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I'm 15f and I feel like everyone hates me. My brother came home today and said that my friends or my ex-friends wanted him to hang out with them. They never call me and they think I'm annoying. What is up with that? I'm not a bad person. why do people choose other people over me? All the time, too. It's so confusing. I just want people to like me for me. i don't want to be like my brother. He's all emo. I'm just normal and fun. He's just something else.
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You're right, there is something different about you, something great. those kids who hang with your emo brother know nothing of our kind. I was in the same situation in highschool. Alweays remember that those poeple don't last forever so just ignore them and if they give they give you shit just say " you don't exist to me anymore" and walkaway and make new friends. Your wold shouldn't be so narrow, school's overratted anyway. Don't let those punk kids push you around, for god sakes those emo kids wear thei're kid sister's pants. Hahahaha how lame, IF they are emo or not usualy that's the new trend now a' days. People will accecpt you for who you are and i can tell that you're special, like every hero we have some troubed times, and im sure you can get trhough this one. No need to worry, really. Things will blow over, just forget them but remember who YOU are. Hope i helped even it's a lil bit, and take care
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theyre not even your friends.. forget about them ignore them and so the same. forget it dont fight or anything thatl just make it worse the more you ignore them the more they will come back talkin to you when they come back to talk to be so happy that they are coming to talk to you be normal, make it look like thyre not worth you to be happy, you get what im saying?
dont let people be like that to you because it happend to me and honsretly im not going to lie it still does but thats why im doing what i just told you to do!
so stand up for yourself and be who you want to!
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omg! I understand what you're going through, because I am going through the same thing. I'm the same age as you too! I even feel suicidal because of it sometimes. :(
But your problem could be because you've outgrown your current friends. You should probably just forget them and go look for some people who will like you for the great person you are.
About people thinking you're annoying- maybe you are? Maybe you talk too much? maybe you're SUPERSUPER hyper all the time and never just stop and be normal (not saying you are, i just don't know you)
maybe you're always saying negative remarks and complaining... Maybe you always make things into a huge catastrophe when really it's just something small... there are a lot of personality traits that could make you an annoyance to some people but a great friend for others...
The best thing to do is to take a good look at yourself and maybe compare the way you are to someone you admire- someone you aspire to be like. You'll probably discover that there are some things about you that make you seem annoying.
good luck with this and just know that things will change and you will find the right friends.
:)
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OMG!! i really am just like you! about the humour dragging on for the whole day AND the negativity! that describes me perfectly.
it's so awful so i really do understand what it's like to have everyone hate you. :(
myspace.com/unendingnight
u should add me so we can be negative together lol
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Hey (:
Look i went thru everything your going thru;
and it sucks you feel sad alot
and you just want to cry you feel like your not
good either?
what i did is i didnt let that kinda stuff get to me; because if you do then you will always be hurt and you dont wanna hurt 24/7 trust me'
my friends would always pick my other friends over me ANYDAY even my best friends;
then one day i just got so fed up with there crap
that when thay asked me to hang out with then
i didnt' and i made NEW friends that Love to hang out with me and there happy about hanging with me'
i was 13 and stuff then im 14 now, and after a while with not hanging out with my oldies thay called me alot and seen me at school with my new friends and seen thay where no longer on my top 8 and stuff and thay where like why dont you call us no more are you mad? and i was like nahh just act like you dont care and you dont have time for them anymore thay will come back to you and want you (: truth is thay will miss and want to hang with you'
i hope everything works out for the best and if thay dont come back THERES MORE FRIENDS IN THIS WOLRD ((:
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