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Help!!!
Im with this guy and we've been dating 4 a while now and hes already cheated once and i trusted him 2 not do it again n got bak with him n it turns out that 4 months later he decides 2 fuck around again. and hes bipolar so he scares me alot when he gets mad because sumtimes he takes it out on me...if you know wat i mean...and i want 2 break up with him but than i always end up going bak 2 him because im afraid of what he will do to himself or other things. because he stars freaking out. and i dont know what 2 do. because theres been so many times when i wanted 2 leave but i never can because he'll take it out on himself and i dont want anything 2 happen 2 him or 4 him 2 take it 2 far. n i dont know what 2 do.......????
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Besides the fact that he is unloyal, he is mentally unstable. Your relationship is controlling and abusive. You are afraid of what he will do to you or himself, therefore that fear and manipulation on his part has caused you to stay. You know this is unhealthy and you want out. You cant keep blaming yourself for what he has been putting you through. He definitely needs help but more importantly right now is you. You need to tell an adult that you trust. You need their support and their understanding of the possible consequences of you breaking up with him so they can protect you from his harm. Once you do leave him and have someone that is helping you feel safe and keeping him away from you, then if he continues to threaten to hurt himself you can try to get him professional help. I know this is hard hun. I wish you the very best. If you need anything else im here.
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OMG! dont risk getting hurt!!!! try asking if you guys can just be friends (when hes in a good mood lol). that all i have to say. i mean sweetie, dont risk getting hurt physhiclly and mentally. trust me i've tried giving a couple guys more then one chance but both of them ended up turning out to be jerks. so you cant blame yourself for what he does to himself. my advice... END THE RELATIONSHIP!
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You have to put your own well being and self interest first. You can't save the world.
If he goes off and does something stupid to himself, its his own fault, not yours. You can't just stay with someone out of fear they will do stupid acts. In fact, what you do is inform his parents to beware.
If you fear he will do something stupid to you, that's when you inform your own parents that they need to be looking out for you. In fact, you need to be talking to them about your current situation anyhow. It doesn't matter if you are 30 years old- your parents will want to do what they can to protect you.
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