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only guys answer please!
I was wondering what do you guys look for in a girl. Like if you see a girl walking down the hall at school or something, what catches your attention? Also, like what type of things it is cute or annoying or stupid for girls to say like if your talking to her is there certain things about girls that just turn you off completely? Thanks! :]
15/f!
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First- I'm going to tell you that relationships aren't all they are cracked up to be. Sure- they are fun having someone to share things with and be with. But they involve a huge commitment and if you end up with someone who is clingy- they'll want to be with you every minute of every day- and you might not have time for friends or anything else you want to do. I say this because my ex-girlfriend was sort of like that- and got mad if I was busy with other plans.. and it was just really retarded. I haven't had a girlfriend since then [last December, I believe].
Anyway- the best way to attract a guy is to be yourself. If you try to change yourself just to get a boyfriend [especially at your age]- you'll just end up with someone who only likes you for what you've become- not who you are. If you be yourself- and don't change- you'll attract more guys who actually care about your personality rather than just your looks.
I myself like any type of girl. I honestly don't judge looks as much as I do personality. If a girl is absolutely stunningly beautiful, but she's a bitch- why would I like her? What would our relationship be? What would we talk about? Her latest hair extensions? Yeah- that would be REALLY nice *Sarcasm: Party of one!*...
If a girl has a really nice personality- and she's really outgoing and sweet and nice and smart- and she's not necessarily the best looking girl- but she's not super unattractive- then I'll most likely want to date her over the beautiful bitch.
Do you get what I'm saying? If you let guys see your personality more than your looks- you'll end up with someone great. Trust me- most guys prefer personality over looks- they just don't know it yet =].
--Jack
(15/m)
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interesting questions, what catches my eyes is the person herself, if she's wearing interesting necklases or braceletes i'd ask her right away. It's to know her a lil bit really even for a bref moment. The type of things that would make her cute would have to be her humor and her adittude. If she's a bitch then that's a no. If she has an interesting way of speaking and can hold on to a conversation then i would think that's cute and cool at the same time. Most women today don't really hold much conversations like people, they just go with the mind set that, becuase they're women they HAVE to be danty, bitchy, trendy, and dress like total skanks and act snobbish cause they have that aberchornby and bull shit on. Come to think of it i guess that would be a turn off for me, the whole "trendy" look. just becuase you have that aberchronby and crap on doesn't make you any better, if you get down to it, you're just wearing cloth and stitching with a funky ass pattern that happens to be the "hottest" thing of today. As for me im more interested in the women rather than her boobs or her butt. I'd like to knwo HER for who she is. Just never know what kind of person he/she is, what stories, life, dreams, hopes, thoughts they may have and maybe something you can learn from. I've been known to be the "differen't breed of man" sometimes i wish there should be more of me so that way women and men of today can actualy stop this whole stereotype of what man and women should act like. Cast side of pride and just live. Hope this helps, sorry if i just went on and on.
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