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Another pregnancy question
People always talk about how horrible being pregnant is. They always say how hard giving birth is, and how having a child completely ruins your life you knew it. And I understand all the bad effects having a child might have. But someone please tell me about the good parts. I've heard that giving birth doesn't always hurt and having a child isn't as hard as they say. I guess it just depends on the person. But someone who has experience with this, please enlighten me. Thanks!
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well i have yet not have a kid of my own but i took a child development class and yes its true that its painfull going through that stage of birth but once you see your kid its the most precious thing on earth so i just think people are trying to scare you for you wont make the mistakes they did
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When people say things like "having a child ruins your life" they mean having a child while YOU'RE still a child will ruin your life. Having a child with someone you love, when you are in a long-term, committed relationship, can be rewarding. But every child needs a father and deserves a stable home. To bring a child into this world just because you want to be a Mom, or have some kind of hole in your heart you think needs to be filled, is just selfish. And yes, having a child IS as hard as "they" say. What makes it worth it is sharing the whole experience with someone you love, knowing you have created a loving home and a solid situation for such precious gift.
P.S. - Indeed, I did make an assumption. Your question sounded very "young" to me and I responded with my instincts. Which is always a risk when you are responding to the written word. If I was mistaken I apologize and stand corrected. Nonetheless I hope you were able to take something positive from my response. Good LUck
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okay yes birth may be painful but think about the joy of having you own child. who doesnt go AWWWW!!!! when they pass new borns or babies in the store. I think that everyone is diffrent and that your experiance is not the same as everyone else. If you still have second thoughts about child birth then
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