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How do you get that little white heart tattoo thing? You know the one I'm talking about right? It seems like more and more girls have them right above their pelvis? It looks like a white outline of a heart and I don't know if it is a tattoo or what but I think it is adorable and I want one really bad!
How do I get this done? Does anybody know?
usually the person owning the tanning salon has the little stickers that go there and you just peel it off after you are done. keep putting it in the same stop to show results.
I have a question for anyone that might know, preferably somebody who knows from experience. How much does it cost to get an ambulance to come pick you up? Will the people who run the ambulance be able to help me or do they need to take me to the hospital? I guess overall what I really need to know just in case it is how much does an ambulance ride cost? Does it vary or is there pretty much a set price? I have been having some problems but I don't know if I can afford to go. Can anybody help me?
It depends on where you are from. Here in New Brunswick Canada it is $130.00. It use to be free but people started to abuse it and they put a price on it. If you have insurance you will get the $130.00 back. They will send you a bill.
If you call they will come and check you out to see if you are serious enough to go with them.. if you are able to go to the hospital without needing the service of the ambulance it's best to do so. but it really depends on where youare living for the price range.
Hi, my friend has a cyst on his wrist. He said it hurts him a lot when he does push ups in gym and all that. So, instead of getting it looked at, he pops it himself. It's on his right hand and he gives his social studies book to a friend while he grabs hold of something with his left hand and the person just slams the book on his wrist! Is that healthy?
he really should go to the doctor. he could be doing damage to himself and by busting it who knows what is going on in there. it's very unhealthy to be slamming text books on the cyst. that must be pretty painful..
I am a redhead and grew up hating it because I was different than the rest of my family. I never felt like I fit in at all. I love it now, but back then, I wanted to dye it brown so that I would be like everyone else.
Well now I have an almost-3-year-old son who has sandy brown/blonde hair and a 5.5 month old son whose hair matches mine perfectly. I knew that someday people would start commenting, but I didnt realize it would be so soon. We went to the doctors office and she said to my 5 month old "look at that hair!" and then to my 3 year old "where's your red hair?" He didnt understand (he did say "I dont know") but I know that, one of these days, he's going to feel like people are saying that he doesnt belong with us and they are singling him out for being different.
I dont necessarily want to be rude back, but I do want for these people to know that they are being rude. I want something that will be appropriate for him to say in later years too.
The only thing I can come up with is something like "I shared" which doesnt nearly get the point across. I dont know what kind of response these idiots are looking for anyways. They just say things like this to make the person uncomfortable. They deserve to be made to feel uncomfortable/stupid in return.
your son has taken on the genes from his grandparents. you didn't get the genes from your parents but it skipped you and passed down to your son. soo.. someone wants to be stupid and come up to you and ask a stupid question like that that then they aren't very smart. chances are their kid probably as one green eye and one blue eye.
"You are very good at observing the obvious. Thanks for noticing how different my sons are they are beautiful boys aren't they. oh what's that? where's his red hair? he wasn't born with it. as you can see they skipped me and he got them. his grandparents had brown hair. oh look you have a pimple." lol i don't know..it could be something because it's a dumb question really "oh where's your red hair?" umm...where's your common sense? your son is healthy boy and what others think should even matter. like i said chances are they are making others uncomfortable because they aren't comfortable with their own family.
I got my belly button pierced in June 2009. Ever since I got it pierced it's been pretty red. It doesn't ooze or have pus or, so I know it's not infected. It's also not painful at all. I just want to know if there is a way to make the redness go away? I do clean it daily with antispectic, but I noticed that when I use contact solution it makes it more red.
Thank you! :)
I have a few friends who have it done and they stopped using what they were given and started to use saltwater. they said that the redness went away but i suppose it depends on the person..you can try that ..
Soo my friendd is on birth control && she keeps tellingg me I shouldd get it too. Yes, I am sexuallyy active so I thinkk it wouldd be goodd forr me, but the onlyy problem is how cann I get birthh control withoutt my parents knowingg? Theyy wouldd FREAK !
