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My man says if I love him I will give him head, what should I do
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girl you need to leave him...hes not a real man...he dont repect the word love if he says that to you....DONT DO IT!!!!!NO REPECT FOR YOU AND THAT WILL ONLY LEAD TO GUILT AND HURT..AND WORST....SELF-DISRESPECT
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You should leave him. Listen, if he loves you, he will respect and understand your decision not to do anything sexual. Don't ever let a guy tell you something like that and give in because it isn't true, you can love someone and not do sexual activity because that isn't what love is all about - it is so much more than that.
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I think if he respects your answer he will understand and you guys can talk yourselves through it.
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a view from the male side: give him head and he will love you forever.......(yeah, right, lol).
Guys will say, do, promise ANYTHING to get head. It's the testosterone clouding our brains.
Stooping to this tired old line is an indication that you two have a problem in your relationship you need to talk out. This is the male way of asking "where is this relationship going?". If you are married and mismatched sexually, this is going to be an ongoing issue that you need to address. If you are just dating, then you need to agree on expectations.
When kids are around 4-5 years old they often say something like "if you give me your candy i will be your friend". This is about the emotional maturity of "your man".
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No matter what the circumstances are, or how much he tells you he loves you, just remember that he has no right to force you to do anything you don't want to do. Only do what you feel comfortable doing. :)
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tell him this: "If you love me you wouldn't pressure me into doing those things and you will let me do it when I am ready." Don't do something you're not ready to do.. I'm not sure how long you two have been together but it doesn't matter you still don't have to do things that you don't want to no matter how long the relationship has been..plus, if he leaves because he wont do this he was a jerk in the first place. someone who cares about you will wait til the time is right and not say "well you dont love me because you dont want to have sex with me or other stuff.." becareful, good luck and stand your ground.
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...And if he loves you, he'll wait until you're ready.
Don't let him pressure you into doing something out of "love". Both of you have to want this to happen. Both of you have to be ready. If you're not ready and he's making claims like "oh, that means you don't love me", he's just a horny teenager and a selfish jerk.
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If you want to, obviously do, if you don't want to, don't. That's an absolutely ridiculous thing for him to say and he has no right to put pressure on you like that.
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if he loved you, he wouldnt put you in an uncomfortable position that he knows makes you uncomfortable. he also wouldnt try to pressure you into it. what should you do? wait until you are ready. if he leaves you before then, hes not the right one for you. you deserve someone who respects your boundaries
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