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Ok , well me and me the boyfriend been dating for a year and a month . We have sex sometimes , but next time we do i want him to be like WOW , ya know =) . So what are things boys like alot , or get them " more " excited or happy . Nothing completly gross and stuff like that . but id have to say im pretty good =)

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i know im not a guy but i have a boyfriend and somethings that he likes are:

-handjobs
-blowjobs (but you didn't want anything to gross)
-get him really horny before having the sex, such as role play
-lap dance


i can not get one in for my life.
i got my period in feb. of last year.
and the summers coming and theres no way i wanna miss out on swimming and stuff. because i cant wear a tampon.
ive tried a million timeess. ughh. (link)
hi, well i got my period about a year a ago and about 4 months ago i learned how to put a tampon in for the first time lol. IT TOOK ME AN HOUR!!!
what i did is i took some vasaline and rubbed in on the applicator (NOT THE TAMPON) and then i went to the mirror in my bathroom and i put one leg up on the sink/counter. i know this sounds kind of weird (LOCK THE DOOR HAHA) but i took my finger and i found the hole in my vagina that the tampon is inserted in and i used my finger to open it up. i hope this helps =)


so a long time ago, before i started my period, i had woke up one day and went to the bathroom. when i wiped i saw a lot of blood. it was not my period because when i peed the blood was not in the urine flow. could it have possibly been that my cherry popped. nothing happened like that for the rest of the day. i did not start my period for months later. it was just a one time thing. (link)
yeah i agree. when your cherry pops, the blood flows out from the same place as your period. adn why would your cherry pop if you hadn't done anything to pop it unless you got fingered or fingered your self or something. if i were you i would go have it checked out. i know its awkward for you to go to the doctor but like you really should, it could end up being serious....

hope this helps =)


my legs need a bit of muscle and i need to get rid of some fat on them. but i dont have time to go out running or do something that takes alot of time got any ideas on some excersices i could do??? (link)
hey i'm a gymnast and i am pretty good at conditioning my body. Here are some good excersises:

-lounge kicks
-sit in a squat and keep your hands off your legs
-flutter kicks (lay on your stomach and keep your theighs off the ground and flutter your legs slowly)
-jump ups (jump up and down all the way down to the floor and all the way off the floor)

HOPE THIS HELPS! =)


Ok ... this is probably going to sound really insecure of me... but I just need some adivce. What do you do when your best friend is like so much prettier and cooler than you are? My friend is very popular, pretty, smart, every guy likes her, she gets everything she wants...I just hate that I am jealous of her because shes my best friend, but whenver I'm with her... people don't talk to me... they talk to her... guys never pay any attention to me, unless they are asking about her. She is an awesome friend... but a lot of the time she is distracted with other things... because so many people like her. I just want to know how I should deal witht his situation. Thank you for your time! (link)
last year half of my friends were the populars that were all cheerleaders, smart, pretty, all had boyfriends blah.blah.blah... then this year i started talking with my popular friends, friends and now i am popular and fit in fine. i'm not the most beautiful, or smartest, and dont have a bf quite yet but i am expecting one soon =p hope this helps a little bit. TWO BIG TIPS: # 1 WHEN TALKING TO MORE POPULAR PEOPLE, DONT TREAT THEM LIKE THEY ARE A MOVIE STAR AND ARE ALL BETTER THEN YOU...TRUST ME NOW THT IM POPULAR I FIND IT VERY ANNOYING WHEN PEOPLE DO THAT!!!
#2 DONT CARE WHAT OTHER PEOPLE THINK ABOUT YOU. I USED TO THINK ABOUT EVERY LITTLE THING I DID. I NEVER SEEMED TO GET VERY FAR... JUST HAVE FUN WITH IT AND DONT WORRY ABOUT WHAT OTHER PEOPLE THINK OF YOU SO MUCH (dont do anything stupid, or be careless. just dont care AS MUCH)

HOPE THIS HELPS =)


Im with this guy and we've been dating 4 a while now and hes already cheated once and i trusted him 2 not do it again n got bak with him n it turns out that 4 months later he decides 2 fuck around again. and hes bipolar so he scares me alot when he gets mad because sumtimes he takes it out on me...if you know wat i mean...and i want 2 break up with him but than i always end up going bak 2 him because im afraid of what he will do to himself or other things. because he stars freaking out. and i dont know what 2 do. because theres been so many times when i wanted 2 leave but i never can because he'll take it out on himself and i dont want anything 2 happen 2 him or 4 him 2 take it 2 far. n i dont know what 2 do.......???? (link)
OMG! dont risk getting hurt!!!! try asking if you guys can just be friends (when hes in a good mood lol). that all i have to say. i mean sweetie, dont risk getting hurt physhiclly and mentally. trust me i've tried giving a couple guys more then one chance but both of them ended up turning out to be jerks. so you cant blame yourself for what he does to himself. my advice... END THE RELATIONSHIP!


Ok, last week I was going to confess to my crush
that I liked him....but...I chickened out....I just have no idea what to say to him....

Also I'm the same girl who posted up a question saying that some girl walked up to him and asked my crush that if he liked me((cause she and another girl who is my friend were trying to hook me up with my crush))

Anyways when the girl,Lucy((or whatever name I put up in that question)) asked my crush if he liked me he said no,that he supposedly dident like me in that sort of way...

And I had second thoughts that maybe just maybe he lied.I mean who would tell some random person that they like this guy,or this girl((even if you know thier names but you hardly talk to))besides he gave all the signs saying 'Yea.I like you too.'

anyways I asked him if Lucy said anyrthing about me to him.He said no,that not from what he remembers...so I said thank you...But one of my friends was there((she was faraway from us))Risa
told me that maybe he lied so he wouldent have to confess...or something like that((I cant remember it all happened so fast))

but yea...now i dont know if I should confess or not...I do think its better if I confess...I have people telling me I should ignore him and forget about him and others saying I should become better friends with him and see what happens....

I dont want to ignore him cause he is a somewhat a friend of mine as I am to him and I dont think its right to ignore him just cause he did'ent like me back...

this may sound very cheesy but I think its better if I listen to my heart which is telling me I should confess((usally I dont listen to my heart))

so should I confess???

And if i should what should I tell him??? (link)
yes you should confess. i tell all the guys that i start liking that i like them. its easy for me and i just come out and say it. sometimes we don't end up going out which doesn't bother me because its not like i asked him out or anything. your just telling him how you feel. and actully once, i told a guy that i barely even talked to that i liked him and we started talking more and as we got to know eachother more and he had still known that i liked him, but he ended up liking me and we went out..... hope this gives you some confidence =)




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