A lot of women find that birth control helps their periods.. "Mom, Dad.. A few of my friends have been on birth control now and they are telling me it's really controlling their period and I was wondering if I could do the see try it out?" .. just remember there are a lot of side effects to it and its cheaper if you have an insurance plan..(depending on where you live i suppose)
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Me & my Boyfriend have been dating for a few weeks now & at first we used to text eachother quite a lot, not LOTS but y'know. Now when I text him he replies like 4 hours later. I Mean im not acting all crazy like what is he doing, who is he with etc, I Understand he could be doing things, but its jus that he didnt take this long to reply before so I think hes purposely replying to me late on. By This time I dont have much time to talk, Its Late etc. Do Guys just do this???
it's hard on a relationship when the communication is based on texting/msning/emailing/and other button related devices. it's rarely now to find couples speaking face to face which makes things a lot easier. if feel that he is being untrustworthy and you have to question 'where is he?' 'who is he with' then it seems that you both are not spending a lot of time together. sometimes guys do just ignore text messages due to playing video games or chatting with their buddies outside somewhere.. just ask him if you two go could out to a dinner nad a movie or something get talking in person see where you both stand and what not..it'll be worth it..:) good luck
I'm just curious if a parent allows their child to drive without a permit & they get caught what happens? Does the parent get their license suspended? (:
yes, the parent could get their license suspended for breaking the law that is so commonly known. it's common sense to wait for the child to get the beginners and have the licensed driver in the passenger seat while the beginner is driving. it could be pretty costly if you get caught.
2 Months ago my dog started itching uncontrollably, i took him to our groomer and they said he had a bad case of dry skin. After that i made sure to follow what they told me to do, but he wasnt getting any better.
He has chewed off all the lower fur on his back legs, has itched off his stomach fur, and front leg fur to the point where it is bleeding and or scabbed over, and just tonight he chewed all of the fur off from over his butt and had a huge gaping gash. I dont know what to do, i know i need to take him to the vet tomorrow and i plan on doing that, but i just dont understand how dry skin could be doing this?!
Also i need to know if vets will accept payment plans, i dont get paid till next friday, and im afraid they'll turn my dog away. Please help im scared for my dog
I'm guessing that it could be more then dry skin. It could be fleas as well..what a sin the poor thing i hope he gets better :(. My dog had fleas he caught it from another dog and he was scabbed over on his stomach.. ask the vet for some flea shampoo and do it ever so often..your dog could have alos caught it from you playing with another dog or something.. i hope everything turns out to be okay.
well ive been friends with this girl for already a long time! its just that lately i just find her very annoying for no reason! i feel wierd around her and i dont talk to her anymore! what should i do??
like any toy we use to have to last years lipgloss and purse we also outgrow people. although you can't shove her in a closet or sell her at next summers yardsale you can talk with her. you simply just have to sit her down and tell her you think it's time that you both need your space. try and become friends with new people find out new talents figure out who you both are. because telling her "well you make me feel weird and you are starting to really annoy me" may be honest but is probably not going to go over so well..right? if you two do agree on getting space you may miss her but sometimes it's not always the person we miss usually it's the memories from the past. all the great times you two use to have but simply outgrew. try and talk to her because avoiding her will case a fight and end a friendship with hurtful comments. so you can try and do like the little conversation i wrote at the top.. you can let me know how it goes. i know what it's like outgrowing a friend..the other person does get to be annoying at times huh;)
I befriended a new girl at my school and have regretted it ever since. At first she was kind of shy and seemed nice, and I didn't listen to my friends who warned me that she would get annoying at one point or another. Now, its come to the point that I dread every second I have to be near her! I have gym with her, whenever I try to go talk to my other friends she literally grabs my arm and DRAGS me away! She'll wait for me outside my class in the middle of the hallway smiling, with everyone trying to go around her. She separates me from my other friends and literally CROSSES HER ARMS and SULKS if I so much as say two words to anyone else! She also has this superiority about her, like she thinks everyone WANTS to be her friend when the truth is that people are starting to jeer at me just for standing next to her. I don't want to be mean, but every moment I spend talking to her (ex- about her bloody tooth being pulled and how she couldn't spit or blood would come out) is TORCHURE! She goes up to me in the hallway and slaps me as I walk by or from behind (hard) just to say hi in her annoying, high pitched voice. I told her during gym one day I didn’t like the ‘touching’ thing. She started sulking and started RUNNING away from me, without saying another word! She’s only talking to me cause I'm the only one who hasn't shoved her away, and we have almost nothing in common. How do I get her to leave me alone w/o making her depressed?
