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i cut myself a lot just to make the pain go away and i told one person and they told me to tell my parent but i dont want to i wanna stop but i cant its just hard i need help can someone tell me wat to do please

ok. been there done that..its not kool. get a rubber band..and wen you want to cut yourself. like..pull the rubber band and let it hit ur wrist. eventually ull get tired of it and stop. well. hopefully. and if you dont..you just need to tell your mom you want to go to a consuler * go to one at school maybe* and talk to them about ways to help

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One more question. What is the best way to heal a broken nose???

go to the doctor would be a good idea..make sure its broken..then they will put a nose cast on it..

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i always get acne everyday! in the morning, i wake up and theres another one! i've tried everything! i tried this benzclin (not sure how its spelled) which was prescribed by the doctor, i've tried proactiv, shiseido, clean & clear, neutrogena, clique, mary kay, and even toothpaste! nothing seemed to work. i feel so embarased to go out. i cant do anything. i feel like crying everyday and i have zero self confidence. please help me. i want my acne out now:(

ok..are you sure its acne? and if it is. let it go for a while b/c you putting all this stuff on ur face prolly is maken it worse. so just like..for the weekend. try not to wear allot of foundation and blush ,etc. what ever you wear..and wash your face w. just regular soap and water. or try just the like. stridex pads things * thats what i use and it seems to be working pretty good* if it doesnt. then.. go to the dermatologist. good luck`!

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I got poison oak really bad on my leg this year and it finally went away but it left a big white scar-its like a circle- on my ankle and like dots all over my feet (from where it was) and i don't know what to do! it looks really weird cuz im tan and then theres a whitish spot! is there any way to get rid of it? or will it ever go away?? ill rate!

you can get like a scar removal cream ( they sell them at like CVS & places like that )

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okay i have this guy friend and see i dont know if i like him because i havnt seen him in a while and he gave me a hug today and i liked it and then he told me he got a girlfriend and i got mad does that mean i like him?

i dont think that means u like him.. u mite have some kind of feeling for him..but its probably just a little bit of jealousy

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how can i get the guts up to ask my mom for tampons?

why would u be affriad to ask for tampons? just be like..mom..get me some tampons..lol

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i have this best friend and i like him and i think its wrong to because he is my best friend, and it could ruin our relationship so does that mean anything and he doesnt even like me! what do i do?

yea --> hmm.. okay. i think you should just act normal around him. and do you no for a fact that he doesnt like you or are u just saying that b/c u dont no and your affraid to find out? i dont think it could ruin your friendship unless something like..really drastic happens. so just be kool. nd ask a friend to talk to him or something. find out who he likes. but w.e u do. if he doesnt like you, yah its gunna be hard to deal with..but dont let it get in the way of ur friendship`!

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I had a really crappy year in the 8th grade. I was harassed a lot, turned down by 2 guys I really liked, got straight C's, & lost a bunch of my friends. I also was accused of spreading a bunch of rumors! It sucked.

I'm really afraid to go back to school though in September. There's this group of girls who are all so mean to me for no particular reason! They constantly put me down & accuse me of spreading rumors. Towards the end of the school year, there was this rumor going around, saying that I said that some chick was cheating on her boyfriend. I never even TALKED to this girl, so I don't know why I was accused of spreading a rumor. That rumor pretty much damaged my social life & school life. I wound up getting hated on by a lot of my old friends & getting harassed by people I've never spoken to!

I'm doing better now, because I have better friends now & I'm a lot more selfconfident. I'm really afraid to go back to school, though. What should I do if anyone gives me crap again?

yea --> i think alot of ppl have gone through that sometime in their life. But you dont have to do anything. If you ignore them and act like you dont give a flying fuck. They will eventually back off. and dont worry about your old friends. if they can turn agaisnt you for something you didnt even do..then i dont think they were very good friends. just be patient..and DONT be affriad. you mite meet alot of new ppl. and once they find out who you REALLY are. they wont care about what other ppl say. *good lucK*

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School is starting soon and that means yearbook pictures! im so nervous mine is gonna look bad...is there any way to like practice to make sure u look good or what?

to practice? idk..lol..but just get comfortable w. ur smile..and make sure your make up looks good`!

