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so im a 19/f and i was talking to this guy. it all started at school one day in the lunch line. after that i added him on faceboook. and we didn't really talk til he messaged me and asked me about my name. well we were talking & then he asked me for my number but i didn't give it to him because i didn't really know him that well. well we started talking more & then i finally gave my number to him. & we started talking on the phone and texting. but our conversations always seemed to be about sex. like how many times he masturbated, & we had phone sex. after that he blocked me on facebook & stopped texting/caling me. and then last night he texted me randomly & i didn't know who it was. he said no one, but i told him to tell me who he was and then said who didn't want to tell me because he thought i would get mad, but i wasn't. then he started telling me how he got nervous to be in a relationship with me so thats why he ignored me. & then he told me it was because he onl wanted to have sex with me. he told me how sorry he was etc. and i asked him if he still wanted to be with me & he told me he wasn't sure. and i told him that im not going to pressure him to be with me. he said he felt bad for just talking to me about sex & then ignoring me all these months. & i told him that i thought he was sweet but im not sure if talking to him still is a good idea. help? (link)
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Get out while you still can! This guy has trouble written all over him. If the only thing this guy wants to do is talk to you about sex and have phone sex with you, thats the only thing he associates you with, and all you'll ever be to him is a sort of indirect booty call. I know its kind of harsh, and you probably expect more from him.. but you can do so much better. I would label this guy a douche. It sounds like he's just into playing games. Think about it; he said he was nervous about being a relationship, which is his excuse for ignoring you, which would lead you to believe that he's talking to you again because he finally realized he WANTS a relationship with you. Then he goes and says he doesn't know if he wants a relationship. Don't waste your time on guys like these. They're no good.
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Ok, I am a freshmen, and some of my friends have started drinking and doing just really stupid stuff in high school. how can i tell her that she is being SO dumb! we both LOVE sports, and they are like our lives, and i REALLY dont want to see something happen to her! And, if she does get caught with an underage, whats the worse that can happen? Thanks SO much!
-bballrulez25 (link)
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First of all, it's really great that your looking out for your friend and are concerned with her well being, but understand that you can only influence her to a certain point. If you want her to really respect your opinion, don't make her feel like your attacking her. Just let her know that your concerned about some of the decisions she's been making lately, and let her know your only worried because you care about her.
Since underage drinking is illegal, so you can get in a lot of trouble if you get caught. It really all depends on what the laws in your state are. During my sophomore year i was caught up in a situation where the cops caught me and my friends drinking at a small party. They checked everyones blood alcohol content and then let the sober people go home. Anyone who had been drinking had to call their parents to pick them up at the house. The situation could have been a lot worse depending on what kind of mood the police officer was in. I'm pretty sure they've been cracking down on the laws lately so now it's probably more likely that people caught drinking would actually be taken to jail.
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My man says if I love him I will give him head, what should I do (link)
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No matter what the circumstances are, or how much he tells you he loves you, just remember that he has no right to force you to do anything you don't want to do. Only do what you feel comfortable doing. :)
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Im 13/f. Iknow it sounds whorish but im with a guy ive known forever and were having sex. Hes 15 and he lost his virginity to me about 2 months ago. When im giving him blow jobs and/or handjobs it takes him a while to cum. But sex, on the other hand....he cums too fast. He goes slow and hard so he wont 'lose control' too fast, but sometimes i just NEED more than that, and i make him speed up and so snd so....but he doesnt really like condoms, so he ALWAYS pulls out ahead of time, [were safe and careful though.] I just want to know, how I can still get my little extra 'fun/pleasure' and make him last! PLEASE HELP ME! Thanks.
-Kayla. (link)
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If your not using condoms you can't honestly say that your being safe and careful because you can still get pregnant or get STD's. I can relate because my boyfriend sort of has the same problem, but it was worse when he first started having sex. Not many 15 year old boys have the self control that older guys have, especially when they first start having sex. I buy trojan extended pleasure condoms for my boyfriend because they contain climax control lube which makes sex feel less intense for a while so he can go for longer. I know you said he doesn't like condoms but they really do work, otherwise i'm sure they sell the climax control lube separate from the condoms.. but i'm not too sure on that.
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does the piercing hurt while you get it? because i thought you are supposed to get anesthesia or something and it hurts afterward after it wears off? do they use a needle? how long does it take? (link)
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I had my belly button pierced about 6 months ago and i don't really think it hurt at all, which is a big deal because i'm a baby about stuff like that. The reason mine didn't hurt as much as most peoples is because my piercer didn't use a clamp which is really what causes the most discomfort during the whole experience. Yes they use a needle, and it takes about a few seconds. It's definitly worth it don't worry about it! go get it done!
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Ok so i have a.d.d. and i can't concentrate on my work or school at all!! i mean i wanna get my grades up so bad! but i just can't concentrate on anything my mind just races and races and i just can't focus on what im doing, i can't take it. this is horribe, what do you think i should do??
if you could please help me i would appriciate it alot!!! i have so many projects i have to do soon (link)
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i've got a.d.d too and i realize that it can be a lot to handle. if you don't absolutely need to be medicated for it then don't. i'm really dependent on my pills now.. for instance..if i don't take my chlonodine in the morning i'll have a really weird day and fall asleep during my classes, and if i don't take my concerta at night i cant fall asleep. try getting rid of anything thats going to distract you.. like your cell phone or the tv when your trying to get work done. it would probably help to stay after school to work on those projects, especially if your school blocks recreational websites. if nothing seems to help definitly get medicated or look into trying new medications if you already are.
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Does anyone know where I can find like the song from Disturbia when the girl put Kal's ringtone as "I'm So Horny" or whatever it's called for a ringtone? I don't know if that makes sense but whatever. I want it for my ringtone. haha. (link)
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i actually saw that ringtone on myxertones.com. you can also upload your own songs and make your own ringtones. it also lets you cut out certain parts of songs that you dont want to be part of your ring tone.
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