Please, this has been going on for months and every day its getting worse! I don’t know what to do! Please, tell me what you think I should say to her or do to get her to leave me alone without completely hurting her, I’m the closest thing she has to a friend (which is pretty pathetic), and she CANNOT take a hint. I’m in 10th grade, please help!!!
yeah, she does seem very annoying and that would annoy the H*LL outta me.. i know what it's like to be around a person like that and the best thing to do is to be honest no matter how much it hurts because truth hurts.. you are going to lose your other friends is you hang out with her any longer. sometimes we don't want to judge others from another persons perspective and think that the person can't be that bad. here is something you could say..
"Listen (name) we need to have a chat. i am finding it rather rude not to mention annoying when you drag me away from people that i am talking with. your behavior is getting a little out of hand. when i started being your friend i thought i would ignore what others have said and get to know you by letting you show me who you really are. i don't mean to be mean i am just being honest. i need my space and i need to socialize with other people. we are in grade 10 not grade 1. i don't like it when you run away if i tell you that i dislike something you have done like touching/hitting me when we walk by each other in the hall. ETC ETC.."
you can add or change something....being honest is the only way to get through to someone and you can't go the rest of the year being tortured. she seems to be very immature for her age. she sulks and runs away when she is being told something. the next time she pulls on your arm to drag you away shake your arm free of her and tell her that you are busy talking.
she may do or say things that will make you feel bad but don't buy it. i had a 'annoyances' like her..i told her the truth and she started laying off. she would say she would do things and i ignored it. once she sucks you back in it will be harder the second time.. well i hope i have helped and good luck..
let me know who it goes it might be harder then it seems to be but at least try..get your life back at school loll.
if you best friend of 3 years made ur boyfriend breakup w/ you for her what would you do?
well..think of it his way..if the boyfriend breaks up with the girlfriend for the best friend he didn't really care after all.. i mean if someone loves someone no one should beable to tear that love apart no matter how bad the other person is inlove with the guy.
I met this girl, shes in my class too and we started being friends and we hug eachother a lot, i was attracted to her and she has a nice personality and right when i found out she experimented with girls a lot back then and shes bisexual i got my hopes up and i really dont know why, now im having thoughts about me kissing her at times and i really want to try it. One day she was sitting down in a chair and i was walking i gave her a hug and i almost knocked her over because i usually hug her tight all the time and right about to give hera hug and say bye she puckered her lip to me but i didnt do anything so ended up her lips touching my neck and when i walked away she said "YOU KNOW YOU LIKE IT!" and after that nothing like that really happened anymore was she trying to kiss me? and am i bisexual or bicurious? we tend to hug a lot,sometimes we hold hands but we barely talk because i just met her a month ago. Im sure she doesnt like me because she doesn't like anyone right now, i never felt like this with a girl before. I'm really confused.
a lot of people go through a phase where they get curious about their sexuality. sometimes it could be because something happened to them as a child, they have had their hearts broken many times by men and thought maybe girls are better because we understand each other more, or for other personal reasons. you know this is very common so you are not alone when it comes to feeling like this. if it plays on your mind a lot you both could experiment with each other and with that you will know if you are bisexual/lesbian/straight. there is nothing wrong with experimenting and no one has to know. you also got your hopes up when you found out that she experimented with girls in the past. there could be a hint there that maybe you are ready to find out once and for all if you are bisexual or just bi-curious.
this is hard to say.. but im a cutter. Everytime i get upset, thats what I do.. that or go get messed up, but a razors a lot easier to get.. I cant ween myself from the blade. what do you guys think of cutters honestly ? & what should i do.. my parents know but think i stopped months ago.. ugh... wwhy am i doing this ?
a lot of people do it for attention and others do it because they are going through this teenage phase of 'i can't feel pain. life sucks for me..etc etc..'. there must be something in your life that is not going right or is making you feel angry and this is the only way that you can figure out how to deal with it. you should really talk to your parents before things get out of hand. i have 2 friends who use to do a lot of things with themselves because they were not happy with life and because they were jealous. i know jealous may not be your factor but the cutting is the one thing that is in Common. this is probably not very clear advice but you are just going to have to talk to someone. it's not healthy bottling everything up inside and taking it out on yourself the way that you are.
