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Well my family is a family with 5 kids. We are running sort of low on money. How couild I help them out. I mean my mom could nopt even buy shampoo the other day! (link)
Aw im so sorry to hear that. What you can do is if you get allowance tell her to keep it. Or get a job like babysitting, dog walking, or mowing lawns. Give your mom that money. Keep an eye on your brothers and sisters once in a while.. let her relax. If you ever want to talk IM me at ParadiisePiinkx3 .. ill be here to help


ok theres another guy i like named drew and he also nos i like him but all my 8th grade friends say since hes popular hes like all the other popular guys.... HE WANTS A PEICE OF UR ASS ((thats what my friends say)) but he seems really nice (link)
Get to know him better. Talk to him just the two of you. Then make you judgement of him. Good Luck & Hope I helped


i live around chicago IL, and were having a drought, so its really hot around here. it gets really humid - and my hair is naturally wavy. if i scrunch it and wear it curly, it gets frizzy, and if i straighten it and wear it straight, it doesnt stay striaght, it puffs up etc. i have to go to summer school every day from 8-12, and i have very thick and quite long hair, what are some easy hair styles that i could do quick in the morning that doent look sloppy? (link)
OMG!! lol i live in chicago too. well i cant really think of anything because what i do is fremch braid my hair. or i just let it wave down. Good Luck


what's pop a cherry mean? (link)
it means your no longer a virgin



I would like to know from you guys; what is a fast sure fire way of making some quick cash. And please no-one say get a job because i am trying i just need money now and fast.. All help appreciated and rewarded.
Thanks
anthony
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mow lawns, walk dogs, wash cars

good luck


im 14 years old. My mom isnt working right now so we dont have alot of money. The clothes i wear are american eagle, aeropostale, hollister, and abercrombie mostly. Well for school my mom said i cant get alot of clothes unless i buy them with my own money. i was wondering if anyone knew a way i could make money for some clothes. The place that i live at there arent that many kids, so i cant baby sit around here. Does anyone have any ideas? (link)
You could wash cars, walk dogs, or mow lawns. Good Luck


a while ago i cleaned out our families garage and im having trouble getting donation centers to come out and get the stuff i want to donate. does anyone know a donation center in the houston area that i could get in touch with? besides salvation army.
I RATE... (link)
Im not too smart about this stuff. But i know Good Will will take it. Good Luck


is it just me, or have some of the questions lately been seeming fake, made-up, and unrealistic? i have no desire to answer some lately because they seem like they`re put up on advicenators to get laughs. (link)
Im with ya on that one.. i think? unless this is one of these questions .. lol


im chinese and i was wondering what kind of mascara would be good for me to make my eyelashes look longer and will seperate my eyelashes (link)
Maybelline Great Lash Mascara in Clear. It makes eyelashes BEAUTIFUL!! lol good luck


I am 14 years old and I am self-conscience about my breast size. Is there anything that I can do to reduce my breast size? (link)
theres nothing u can do .. but learn to like them!! people would want bigger breasts.


Hey guys. Well.. tonight I went to a club for the first time, and met this really great guy. He asked to dance with me, and we did for a while, and attempted to talk a bit (but the music was so loud, so we went and sat down) He introduced me to some of his friends too. Anyway, I had to leave early.. and out of nowhere I asked for his number. This is TOTALLY out of character for me. I'm usually shy around guys, but hey. He gave it to me and then I gave him mine, and then he walked me to the door. I may be being paranoid, but was this coming across a little too eager or forward? I had a feeling he wanted to ask, but I could be wrong. Also, should I contact him first or let him contact me? I'm just totally new to this kinda thing and lost.

