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hey my name is tiny. I am here for you feel free to talk to me about everything and anything. I will not jugde you because you are who you are. I love to help others and listen to people talk about this that bound them. Im not God but i can try my best to help you and give you the best advice. Feel free to comment or send me things that bother you names arent neccisary.

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Hey, i need help on flirting!!! how do i make myself more comfortable around guys and how should i flirt with them 2 make (him) like me more??!?!!?

Thanksssss :))))))) (link)
you should just be YOURSELF......Because that is all you can be
~tinyxoxo
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if a guy asks if you masturbate, will he think its like "hot" if you say you do. i do, but like i dont want to say so if its like a turn off lol. idk. this is a weird question but its anonymous. do i answer yes or no ? (link)
well i think that you feel comfortable with the boy to tell him then tell him. Mastrebation is normal everyone has done in there life one time or another. So if you dont feel comfortable telling him then do so. if not keep it to yourself
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My man says if I love him I will give him head, what should I do (link)
girl you need to leave him...hes not a real man...he dont repect the word love if he says that to you....DONT DO IT!!!!!NO REPECT FOR YOU AND THAT WILL ONLY LEAD TO GUILT AND HURT..AND WORST....SELF-DISRESPECT
tinyxoxo


16/f

i masturbate often but always by clitoral stimulation and never by putting anything in my vagina.
im a virgin and im scared to masturbate that way because i dont want to hurt myself.
help? thanks! (link)
well there is no right or wrong way to masterbate do what pleases you and if it doesnt feel right to you they dont do it. you should start with on to two fingers since you are a virgin..they graually adding more and when you finger yourself press your fingers down so that your vagina isnt so tight each time you do it...

tinyxoxo


15/f
Well,here's my story...after so many failed relationships(I've been hit,cheated on,lied to...the list goes on),in a row,I began to realize I couldn't care less about having a boyfriend.Now,when some of my friends even mention love and relationships,I feel sick...it makes me wanna throw up... I don't believe in love anymore...the more love I gave,the more I ended up being hurt.Don't say "You're really young and you have a life ahead of you".... I know that... but I've been disappointed too many times.I've even developed a fear of entering a relationship ever again.I feel as though my heart is slowly turning to stone.Then yet,deep down,I want to find someone who will love me unconditionally...but I keep closing up,more and more as time goes by.Also,I've tried to date a few guys but we broke up because I was too suspicious.I mean,how can I trust anyone after being cheated on so many times? Am I supposed to feel like this? (link)
well you are still young...but know how you feel ive been in you predicament...but in all reality you have to look change yourself. Make your morals higher put up a wall increase your standards..and if they arnt willing to come thru with what you want,need,and expect then you drop them. Your in this to find love for you someone to make you happy and please you not bring you down and batter you. Good luck..love isnt just gonna happen you have to extend your search sometimes..hope all goes well with you. If anything else feel free to tell me anything else you need help on
True love respects and waits!!

Blessings,
tinyxoxo


14 female;
so i'm bisexual & i don't know how to tell my mom. She's so open. i have a boyfriend & were sexually active & she knows & shes okay with it, as long as we use condoms. & i have my boyfriend so i dont want a girlfriend but i need to tell her. i told her about some of my bi friends & she says "how do girls your age know if theyre bi or not?" because people have having sex at younger ages. so how do i tell her? (link)
i think that you should wait awhile before you tell her. reason being your mind could change..this could be a phase that your going thru so it could just be a moment and then its over so before you tell your mom think about wether you wanna be a bisexual or not because i can tell you from experiance that its something that you need to be sure you are and that your not playing games because if you thought that boys were horriable and rude when it comes to dating then you havent dated a female...

think wisely,
tinyxoxo


14 f.. bf 16 m
WEll..to start off..my bf isn't a perv, or just want's me for my body. We have been dating for awhile and i know that he doesn't just want me for sex..we both like to talk about it..but it's not ALL we talk about. We talk about how he can't wait until he gets to see me next year, and he wants to spend the rest of his life with me. He acutally proposed to me..its not offical of course...>.< he just asked "dont freak out, but i want to ask you something." So i said " ok?" and he said "what would you say..if i asked you to marry me." My heart started racing and I felt myself get all shaky. i said " i would say yes." than he said So..will you marry me..??" I said " yes." Than he freaked out and was like "omg, finally somone who wants me for me..and who won't ever leave me." Many girls before left him..and one ..;/ his first love..well she died in a car crash..and now he has nightmares of me leaving him. I don't ever want to..but to the question is..i sent a sexy picture to him..he told me i didn't have to at all..and he could wait..but i wanted to..i wasn't naked..i was hidden in his jacket..u could see the middle of my chest thts it. I can trust him with that stuff though..he never broke my trust in anyway. We have been dating for a while now..months..he knows the exact date ..hha I don't remember..i told him thats all im sending nd he said "good because i don't need these.I can wait for as long as you want me to." He's very good to me..we do..have the phone sex..>.< rofl but it was my idea..and it just..happend..We both are sexual like that..and we only share that stuff with each other. He is so much like me it's surprizing. He doesn't have a good homelife..;/ he doesn't have any parents so he lives with his grandmothers and they don't want him. Even though he makes them dinner and cleans the house and what not..he just recently got grounded for no reason..right after making dinner for them. He respects them..and does what they say..he also had a rule where he can't talk past 9..so he has to sneak to call me. ;/ I'm really stuck on this guy i just recently got dentention because teachers saw him hugging me , nd giving me a quick peck after school. He always use to meet me after school, but now he doesn't because he doesn't want to risk me getting introuble because of him. He cried and cried after it ..it really made him feel bad. ;/ You can tell he cares about me..and i wouldn't be the same without him.

Do you think we are doing ok..in our relationship.. ?I always get upset because my parents and his..try to split us up because of our age diffrences..>.< makes us both upset.

please don't be harsh..>.< thanks you.
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okay girl you got a hella good man someone who puts his life at risk for you dispite the consequences. I believe you need to stick by his side and love each other the best way you can. You guys are pretty mature compared to most relationships here out in the world so keep it going because if you do the you guys will get better and better. I also say that the whole sex thing that you shouldnt rush it because if you do the it might make him uncomfortable...but other then that keep it up..like i said hes a good man and you shouldn let others stop REAL LOVE from happening. Besides its not the age that matters its the thought and time you put in. age is only a number. hope you guys say together and continue to be in love.

Blessings,
tinyxoxo


People always talk about how horrible being pregnant is. They always say how hard giving birth is, and how having a child completely ruins your life you knew it. And I understand all the bad effects having a child might have. But someone please tell me about the good parts. I've heard that giving birth doesn't always hurt and having a child isn't as hard as they say. I guess it just depends on the person. But someone who has experience with this, please enlighten me. Thanks! (link)
okay yes birth may be painful but think about the joy of having you own child. who doesnt go AWWWW!!!! when they pass new borns or babies in the store. I think that everyone is diffrent and that your experiance is not the same as everyone else. If you still have second thoughts about child birth then




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