I am 17/f. Nothing like this has ever happened to me before, and it really scared me. Today, I had been sleeping on on the couch when my mom called me for dinner. So I woke up, waited about ten minutes or so to wake myself up before I got up to get my dinner. As I got up kind of quickly I got super dizzy, which happens alot to me, so It didnt concern me, but once I got to the kitchen I was ok again. Then I grabbed my plate on the counter, and thats when something really strange happened. I wasn;t in control of my mind. It was so weird. My mind thought that my plate of food was my phone, and I was pushing the food as I would the buttons on my cellphone. It was SOOO weird. I knew that it was my food and not my phone, but I couldn;t get my brain to control my actions. And even though it lasted about 20 seconds, that was a long time to not be in control of myself, so it scared the hell out of me, and I literally thought that I would be like that forever. I am freaked out that it will happen again so I was wondering if this has ever happened to anyone else??? Also, I dont have easy access to a doctor, but of course if its necessary I would go... thanks in advance!
i remember when my mom use to call me up for school i would fall asleep again and i think i would be up and i would see myself eating breakfast and getting ready for school and five minutes later my mom would come back in again and call me up.. it's really weird.. it's like your body is awake but your mind isn't ya know. like sleeping walking somewhat. Did you ask your mom or dad or anyone if they have been noticing any unusual behavior with you the past couple of days. you could get some information from them and then you could make arrangements to go and talk to the doctor about your dizzy spells..good luck but i am sure you are not alone when it comes to this.
Hi, I'm an 18 yr old female, just had a question, What if you found out the guy/girl you like, has been constantly viewing your profile on facebook with profile checker, they were in your top 10, what would you think of this?
well..seems to be they are crushing on you for one. secondly tell him/her : if you like to admire me from afar you can get a better look up close and ask him some things about him/herself. :) good luck.
do birth control pills increase breast size at all for a 17 year old who is still growing?
since birth control has hormones in them it could be a possibility but i don't think it's a common side effect although birth control seem to have a lot of side effects. it also could depends on the type you have.
I'm 18. I'm in high school. A high school for the GIFTED, actually, and yet half the kids in my school don't know the difference between "their" and "they're", "your"/"you're", "to"/"too", etc. And, well, neither does the rest of teenage America.
What the fuck? What HAPPENED. What the hell is wrong with this country that we can't learn grammatical laws that have been introduced to is in, what, second grade? Has having cell phones permanently put kids in "typin like dis lol" mode?
actually i do believe cell phones/emails/msn/plus more has a lot of do with it. they pay more attention to the easy way to type rather then the right way. sooner or later you will end up hearing people actually talking like that. i wouldn't be surprised..
well i am going out with my first bf and i think i am his first gf. we live 4 hrs apart. the question is should i go out with him? i am scared to tell any one i told my couzin about it she said i should she has a bf and has had him for a while. how should i tell my family? should i tell them yet i got him friday? plz help me.
alisha
it's your first relationship and he is four hours away.. i would hold off on telling your parents right now and wait about a month or too. only because of the distance to see if it works out. :) good luck..
I lost my virginity on Valentines day, Febuary 14th.
And I was suppsoe to start my period today, March 1st, and I didn't.
But my friends say that llosing your virginity messes with your hormones, and irregulates your period.
And also from stressing a lot too.
Is this true?
some people say it does but having sex doesn't mess with your period like that. being stressed out does mess your your cycle esp. if you are stressing over being pregnant. if this keeps happening contact your doctor and explain to him/her what is happening. he/she might ask you to come in for a pregnancy test.