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whats it mean when ur crap is green

eWw

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Hey yall! Peroxide doesn't help make your black arm hair turn blonde I tried it over and over again and it doesn't work...what else do yall think will work, anything around the house? if not what can I go buy, where can I get it, how much does it cost, and in what cities do they have it in??? Plz and thx I appreciate yalls help! And I will rate yall! l8er!

umm..you can like..die it w. hair die. lOl...idk`! bleach maybe too

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Does anyone know a quick way to get rid of poison ivy. I know Chlorine and Bleach help...but anything else?

-Thanks
-Zero

no --> sry..ive never had it..

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Hey there everyone! I'm a 16 yr old female and I am a virgin. I am in no way thinking of having sex or asking if i'm too young to or anything, this has to deal more with the future. I am going to wait to have sex until I find a special person, it doesn't really matter if I am married or not. But, I'm afraid that the longer I hold out, it's going to be harder and harder to find a guy that's a virgin also, because it seems like there are none left. So I was wondering if it's silly of me to think that there is a guy out there that is a virgin that I will find somewhere down the road as I get older. Or stop being silly about it and not care?

no --> i think its great that you are waiting. but just b/c u want to be a virgin till u find that *somebody* doesnt mean that *person* has to be one to. so...what ever you feel is best for YOU

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uMm...i saw my friend make a move on my bf..what do i do ?

talk to her about it..and ask her what she was thinking

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ok now i wear thongs and i am kinda the one in skool that no one reallys notices. this is my last year of junor high and i want to be noticed. i want to sit down and have my thong hang out but then i have second thoughts bout it and chicken out. wheat can i do and is it ok if i do this?? plz help me



*~I RATE REALLY GOOD~*

why would u want it to hang out?? why dont u just try a new style or something..die ur hair...most ppls thongs/underwear hand out on accident..not on purpose..lol

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i had sex for the first time today...and well my b/f new i was a virgin and everything...it hurt so bad...and i started bleeding really bad...im guessing it was my cherry...but from everyone i have talked to...there isnt that much blood...there was blood all over the condom all over my legs...and everywhere...it was soo nasty...was it just my cherry...or was it sumthin else??

yeah --> it was..some ppl bleed more than others..its okay..dont worry

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uhh yeah.. i have another question...how can u tell if your best friend really wants to hang out with you or talk to you? Lately, my friend has been kinda acting like i don't matter to her at all. She doesn't really talk to me, and she always puts stuff in her away message like.."jenn, nathin, and alli in a chat room, what could be better?" and it gets me mad...it seems like she doesn't wanna talk to me anymore or sumthin....i... i need help.. im confused

noo..dont get mad --> that just makes it worse. but you do have to think that she has other friends to and not just you. so..just wait..and dont get jealous

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Ok...Well My sister is 15 years old and has been doing alot of partying lately and messing around with guys much older than she is!Its been bothering me because im 17 going to be 18 shortly and i am going to be 8 months pregnant which dont get me wrong im happy about the baby and im not going to regret her but i just dont want to see my sister end up in the same situation at an early age if she keeps it up.She seems to think that what she is doing is fine but im worried about her ending up in a bad situation or getting a bad reputation.Any ideas on what i should do and do you think that what she is doing is wrong?

i think that you should talk to her about it. And tell her how u feel in your situation. i no thats not a easy thing to go through and maybe if u sit down w. her..and tell her what u have been going through at such a young age..she mite understand. i dont no.its worth a try though`!!

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why are all of these teenagers like, being pressured to have sex. you should wait till you find the right person and make it special. so stop with the bullshit

i agree = )

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