Thank you! (link)
Well i personally say wait a few days and if he doesnt call u .. call him. but im not too positive if thats what you want to do. And your not really being eager because he did give it to u, right?! Good Luck


im turning 14 in a week and two days. i really want to start making my own money. i dont know where i can get a job. i have heard of some places around me that hire at age 14 like food stores, but when i go there its all older kids, and i wouldnt want to be the young one. any idea of where i could work and not feel too little? (link)
Well when i was 14 i worked as a c.i.t. ( counselor in training ) for the whole summer and by the end of the summer i got around $850! but it depends on where u work. maybe start off with a little job like at a barber shop & you can sweep the floors. theres a good starter. Good Luck


Im competely crazy about my boyfriend. No doubt about that. He's absolutly perfect except for one thing... his front four teeth drive me crazy. He could really use a professional whitening. How can I suggest he go to the dentist without hurting my love's feelings? (link)
ask him to go to the store with you and get the whitening strips. Say your scared to try it so ask him if he'll do it first. Or ask him if he'll do it with you cuz u dont want to do it alone. Good luck


i have myspace/livejournal/etc..
and i want to get a diffrenet layout .. Can you please give me some sites where i could find some ?? Thanks .. (link)
- http://www.myspaceeditor.org/
- http://www.mygen.co.uk/index.php?page=create
- http://www.strikefile.com/myspace/editor.htm
- http://www.carrierawks.com/myspace.php

those are all i can think off .. sorry!!

good luck


well i sing in my choir and i was wondering if anyone else was an alto or second soprano. i recently moved up to a higher choral group and was put in alto and i cant get used to it and i feel like less of a singer because im singing harmony instead of the melody. anyone have any experience? (link)
yes i have the same thing happening to me. talk to your music teacher and tell her exactly what u just told us. if that doesnt work .. just be the best u can.

Good luck


Heyy! I rate high! I was jus wondering if any one will give me any tips to giving good advice!Please and thanks! (link)
Well sometimes whenever I'm not sure what to say, I put myself in their place...what would I do? What would I say? But you ALWAYS have to be honest, because if you're lying to them.. that's not really helping them is it? And whenever you answer something, or give your opinion, you have to try not to be rude, but say it in a way so they understand where you're coming from. or just imagine what you would want to hear from them. if you had that expirence before.. what did you do to get over it? see what im saying?

Good Luck


This question is very weird, but..

The innerlips on my vulva happen to be bigger than the outer lips. They hang a bit and cover my clitoris and vagina, and sometimes sort of stick together. I know this is completely normal, because everybody's vagina is different, but I'm scared that if I get close with somebody, they're going to be freaked out. My vagina is quite different from other peoples because of this and I'm scared that the other person is going to be turned off by it. I sort of think it's ugly, so I'm self-conscious about it. Any helpful advice on what to do? (link)
okay its normal .. theres a lot of people with the same exact problem! just try to except it and if someones turned off by it.. fuck them!! (pardon my language :D )



ok im sorry if this is going to be long..and this is more like a girl quiestion..
well i have been going to the bathroom..and when i wipe all this stick nasy white stuff comes out..and its like nasty..my mom says its discharge but i dont think so..and its like chunky and stuff...(sorry for the details)and some times its brown..so it comes out in brown chunks..but any ways i told my mom and she said its just left overs from your period..like left over blood..and i said i dont think so because its brown not red..and she said shell take me to a cudor doctor..and i said hell no..and shes like fine...and yes i take a shower everysingle day..morning and night..and i do wash down there..and its not when i plat with my self..i dont think so!!
need help bad..ill rate 5's to all!!!!
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Just listen to your mom. Shes right!! and theres really no explination why its brown



i have a car and someone keyed it... also, they egged it and put ketchup and sweet n sour sauce on it! ugh! i cant believe someone would do such a thing! also, they put a used pad on it. it had blood on it and everything. SO GROSS! Also, they put a used tampon on top of it. My windows are broken and everything. What should i do? (link)
I guess the only thing to do is take pictures of it, call your insurance company and then call the police thats really the only thing that you can do. im very sorry to hear about this .. gross incident. Good Luck


is soda pop REALLY that bad for you? I'm on a diet and I get sick of water.. I like diet pop! My boyfriend says he will never drink it because its so bad... true? false? (link)
yes it is very bad. its loaded with tons of sugar. sorry my answers not too specific .. im not a big fan of soda.




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