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What do I say???


Question Posted Sunday February 10 2008, 4:16 pm

Ok, last week I was going to confess to my crush
that I liked him....but...I chickened out....I just have no idea what to say to him....

Also I'm the same girl who posted up a question saying that some girl walked up to him and asked my crush that if he liked me((cause she and another girl who is my friend were trying to hook me up with my crush))

Anyways when the girl,Lucy((or whatever name I put up in that question)) asked my crush if he liked me he said no,that he supposedly dident like me in that sort of way...

And I had second thoughts that maybe just maybe he lied.I mean who would tell some random person that they like this guy,or this girl((even if you know thier names but you hardly talk to))besides he gave all the signs saying 'Yea.I like you too.'

anyways I asked him if Lucy said anyrthing about me to him.He said no,that not from what he remembers...so I said thank you...But one of my friends was there((she was faraway from us))Risa
told me that maybe he lied so he wouldent have to confess...or something like that((I cant remember it all happened so fast))

but yea...now i dont know if I should confess or not...I do think its better if I confess...I have people telling me I should ignore him and forget about him and others saying I should become better friends with him and see what happens....

I dont want to ignore him cause he is a somewhat a friend of mine as I am to him and I dont think its right to ignore him just cause he did'ent like me back...

this may sound very cheesy but I think its better if I listen to my heart which is telling me I should confess((usally I dont listen to my heart))

so should I confess???

And if i should what should I tell him???


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mariahwannabe answered Monday February 11 2008, 7:30 am:
you should definatly confess because if you both leave it now, you'll have this total awkardness between you too, whilst having everyone around you making comments about how much you like eachother. You'd then both begin to try and avoid eachother the best you can.

If you confess, everything will be out in the open and you can then find out truly what he thinks of you instead of getting others to find out for you. You need to confess otherwise everything will just get really awkard

I think he could be lying, i think he may like you because you don't just tell and random person how you truly feel
Follow you heart girl and let him no! It's the best way to find out the answers and clear the air!
hope i helped!
x

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xohay123 answered Monday February 11 2008, 12:01 am:
yes you should confess. i tell all the guys that i start liking that i like them. its easy for me and i just come out and say it. sometimes we don't end up going out which doesn't bother me because its not like i asked him out or anything. your just telling him how you feel. and actully once, i told a guy that i barely even talked to that i liked him and we started talking more and as we got to know eachother more and he had still known that i liked him, but he ended up liking me and we went out..... hope this gives you some confidence =)

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JaLye answered Sunday February 10 2008, 8:17 pm:
well, if a guy is friendly with you, it can mean that he is just friendly with you and he can see only friendship in you. just because it's the opposite gender doesn't necessarily mean that it has to be anything more, even though it may seem like it in your eyes.

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