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ummmmm.... feeling not myself..!
ok well i usually a very independent person and im not 1 to need a boyfriend..!! but lately im not feeling like myself..!! i feel like a need a boyfriend... all of my friends have boy or girl friends and i think i fell lonely...!! i really do want one..!!..... i dont know hwy im feeling like this..!!but like last week i was sooooo depressed...!!! not like im going to die depressed but.... on the way there... idk what to do..!! plz help any advice or comments..??
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ah don't worry your pretty lil head now, everyone goes through this even i do, cept for the wanting of a boyfriend. Evedentaly i have a girlfriend and sometimes, yes, even i do get a lil depressed form time to time. It's just a certain state of lonelyness people get, you don't really want a boy friend, want's and needs are a different thing. Wants are like " i want to get a starbucks" and a need is like " need moeny to pay for classes" also it's possibly that everyone around you has a boyfriend or girlfriend, hahaha don't worry about that either. If your in highschool, or middle school, usualy these "relationships" don't even last long, they last till graduation or at least till the grades up. The real ones are when you're a lil older or at least in college, i honestly didn't think i'd get a girlfriend cause of all the random bullshit that i do and say but she does too and we do like eachother, NO im not gloating in front of you cause even that's messed up. I'm just saying that maybe you should wait on it while your in school, focus on your studies and notice the world around you and the environment you're in. Study the zoo and learn from them so later on, you can use their tactics and visual examples to your advanage when you're released in the wild. i.E the real world, which is college and real career life. So if people say shit like " omg like you need a boyfriend" just say no, i don't need that kind of thing right now, i'd rather live my life. You should be independent, be yourself and other people will see what a women you are, and those are the one's with the succesful careers and all the men looking at em' Later on in life you'll find your man, but for now, just live your life. Al the drama in school will only last in school anyway. just keep that up beat additude of yours and not even the world will stop you. I have faith in you, i was just like you when i was .. i think about you age. being free's great so live it. I know what you're probably thinking. "if being free's great then why are you in a relationship" well i can say that we both get along with our lives and our individual lives, it's like having a best friend but we do things for eachother and love eachother. We can relate to one another and still live our individual lives. Anyway i don't want to bore you, hope this helps and take care.
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Well this maybe the side effect of being single while everyone else in your surroundings are not. . . .very common among independents' but being independent isnt a reason to not date it just means you dont need others as much. . .its always good to have a close companion anyway your depresion is only because inside you feel as if your a 3rd wheel and you dont fit in. . . .so just look for someone to date but dont do it to some random person and pretend you like them because that would mean you are doing it for the wrong reason find someone who you like and will fit well with you and that would like you back and then that would give a mutual benfiet to you both to better your overall life
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