like everything. so is this like a sign that we aren't supposed to go out?? everyone who knows i like him thinks that we would look cute together cause like the bodytypes, dark hair and dark eyes. i think we would be really cute to but i just don't know how to make it happen. see, i'm really shy around guys, but i've been trying to start to talk to them more, which i actually have been making some progress the last couple of weeks. but i just need some help! what do i do??? everyone thinks that timmy and his "gf" won't last very long and i don't eaither just cause they are nothing alike and she is a HUGE flirt, but i just don't know. help please!!! (link)
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it's probably a sign yes, these things happen almost all the time really so no need to worry. You should really think this situation through, im not saying it's a bad decision but im saying you should take this into consideration that maybe he isn't the right guy for you. You're still very young and the world is so large, you don't really need a boyfriend right now anyway i think. You should really get to know the male mind while you can while in school, and it's very easy.
Most guys are pretty much cavemen status, and yes very simple... in a way. Yes, no, grunt, it's the same with all guys, hell even me too. ^^ Women are huge flirts too, it's common either if they're with guys or not. Also take in mind that they're still young so it probably wont last anyway, usualy couples that are in elementary, middle, or high school don't last till the years up and they go to college.
Think on it for a while, you're a smart women im sure, take the time and just reflect what you want ^^ well i hope i helped so please take care.
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I have mental problems or so I think I do. Sometimes I just want to give up because it seems easier to just freak out and let it go. I really don't know what to do though. I just feel like everyone is happier than me and there's not one person out there that's as sad as me. I think my mom wants to move away but that will just cause problems that means I have to start over. Which my fear is that nobody will like me and I'll have to be sad and stuff. Guys are really mean to me and I don't really understand why it's not like I hurt them in any kind of way. I don't want to move I just want a happy life. (link)
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You can have a happier life, it's really easy, don't loom your head down just yet you. Think of it this way, when you move it'll be a new begining and a new chapter in your life, don't think of it as something bad, just think of it as a great oportunity, How so? you ask will like this ^^ just elave your old self out there, the sad and the worries alone. Look at yourself in the mirror and say to yourself "today is my day and no one will take it from me" buld up your confidence and people will notice a new you. Confidance makes the man and im sure you have a lot of it just eeking to come out. Not everyone is happier than you, some people do have it worse so don't feel like they're having fun all the time. Don't always be afriad of new things and people, meeting new people's the greatest thing ever cause of the new ideas and interests that some poeple have. I met you right? maybe not personaly but enough to know your problem and solve it am i right? new things scare everyone which is why our country's not using new and potential good fuels to help us, it scares them. "change why im afraid and just going to look the otherway"
Don't worry about guys at this point, you should really worry about studiing and working hard on yourself for now. If you show that you're more into your own beat on life guys will wonder what kind of exciting person you are and will ghet to know you more, friend or more than. I used tot think like you a while back but i just looked up in the sky and realized that life is nothing BUT changes and it will never stop, people will be friends and the next day hate you, time will never slow, love will never last but there's a reason, cause it's a challenge to see if you're worthy of making your life a happy one. Now the question is, are you up for it? are you up for the challenege of saying "fuck this, i can, i can do this and no one will take it away from me" Dream and keep that dream for in life that's all we'll have. School is only temperary but life last more. ^^ Anyway i hope i helped a lil. Keep up the good work and hope to hear form you. ^^ take care now, i know you'll make it.
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Ok my Toshiba Windows Xp is getting really slow and so I want to defrag my computer does anyone know any sites that give free defrag software and works really good if you can I appreciate it. (link)
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ah yea i know what you mean. the defrag should already be in your compy, just go to start, search, click on all files and folders, then after that type defrag and you should see it.Also type up disk cleanup. That should work too, make sure to do it every month, but don't do it too much otherwise you'll fuck up the computer. Hope this helps. take care now.
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16/f. I've never had sex before and i don't plan on it any time soon, but i get these horny moments when i just want to. i mean i know i should just focus on something else, but honestly i can't help it. It like controls me. What should I do? (link)
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It happens with a lot of women in these cases. Also im glad you plan not to have sex, should wait after you get married. Anywho, no need to worry cause this is a normal thing that women and men have, usualy the body has its random urges to have sex or to release some stress. You could always masterbate, you don';t have to penatrate but could always rub it out, that works too. Hope this helps and take care
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I'm 15f and I feel like everyone hates me. My brother came home today and said that my friends or my ex-friends wanted him to hang out with them. They never call me and they think I'm annoying. What is up with that? I'm not a bad person. why do people choose other people over me? All the time, too. It's so confusing. I just want people to like me for me. i don't want to be like my brother. He's all emo. I'm just normal and fun. He's just something else. (link)
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You're right, there is something different about you, something great. those kids who hang with your emo brother know nothing of our kind. I was in the same situation in highschool. Alweays remember that those poeple don't last forever so just ignore them and if they give they give you shit just say " you don't exist to me anymore" and walkaway and make new friends. Your wold shouldn't be so narrow, school's overratted anyway. Don't let those punk kids push you around, for god sakes those emo kids wear thei're kid sister's pants. Hahahaha how lame, IF they are emo or not usualy that's the new trend now a' days. People will accecpt you for who you are and i can tell that you're special, like every hero we have some troubed times, and im sure you can get trhough this one. No need to worry, really. Things will blow over, just forget them but remember who YOU are. Hope i helped even it's a lil bit, and take care
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This may scare you and all but I'm fed up. nobody likes me and this guy said he hates when I'm around him so I'm going to starve myself until my body falls to the floor and I die. I have 7 more days of life what do you think I should do on those wonderful days of life that's left. (link)
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Hello there, My name's thief, I'd like for you to please think about this please. You are so young to be doing something like this or taking this into consideration. Dieing for someone is not the way to go, I know how you feel. Having people hate you for no readon, to be locked out and made fun of, to think the world is just after you for you and nothing else. I know what you're going though and you know what? that means that you're ment for something great. Far more greater than you can realize and yes i truly believe it.
