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am i starting to be bi curious?


Question Posted Tuesday March 2 2010, 5:16 am

I met this girl, shes in my class too and we started being friends and we hug eachother a lot, i was attracted to her and she has a nice personality and right when i found out she experimented with girls a lot back then and shes bisexual i got my hopes up and i really dont know why, now im having thoughts about me kissing her at times and i really want to try it. One day she was sitting down in a chair and i was walking i gave her a hug and i almost knocked her over because i usually hug her tight all the time and right about to give hera hug and say bye she puckered her lip to me but i didnt do anything so ended up her lips touching my neck and when i walked away she said "YOU KNOW YOU LIKE IT!" and after that nothing like that really happened anymore was she trying to kiss me? and am i bisexual or bicurious? we tend to hug a lot,sometimes we hold hands but we barely talk because i just met her a month ago. Im sure she doesnt like me because she doesn't like anyone right now, i never felt like this with a girl before. I'm really confused.

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SecretDreamer95 answered Thursday March 4 2010, 2:01 am:
a lot of people go through a phase where they get curious about their sexuality. sometimes it could be because something happened to them as a child, they have had their hearts broken many times by men and thought maybe girls are better because we understand each other more, or for other personal reasons. you know this is very common so you are not alone when it comes to feeling like this. if it plays on your mind a lot you both could experiment with each other and with that you will know if you are bisexual/lesbian/straight. there is nothing wrong with experimenting and no one has to know. you also got your hopes up when you found out that she experimented with girls in the past. there could be a hint there that maybe you are ready to find out once and for all if you are bisexual or just bi-curious.

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Sweet_LiL_Angel answered Tuesday March 2 2010, 8:57 pm:
It sounds like she is flirting with you and may like you some or building up feelings for you. I think you bi courious and a possible bisexual.

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Trauma answered Tuesday March 2 2010, 12:12 pm:
A lot of people go through a stage in their life like this. I wouldn't be so quick to call yourself bisexual or anything like that. I would say you're just curious (call yourself bicurious if you want, that's your choice). These feelings could always fade, or they could grow. It's really nothing to worry about, though.

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