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My mom and my STUPID allergies
I REALLY hate my stupid mom right now!!!!!!!! Ok, well I wanted to spend the night at my friend (g's) house. Problem is, she has 2 cats and im allergic to them. And everytime I ask to go over to her house, she says no she has cats! And all my friends have cats!!! so I can never spend the night any where because my mom is stupid!! Help *sniff*
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First of all, your mom is not stupid. She just doesn't want you to get sick. I have friends who are allergic to my cats and we just put him in a separate room whenever she comes over. Ask your friends if they could do that and then you'd have nothing to worry about.
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try asking your mom if she can get you allergy medicine or something even have your mom talk to your friends mom's that works too
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She is doing her job as a mother.
It must be worrying for her knowing you're being exposed to cats which trigger your allergies. Not to mention the cat hairs, as they get everywhere. So even if the cats aren't in the room, it can still trigger yur allergies.
It depends how bad your allergy is. You can try to reason with your mum. Tell her the cats aren't allowed in the room you will be staying and they never have been. and if you start to feel your allergies coming on, you will come home asap.
but if she doesn't accept and reasons with you, unfortunately, there's not really much you can do. and going behind her back will just make the whole situation worse and make her lose trust for you.
Good luck with trying to convince her though. and remember, it's not the end of the world. :)
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You have to see this from your moms perspective.. an allergy can be mild and it can be sever - so sever that it can become life threatening. Your mom is only worried about you, that's all. Maybe reasurring your mom that certain precations or steps will be taken whilst you are at your friends will help to ease your moms worry a little and let you go?
I think you can easily solve this problem simply by just talking to your mom about it. :)
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