There are other people around that i know who'd accept you for who you are you just have to find them. It's hard i know but i know you can do this, you're mind may be made up but i know deep inside you want someone to hold out their hand to help you get back up, and now... im holding out my hand to help you. If i didn;t then i wouldn't be answering this message of help. poeple will say anything for anything but remember they're temperary, you're words and actions last for ever, that's why histroy books are made.
PLease think about it, i believe you'll be the next hero of the world if you put your mind to it, every hero has a fallen state. Where they think thy're freaks and just want to die beceause they didn't fit in. They don't know their full potential, Like you, maybe you don't know your full potential. Just take a breath and look inside your heart and ask yourself who you are.
I did it and i know my true path in life and no one will divert me from it, And becuase of it i want to help poeple like you so they won't be sad anymore, so poeple can just wake up in the morning and live. I know you can live too, who acre what people say really, fuck em' you make your life out to be good or bad. Some people have the mindset to if it's bad it will always be bad but i know you can change it. I'll pray for you, for i know you'll make the right choice.
There's always people, but only one life. Please take care.
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There was a guy that went to my school that was my age and seemed to have a good, normal life... I mean, he had friends, girlfriends, good grades, played sports... and I just found out like twenty minutes ago that tonight he killed himself. I had only talked to him once ever. I just don't know how to feel right now. I don't know how to help my friends deal with this... I don't know much because there hasn't been anything on the news yet because it happened just a few hours ago. I guess I am just looking for words of advice, or experience... thank you, everybody. (link)
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I'm very sorry to hear that, truly i am. It happens to people with the same situation, has everything yet nothing. Often people like that may look troubled but are fighting themselves inside or have problems at home. They keep to themslefs so it's hard to root out the one's that have that kind of mentality of killing themselfs. I remember i had the same feeling but i was called from god that i would grow up to become someone of great importance. It's shocking to hear i know, I'd give you a hug if i could cause no one should experiance this feeling esspecially if they knew the person even for a second. My words of wisdom my friend is to just be friendly to those who look like they need a friend, to lend a hand to those who're critizied by kids at school becuase they'll need it more. If you apply yourself to those who have no status to even voice a word, then people will come to you, and when you help them with a hug or just by saying "things will be alright and i am here for you" then that feeling... that feeling of helping another iwll feel far better than what popular kids feel, or winning money from a raffle, or haveing a boy/girl friend. Help those who need it, even if you say hello. Hope this helps and please take care. ^^
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my friends and i got in a huge fight over something so stupid.
hes deleted me off his myspace, off his instant messanger and everything. we were supposed to go to homecoming along with one other friend of ours but now i dont think he'll want to go if im there.
its gone so far and we've both hurt eachother it wasnt just one person doing it all.
what should i do? apologize? what if he's still mad at me? should i wait till he apologizes?
i hate fighting with friends!! (link)
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Ah i get ya, i wonder what this "something stupid" is anyway, could be something could be nothing, but anyway if he's deleted you off his myspace and im then whatever, rather than atlking about it, he would be a lil whiner and just totally erase you. I think it's stpid and maybe you should just talk to him one on one, that way it'll show that you mean business, than ahving someone to the messageing for you. It sucks to fight wityh friends esspecially if it's something stupid, i had to do that in high school, sounds almost elementray schoolish ya know? Anyway, just try and talk to him, and if he refuses then he's not worth the effort and just move on. People like that can't be reasoned with. Hope this helps and take care
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I'm soooo shy. I was never like
this until this school year. I
let people walk ALL over me. They
can talk shit about me when i'm right
there + i'll just take it! I'm too shy
to do anything about it. Anything I can
do to kinda become "tougher".. or just
less shy? thanks tonsss :]
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i would have to say dear is that you don't have confidence in yourself, to have people walk all over you? ca'mon? You know what? just look in the mirror and think "Badass" or " im not goona take this shit no mo'" and if people talk shit, walk right up and tell them to say it in your face and quit being a pussy talking behind your back or to their friends. You don't have to be a total dick but show some backbone, don't be afriad to scare people and being those typical dantay " oh im a women so im suppost to be meck" no you go the next day at school and you walk with your head held up high and you look people in the eye. That way everyonme will notice that you ain't taking shit from no one ^^ O've had experiance with this sorta thing too so no need to worry. Anyway take care of youself and tell me what happens ok? good luck, i know you can do it. Just think badass ^^
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